Firstly, i want to say that there are some pieces missing to this story due to my excessive consumption of alcohol on this date i.e 4 pints of beer (i'm asian and can't drink haha). I'll try my best to recall the happenings of this night.

At the outset, i number closed her in 2 minutes, and as a friend because she was firm in telling me she has a boyfriend.

So i setup a date with this girl for either Thursday or Friday, but she tells me she's only free on Saturday. I wanna sarge on Saturday, and i'm going to Blackpool after. So we arrange to meet up after she finishes work on Thursday night, at 12am. Interesting~

We meet, go to Bluu bar in Northern Quarter. Date was pretty mundane chat at first, and she didnt make much eye contact. But whenever she did, i made sure i conveyed with my eyes that i wanted to fuck her brains out. Also, i enjoy doing this as a bit of push/pull & compliance testing: high five. I'll tell you why.

When she does or says something that i like, i reward her with a high five. soon, she begins chasing my validation. easy to slip into push/pull (my opinion anyways). Then when i high five her, i'll see if she holds on to my hand afterwards; its a classic compliance test. In this case, she always held on to my hand, and i made sure to throw hers away first.

I also qualified her on a number of things, and as we chatted bout those qualifications, i used the little points game that Style came up with i.e if she has done/does something that i appreciate i give her 10 points and take them away if she does something i dont. In this case, she has never played Pokemon despite being a geek. but since she watched it & had a little Pikachu doll, i gave her 5 points back.

She argued, wanting 7. i held the frame, saying, "6. You're not getting any more from me." And so continued the chasing (on her part). I saw her wearing a ring, she tells me she's engaged to her boyfriend. cool. I tell her the opening line of the Rings Routine, by Scott Thomas McKenzie of the Stylelife Academy. Just cause i felt like it; it was congruent at the time & got me some awesome early kino playing with her fingers which led to holding hands.

I remember she was very feisty, what with being Russian & all, but i cannot remember exactly how. All i remember is i had to remain unreactive and break rapport ALOT.

Then came the point when there was a bit too much comfort (and i'm very proud i can calibrate now yay!) so i had to spike it up. i told her to stand up to see how tall she was, and we were holding hands & gazing into each others eyes while we stood. we were in very close proximity. we then sat down, and got even more drunk.

They play AWESOME music at Bluu, 80's funk n pop. I took her hands and got her to dance with me. Slow dancing to ABBA, wow. haha. it was heavy sexual tension i tell you, with my hands on her ass and hers tight round my neck. again, we got really close to making out. but the song changed, i didnt like the new one, so i sat back down, just as we were nose to nose.

Bluu closed soon after, so as we were walking towards another bar, i take her hand. Now, as i set up the date, i say we're going to Black Dog Ballroom. She says no. That nite, as we left Bluu Bar, i ask her why she said no. She says, " Because everytime you go to BlackDog you are almost sure to go home with someone. Lets go there." What an awesome chick.

As we were walking arms round each other, i just pull her in and we make out. Sexual tension was so high, the make out was really intense. As we were reaching a peak intensity if you will, i pulled away. She did the funniest thing. She went, "AAARGHHH" then hit me on my chest saying, "You cant do that!!!!" How bout that for some push/pull. lol.

we enter the bar, get drinks, sit down & continue the question game, which i forgot to mention we started at Bluu. It was all getting a bit sexual now, and thank God i study biology because talking about sex in the animal kingdom really ups the sexual vibe of the date so much.

We talk bout monogamy vs polyandry (multiple sexual partners), and she tells me she believes in marriage but only right at the end after you have had enough fun. She also says that at times it is boring when you are engaged to one person, and that its important to have fun (twinkle in her eye as she says this).

I qualify some more, and she says many things i appreciate. We graduate from high five rewards to make out rewards. Her tongue is mental. I can only imagine the blowjobs she gives; oooooohhhhh yeaaaaa~

Things are getting hot, and we are far away from my house. Besides, it was 4 am and theres no one around. So where did i plan to fuck her?

Where else, but the Manchester Daygame Dojo. Yes, i wanted to fuck her on Market Street. The cold grey cobblestones of Market Street. Mind you, it seemed like a great idea when drunk as fuck. We walked arm in arm down Market St under the pretence that i'm walking her home.

Hey, Jake Traynor, remember our bet bout who gets the first street make out? well, i won. if 4 am counts. hahaha.

So yeah, we make out a lot, she's draggin me to her place, but i'm staying put. She was really feisty. After awhile i thought, fuck fucking on the street, lets go to hers. As we walk past Selfridges with its glass panes, she says something to which i challenge/neg her hard. Attraction is created in the push. She flings herself against me, pinning me against the cold glass of Selfridges main entrance, making out in hot, steamy, intense fashion. It was almost foreplay, minus oral or fingering or handjob.

So i push her off as we walk back to her place some more. At her building entrance she tells me, "My boyfriend is sleeping, but he goes to work at 8. Do you want to wait 4 hours?"

WTF.

Seriously, WTF. She lives with her boyfriend????????? And she's taken me to her place?????

Obviously i don't go in. i go home.

Now, when i woke up today after last night, i am actually quite proud of myself. i almost successfully closed a girl with a boyfriend. A hot russian girl from latvia as well. With a classy fashion sense & great tits who can cook & plays video games.

Most importantly, she's the 3rd girl i saw romantically in the space of a week. I have never had this before. I am very happy. I love game so much.

Now, after the hard escalation last night not leading to sex, i was prepared to lose her due to buyers remorse, although we did say we might meet on saturday morning. (hopefully just for sex)

However, i pinged her today, and she replied. she's still as invested & compliant as before over text, so i'm thinking... ITS ON!!!! haha.

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Shane, Executive Instructor for Social Zen.
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