Hello all in the PUA community!

My name is Braise, and I'm currently and AFC. I have little to no game right now, although I know that in the future I will be a great PUA. I'm new to the scene although I've been studying and doing my homework for the past month now. So far I've read "The Game", "Mystery Method",as well as studying tons of topics on the forum. I have so much to learn, but I can't wait to see what the future holds for me.

A quick background on me before I go further. I'm 25, and my currently number is just 1. I just got out of a 4.5 year relationship which was my first and only lay. Considering I had little to no game when I was in college, being in such a long relationship reduced that game to being non-existent. I haven't been laid since March, and I'm ready to do whatever needed to not just have sex, but be able to get over my Approach Anxiety, and to grow my choice of women to choose from. Hence, my new near obsession with becoming a PUA!

Today was my day 1 out in the field. I went along with my friend, Prowlr, who is also an AFC, but my PUA study buddy, and long time best friend. He is also out of a recent relationship, although his level of game is higher than mine, but it's still minimal. We were pretty stoked to get out and have our day 1, but we were pretty unsuccessful.

Starting out, we went to a local restaurant/bar/club that is usually pretty loaded with girls, although unbeknown to us, it was beer pong night, and it was about 80/20 ratio of guys to girls. We hung out there for about an hour and a half. We had a few drinks, walked around the place a few times, and didn't really see any good places to approach. There was a perfect 2 set sitting at the bar that I should have approached, but I broke the 3 second rule, and it got the better of me. Approach Anxiety is rooted deep within me which absolutely sucks. I keep thinking it's like jumping out of an airplane, and I have to just do it, but the first time is always the hardest.

We bounced that place and went to another popular spot in town. This place had a much better ratio, but the approach anxiety was still very strong. We saw a few girls (HB 8.5, 9.5) there that we also saw at the previous location which we talked to for a short bit. It was probably the closest we got to an "approach". I also saw an old friend from high school who I hadn't spoken to in years. When I saw her, she recognized me, but after a quick hug, she told me to wait while she took pictures of herself with the other friends in the set with her. I stood there for maybe like 15 seconds before I realized it was a DLV and walked away.

So, in the end, we didn't meet any of our goals aside from just getting out to the club (which is a minor victory in itself), but it was a let down that AA got the better of us. Being the optimist that I am, I am not discouraged at all in my endeavor in my journey to become a PUA, but merely I would love some tips and encouragement.

I have set some goals for myself in the next few nights that I want to accomplish:
1. Actually approach a set
2. Get a number close
3. Become more comfortable talking with others

All comments are welcome!

Hey

I'm in very similar situation: 25 yrs old, just after 3.5 year relationship and my game is pretty bad : huge AA and all that stuff.

I will be following ur diary , hope you can improve fast and get results that you want.

Good luck.

Hi all it's me, Prowlr. The name originated from how I act on the field, which in my opinion is bad game but still fun as hell (May seem creepy if I don't know anyone around on the dance floor). My top number is 13 which I feel is a solid number but I want to be a MPUA so I have a long ways to go and its not all about the number but also the quality.

My buddy Braise gave us all a run down on our first field test which was a good time but I feel I got something out of it which he left out. When me and Braise were scoping out the first bar we went to we went out side on the deck where all the smokers were. There I introduced myself to a random guy simply because I was bored and maybe looking to bum a cig Anyways we talked the guy seemed really cool and talkative but long story short was looking back it could be that and should be that simple approaching women. I may not have received any cigs but I do feel I should approach men and women alike especially if those men are Alphas and have women coming to them.

Thanks you all for advice or comments,

Dong long and prosper

Day 2 in the Field

So I finally made it out for my day 2 in the field. It has been a while since my last post. Although I haven't been able to go "in the field", I've been doing everything I can to work on my game. While on the forum, I found the Newbie Mission in which to say "Hi" to everyone. I made it out to the mall last week for about an hour and managed to say hello to a few people. The first was the hardest to do, but I could slowly feel it get a little bit easier every time. I work in a high volume restaurant, so I've been trying to talk with everyone I can that comes in. There, I can almost hide behind the fact that I'm essentially a hired gun since I'm paid to be friendly, but it gives me extra confidence being in my comfort zone.

That being said, I feel like I got a decent amount of practice before I went out for my Day 2. Today, my wing Prowlr and I went out to the local Renaissance Faire. Before anyone hates on the Renn Faire, what is better than a large social gathering with a ton of target rich environments, and with HBs strutting around in tight corsets? Being the nerd that I am, I was decked out in my costume which had a decent amount of peacocking involved. The day started out slow, but we were enjoying the faire and watching some shows.

My first approach was a funny one that set me up for the whole day. In the shopping district, there is a shop that sells dragon puppets with moveable parts. The HB7 that was in front of the stand was trying to attract business. She calls out to me.

HB7: Do you want to pet my dragon?

Braise: Sure.

I look and I see a small dragon sticking out the cleavage propped up by her tight corset. I reach out and I pet the dragon.

HB7: I meant the other dragon.

I didn't realize she had a larger dragon on her shoulder that she was moving around.

Braise: What can I say, I was drawn to this one.

HB7: That's my booby trap.

We both laugh and carry on conversation. She made some comments about my facial hair and how she wanted to twirl my mustache that's growing in. My one regret of the day was not getting this girl's phone number because I know I could have, but on the flip side, as I was walking away from the scenario, I felt so awesome because I pet her boob dragon and it made her laugh and flirt with me!

The day continued, and Prowlr and I started talking to everyone. Saying hi to random people, guys and girls, and walking around with confidence. One opener Prowlr thought up which we both began to use was "Do you dance gypsie?" We got so many funny reactions out of that, the best probably being, "No, but I'd like to." This was how we then started up our main game of the day. Prowlr used on line on a HB9 who was peacocked out and was carrying a whip. She smiled and whipped him playfully. We walk away, but we run into her again, but with her friend, HB8.5, about 30 min later. We engaged in conversation for a while, and HB9 put these yarn ties on our peacocked gear and says that they each grant a wish. We could tell that she was a very free spirited girl and quite possibly the female version of a PUA. Knowing this we tried to calibrate our game accordingly. We neged a few times, and even AMOGed a guy that tried to enter the set by asking to bum a cigarette off him. He gave us the last one in his pack and left shortly after. We then split ways with them, only to see them again before the faire was ending.

When we saw them again we made conversation, and they asked to get pictures with us. I used something I read on the forum in which I took a picture with HB8.5, who is now my target. I took the selfie of us together, and I looked at it and said, "hmmm, I think we could do better." She then puts her head on my shoulder and nuzzles up to me and I snapped the pic. That pic alone made me feel like the man! They asked if we wanted to smoke and that they would smoke us down, so we said sure and began to walk out. Walking out with these 2 HBs was an awesome feeling.

When we got to their car, we smoked a little, although I made sure not to smoke too much to affect my game. At this point we both isolated, and we talked for a good while. I tried to make some basic keno, but I know it's one of my next major areas of improvement. I didn't even realize until later that Prolwr made out with his target for a little bit at this point so much props to him! HB8.5 told me she was a professional makeup artist. She's 4 years older than me and told me she did lots of drugs back in the day, but no longer, which was why she didn't smoke with us. She is getting her license next week which she never got since she works in the city and relies in public transit. I had a genuine interest in this girl, and I still felt like the man that I was able to make it this far.

I've read a lot of things on the forum about PUAs genuinely enjoying the company of women which was how I felt here. I've always been so afraid of what would happen, but as I see it unfolding in front of me I become elated with joy knowing that it is not just possible, but it's happening. When speaking with Prowlr during the debrief, we were both amazed at how far we had made it, but when questioning, we agreed that it wasn't luck, coincidence, or a random event, however our hard work and studying that is finally showing results!

HB9 realized that she left a pair of boots she bought inside the grounds. At this point I feel like we should have left, but instead we ended up accompanying them back inside. They call us their "protectors". We walked back and said goodbye. I gave them both a big hug and said I'd talk to them later.

As of now, I have not texted 8.5, but I plan on doing it tomorrow early afternoon. Prolwr text HB9 and she text him back commenting on that she likes his confidence.

I had an awesome day out in the field, and I can't wait to get out again!

Let me know your comments!