Really like a girl iv known for about a year, we went out alot as friends and there was some flirting but i did not see her in that way, as time passed i started too really like her and told her, she did not feel the same and i told her we can't be friends and have not spoke in over 3 months. She sent me a long happy birthday text two days after my birthday and now i am confused.

I cannot be friends with this girl because i love her. There was a time where i am 100% sure she had some sort of feelings towards me and a lot of drunken sexual flirting while out, and she would get jealous when i talk to other girls and would step in and pretend i was her boyfriend.

I replied to the text with a thank you, she replied "pleasure" to which i have ignored, I am very good with girls and have no problem with confidence or talking to girls, this is the first girl i have fallen for and can't get her out of my head.

No you don't! You just want to fuck your dream princess.

Trouble is....you can't! You put your princess on that high pedestal, and now you'll never reach her.

The simplest solution? Cut her loose forever.

But I doubt you will do that.

When you put a girl on a pedestal in your mind, and start to think she is absolutely perfect. When you start to have feelings for her and get nervous around her, and hope she is attracted to you, because you are dependent on her. The consequences of this situation can be devastating.

Putting a girl on a pedestal in your mind usually happens when you first meet her, and get a lot of positive signs and flirting from her. You met a girl at school or maybe in a club, the place doesn't matter. You approached her and all went well, you got some positive signs and closed with her number, maybe you even set up a date with her. You come home that night and absolutely cannot stop thinking about her, and thinking about all the things she did, Worrying over her actions in your mind trying to decide whether she likes you or not. She may not have been perfect, I guarantee flaws in one way or another, but nevertheless when you think about her you begin to imagine perfection.

After thinking about her some more, you start to feel nervous when you think about her. You want to call her and talk to her so you can be reassured that she is still attracted to you. Soon you become dependent on her and really start to obsess over her.

Finally, dream come true, you have her in that perfect sexual situation, you have your chance!

BUT, she is such an unbelievable goddess, she is too perfect for such nonsense, YOU DO NOTHING!

These actions cause you to be nervous around her, and start being nice and giving in to her demands. You forget all your skills you learned and can hardly think when you are around her.

The opportunity arises again, you really want to, BUT YOU DO NOTHING!

Realizing that her attraction to you has disappeared, she finds some new cock that fits her pussy.

Your still hanging in there though, buddy, pal, nice guy that you are!

you snap and become angry at her, and she leaves you forever to be with the guy who out gamed you. Now you cannot stop thinking about her and how perfect she was, and that you cannot ever have her.

You finally get your shit together, stop thinking about her, and go fuck 10 other girls, KUDOS!

Now here she is, out of the blue singing Happy Fucking Birthday! (read; she has nobody stuffing her muffin just now)

FUCK,FUCK,FUCK There's all those feeling again! (girls just love to twist your dick don't they!)

Stop being a pussy and fucking BLOCK THEM!

She is not a Princess, she is NOT special. She is not DIFFERENT!

If you can not do this DO NOT CONTACT!

But if you can override, because you never know whether she now will be attracted to you or not, and keep a shit ton of girls in reserve, so you don't become dependent, because you never know what will happen.

Be flirty, show NOTHING but sexual intent, be BOLD! Be the BEAST you now are.

If you meet set yourself up so your only way out is to be a pussy, or a Tiger!

Make your MOVE! BE THE TIGER!

Let her chase you and want to be with you, let her know you are independent and don't need her.

If you find out she isn't attracted to you, don't go off on her, just brush it off and act like nothing happened and you don't need her, and also don't settle for any of that "We can still be friends" bull-shit they give you, cause that won't work out, just remove her from your life, because if no attraction is there, you shouldn't be sticking around with her. You should be fine if it doesn't work out because you have tons of girls that would die to have you, right? You are the man...the TIGER.

If you follow these steps, then this time you won't put her on a pedestal to begin with.

Most Dudes have to learn the lesson the hard way, but if you can prevent this situation from happening, you can save yourself a lot of time, trouble, and anger. Just don't become dependent on this or any girl, always know she is not perfect, you are the prize, you are the Man.

Good Luck.

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