| This it the first mission I have done in pick-up: walking into a mall and talking to girls with openers.
Today, I took a shower in the morning, and put on my new T-shirt and jeans, and even my new underwear. I had prepared five openers, I'll talk about my openers and what I've got from them.
1. "I am going to have a blind date, do you think my suit is OK?" After she answers me, I'll continue like this "my roommates told me I look like a gay in this suit, do you agree with that?" Her response should be laughing or astonished. then I'll say "maybe male and female get different opinion." and then I fake to walk away, at the same time, I'll tell her I'm very nervous about this first blind date. and then continue chatting with her.
I used this opener with four girls. When I came to the first girl, I was very nervous and my voice was low. I think this made her feel nervous. So after I asked her whether I looked like a gay, she walked away.
The second girl got the same response. But I knew I should continue. Then I got the third girl. She told me that I should wear a shallow T-shirt. After I told her I was nervous about my blind date, she told me to take it easy, and got away.
The forth one was nice to me. She said if I was nervous, she could accompany me for a while. But she is a HB4, so I thanked her and went away.
From these four, I learned that I should talk out loudly, and make the girl feel easy. Don't be afraid of the consequence, just let the talk flow.
2. "Hey, your T-shirt(or what else) is cute, where did you buy that? My sister has just got to the college, she is grade one and some days later it will be her birthday, so I want to buy that for her. But she is fatter than you, it is cute on you, but maybe not cute for her. Can you tell me what I should buy for her?..."
The consequence of this opener is better than the first one. I used it on four girls. The first two told me they bought on the internet, and the first one told me I should accompany my sister to buy her a present.
The third girl told me she bought it from her home town and about some advice of the present. She is HB3, so I thanked her and went away...
The forth girl was accompanied by two girls, and during the talk, we laughed. They didn't refuse to talk further, but I lacked words. I didn't know what to talk about after my opener. So I just gave up continue the talk.
I learned that girls with friends around them are easy to approach, and I will feel easier to talk with them. I think that is because they feel safe when they are not alone.
3. "Do I look like Huangbo(an ugly actor in my country)? My girlfriend told me that I looked like him, I was as ugly as him. So I put his picture next to my mirror. Everyday when I look the mirror, I'll compare me with him, I still wonder which it the same part. Do you think I'm better than him?"
When I talked with the first girl, I said my girlfriend broke up with me because of that. and suddenly, she turned away like I was gonna rape her. So when I got the second girl, I omitted this part. Then I went to two girls. They were amused and could not stop laughing and so was the forth girl.
I think this one is much better than former ones. I didn't keep on talking with them because I felt tired. I had walked for over an hour.
4. "Excuse me, I wonder should a person wash his/her face before brushing teeth. Can you tell me what do you think about this? I used to wash my face before brushing my teeth, but my roommate are reverse, so I changed..."
I used this on four girls, no one refused me(we talked at toothbrush shelves). But I think this opener is boring.
5. "Are you single(have no BF)? Cause I want to know whether beautiful girl often get single. I think they are picky on BF..."
I didn't use this one. I was too shy to say it out. I saw a beautiful girl, but I hesitated for maybe 20 minutes. This is the most difficult one for me. I had prepared for her response, and I had three ways to continue the talk, but...
I think the more beautiful a girl is, the more difficult it will be to accost her. I need more courage.
My final goal is to make love with girls I love. And my first goal is to have a cute girlfriend. If you are an experienced pick up man, can you tell me what I should do next or how can I overcome my fear to beautiful girls
I am a Chinese living in China, and my English is not very good, so less acronyms will be better for me.
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