Girl has boyfriend. I did my thing. She likes me. What now?



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 03, 2013 2:28 pm 
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Long story short. I met this girl. Next day some guy asked her out. *Like that's gonna stop me...*
I started talking to her alot did good with the whole pua thing. She mentions how her boyfriend is a pussy and she's probably gonna break up with him. Two days ago I called her we had a SIX hour conversation and she kept trying to get me to say I liked her by saying Oh who's the girl you like *Pshhh yeah right* Then she was like why don't you ask the girl if she likes you? *Lol why not* I was like Do you like me? SHe was like, Yeah I like you. I told her I liked her too. *Compliance* Asked her to hangout sometime, I'd like to get to know her better. She was ecstatic about it :D . She couldn't come because she had to watch her little brother. Next day comes, she asks if i wanted to see kickass with her, her brother and her sister I said yeah.
Hung out last night. Lots of verbal and non verbal flirting. :wink:

Had her call me last night. Asked her if she was staying or leaving her boyfriend.
She says * I don't know... sometimes i feel like breaking up with him then i dont know..*
I said *Alright, look, I don't mean to pressure you or anythings, it's your decision, BUT, if you're still with him by friday. I like you, but I'm no second option. I'm not waiting. She said she understands.
Now what. Should I just wait and see what happens? Talk to other girls?
Don't get me wrong I REALLY like this girl. Had a dream about us cuddling last night *haha im such a bitch for that* Anything I can do to benefit me with her? All help would be gladly appreciated.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 03, 2013 8:50 pm 
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She wanted to be with me but now she's mad at me for telling this girl what this guy has been saying about her. She didn't want me to tell her cuhz the guy would get mad at her. Fucking stupid but of course she's gonna take his side cuhz she's known him for years and me for a couple weeks. He's filling her head with all this untrue shit and lying to her just so I can't be with her cuhz he thinks I tried getting with his ex girlfriend when that wasn't the case at all. She won't even talk to me. Women are fucking stupid.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 04, 2013 5:00 am 
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So i fixed things with the guy that doesn't like me. He even helped me out and told her I'm a good guy and everything. She told him she's hearing things about me from other people. *This could be cuhz we have a relatively small school so they might've seen me gain numbers before.*I like her so much and I wish I could tell her but I dont want her to lose attraction. What should I do? She won't tell me who's telling her the rumors. All she told me was something 3 nights ago before she was mad at me saying some of her friends say to stop talking to me cuhz im trouble or im a player. Fact of the matter is, the last girlfriend I had was in february, she was also my First kiss, First fuck, First everything, haven't been with nobody since as I prefer one good girl over a bunchh of random ass hoes. What should I do? Just wait it out is what I think my only option is but is there anything that can benefit me? Please help :(


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 04, 2013 4:10 pm 
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You seem really needy. First thing I would do is freeze out for a few days, don't think about her, don't text her unless she texts you first. Then just be flirty funny. If you ASK if she likes you, you seem insecure. If you ASK if she wants to stay with her boyfriend, you are putting him as more important than you.

1. Leave her BF out of it. Why does it even matter?
2. Initiate text in a few days in a funny flirty way. Text her back at slower intervals than she replies. If she doesn't reply with more than one word, then dont respond. Keep your texts short, sweet and with punch- leave out filler or too explanation/clarification. After you have made her LOL a few times, text "I'm going to the movies tonight", she'll reply with interest, probably asking about the movie or another Q. Answer. Get a reply. "You can tag along if you're a good girl."
3. Be funny, KINO, playful when you meet next. Do NOT talk about her BF. If she brings him up, "I have a BF, we shouldnt be doing this", deflect smiling "I know what you mean, I have a cat, obligations...".
4. Keep KINO going as long as she is receptive. Escalate appropriately. K-Close.

Her BF doesn't matter. Don't even talk to her about relationships until you have F-Closed her a few times. If you want a relationship after that- dunno why you would- have fun!

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 12:11 am 
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^Thanks for the reply but I decided to just freeze out and not contact her at all. Last night she randomly sent me a text saying "Goodnight ur really a great guy I'm really happy that I was able 2 get 2 know u even tho it was just 4 a lil well Ima go to sleep goodnight" She obviously still likes me. I have not to responded to this message as i want to further push this "Fear of loss" but I have her for class tomorrow and I will say hi, ask what she's doing today. And assume she's already gonna say yes to my suggestion by saying "Oh alright cool, well let's me and you go to like Carls Jr later, and we'll sit down and talk" How does that sound guys?


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 6:13 am 
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HOW THE FUCK DO I DELETE THIS


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