Day 71 of challenge (Tuesday 16th July)
Style day 13
Read the issue of Cosmopolitan front to back,
First. note that women are just as desperate as men to get a date, keep a mate, and avoid rejection. Next, find an interesting topic of conversation inspired by an article, column, letter. or advertisement.
Once you choose a topic. comment on it to a %%Tomlin seated nearby or wandering past. Of she's walking, speak to her while she's still coming toward you—if you see her back, you're generally too late.) Show her the story in the magazine, and tell her your reaction to it or ask a question about female behavior based on it.
If she responds favorably, then congratulate yourself. You've just generated your own spontaneous routine. If she doesn't, keep reading and And another interesting topic. Repeat with a different woman.
If she happens to ask why you have"; copy of Cosmopolitan. tell her the truth: Someone recommended reading it to learn more about women.
There's no need to continue the conversation afterward. But if she's enjoying the interaction, feel free to proceed by using one of your openers. personal stories, or disqualiflers. Your mission is complete once you've talked about the magazine with three different women.
When you return home, add any Cosmopolitan routine you successfully used to the stories list you started yesterday.
So today I had 3 dates planned
Date 1 (From field report day 68, Girl on her Break): 30 minutes before the date she said she couldn't make it, however we rescheduled. Here is our text convo;
Me: you were cute and fun to talk to, lets do it again in a little bit.
Her: Haha most def :] xxx
me: How about Tuesday afternoon we meet in town.
Her: Yeah I start work at 6 Tuesday. So could meet before I start.
Me: Meet 3pm at xxx :].
Her: To easy see you then :].
Her: Hey you I cant make it into town today, are you free at all tommorrow?
Me: What are you doing thats more important than seeing me! Depends what time you were thinking?
Her: Haha, trust me I'd rather be seeing you. I had to work at my other job for a couple of hrs today :[. I have tommorrow off, so anytime is good.
Me: I can pick you up and we will go for a drink, if you like.
Her: Yeah sounds good what time?
Me: 4pm, What suburb are you from?
Her: xxxxx, so im from xxxx.
Me: the Ghetto! Hit me up with the address.
Her: Haha thug life forever :], xxxxxx.
Me: Looking forward to it, cya then :].
Her: me too .
Instant Date with traveller: In the mall I was having trouble finding anyone to approach, untill I saw a interesting girl walk past, however I still wasn't sure she was of age. I went up and Introduced myself, quickly discovering her age. She mentioned she was interstate and wasn't her for long, I knew travelers are the most keen for instant dates. So it took her to get food, then we travelling around the city, I kissed her, didn't try to do anything else. I also asked her about an article from Cosmo, that was about a girl going on a disaster date, we both found it funny. If anyone is curious here it is;
Underwear Overshare
“A few months after I broke up
with my boyfriend, a cute guy asked
me out, and apprehensively, I said
yes. One of my friends came up with
a great plan for me: wear granny
panties on the date but keep a sexy
pair in my purse to ensure that I’d
go home with him only if I decided it
was a good idea, since I’d be forced
to change in a bathroom. I took her
advice and arrived on the date
wearing a huge, beige pair. We
hit it off, so halfway through
dinner, I excused myself to change.
I had taken off my jeans and had
the bloomers half way down my
butt when the door creaked open
and I saw my date staring at me.
Turns out, I forgot to lock the door…
of the men’s room! I had no choice
but to explain the situation. But
somewhere between seeing my
granny panties and my saying
that I wanted to take things slow
after being hurt by my last
relationship, he clearly lost interest,
and I never talked to him again.”
—Melissa G., 25
At one point on the date I had to goto the toilet, and somehow my phone called the girl I was going on the date with next, she was really confused and sounded like she was asleep, then after I came out the toilet like 10 minutes later there was that awkawrd moment the girl knew I was gone that long. Is it better to break the awkwardness by saying something like "just took a huge shit" or to just ignore it, Simple Pickup say something like less awkward is more awkward and more awkward is less awkward, let me know what you guys think!! Doubt I will see her again, but I got her number anyway!
Date 2 with French Girl: I gave this girl back her scarf, however when I met up with her she had 2 guys with her, at this point it was obvious to me this wasn't going to be the date I planned. She also revealed she had a boyfriend, despite the fact I previously made out with her, and her inviting me to goto her house previously!!!? So I bailed pretty quickly and thought Id just go see my next date early.
Date 3 regular girl: Got to her house, read some of the Cosmo with her, she got annoyed with me about it actually, shes really not into the Cosmo stuff at all. I was at her house for a good 6 hours, for some reason I am getting less and less attracted to this girl every time I see her.... I kind of feel bad about it, as I know she is way more into me than I am into her! She also had bad breath which turned me off, how often do you guys have this problem?
Also the date I had yesterday (cute girl from day 70),
texted me this after the date;
Thanks for yesterday! Had a good time
However I didn't think she did, she was kind of shy, and when I went to hold her hand she said she didn't want too! Do you guys think she is just trying to be nice, or rather I am seeing it wrong, and she wants to take it slower, I would be willing to do this just because she is so attractive!
Bradicus out
Day 72 of challenge (Wednesday 17th July)
Style day 14
Today you're going to add the rings routine to your growing repertoire.
Go any place where people gather—cafe, bar, park. museum, department store—and start a conversation using one of your new openers.
Afterward, as you learned on Day I I pretend that you're about to leave. Then spontaneously notice the ring on her linger (or the lack thereof) and transition into the routine. Until you reach the hook point, and you're sure she's intrigued, continue to pretend as if you're about to leave at any moment.
If she's with friends. don't forget to include them in the conversation.
Her reaction to the rings routine doesn't matter. Whether she's fascinated or bored, you're doing this only to practice demonstrating value. Remember. these routines work best when performed in the spirit of curiosity and fun. not as a way to make an impression or get her to like you. As long as you're saying it and she's still standing there, you're completing the mission.
Feel free to continue the interaction if it's going well. If you don't know what to do after this routine, it's okay to politely make your exit. In the following week, you'll be given tools to continue the conversation, amplify the connection, and exchange numbers.
After you have practiced the rings routine on three separate women. your field mission for today is complete.
QUICK-START GUIDE
■Thumb = Poseidon. representing individuality: independence, and iconoclasm
■Index = Zeus. representing dominance, power, and energy
■Middle = Dionysus, representing irreverence. rebelliousness, and decadence
■Ring = Aphrodite. representing love, romance, and connection
■Pinky = Ares, representing conflict, assertiveness, and competitiveness
■No Ring = Hermes, representing friendliness. helpfulness, and ad-vent umustless
PERFORMANCE SCRIPT
g. I hint: to ask before I run: 1k'hy did you choose to wear that ring on that particular finger?
HER_ No particular reason.
You Interesting. Do you always wear rings on that same finger?HEW I guess. Must of the time.
YOU. The reason I'm asking is because I have a friend who's a spiritual type, and she just taught me that the finger you choose to wear your rings on actually says something about your personality. I don't know if l totally believe it. but she nailed my personality pretty accurately.
If she's not wearing any rings, use this alternative: 1 have to ask before Irun: I notice you're not wearing any rings. Do you usually wear rings?" Then continue with the paragraph above, but say. She just taught me that wearing
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rings on certain lingers, or making the choice not Lti wear rings, actually say ssomething about your personality."
YOU In ancient Greek culture, each one of the mounds at the top of the palm was represented by a different god. And people back then would wear a ring on the associated linger to honor that particular god.
Now go through her different fingers one by one. if it seems like you havetime, Salve till' linger her ring is on for last to build intrigue.
You: For example, the thumb represents Poseidon. the god of the sea. And he was very independent. f fe was the only god who didn't live on Mount Olympus. And the thumb kind or stands apart From the other lingers. So people with thumb rings are generally independent thinkers who tend to do their own thing. They don't follow trends:they like to set their own.
The index finger is represented by ZeLIS, the king of the gods.And it represents power and dominance. Just like Ishen parentsscold children, they always wave the index linger. So people with aring on this finger generally haw an inclination to take charge.
If she says that the finger her ring is on doesn't fit her personality. tell herthat people sometimes choose those lingers because they're subconsciouslyworking on cultivating that particular attribute or because they're attracted topeople with that attribute.
YOU The middle finger is represenrd by Dionysus. the god of wine andpartying, l le was a very irreverent god. And he liked to free peoplefrom their inhibitions. So if you have a ring there, it means you tendto do whatever you want lthout depending too much on what oth-ers think. You can he an instigator sometimes. So it kind of makessense that it's the Finger people use to swear.
Yimr ring finger is. of course, represented by Aphrodite. She wasthe goddess of love, and that's supposedly why we wear weddingrings on that finger. Interestingly. it's the only finger that has a vein
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that goes straight to the heart without branching off. So when some=
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one puts a ring on that linger. they're actually making a direct con-nection with your heart.
If she's comfortable enough with you to allow light touching, you can holdtip her hand or touch her lingers as you do this. If she'• shown more interest,you can even trace the line of her vein from her Finger up her arm.
YOU: The pinky is represented by Ares, the god of war. That's why yousee mobsters wearing pinky rings. It represents conflict. When peo-ple put the ring on themselves, back then it meant they were in con-flict with themselves or had some inner turmoil. If it was given as agift, that often meant there was an element of conflict or competi-tiveness with the giver beneath the surface.
If she's not wearing any rings, add the following:
YOU: People who didn't wear rings were aligned with I lerines, who wasthe messenger of the gods. Ile represented exotic travel and wealth,and loved the best of everything. But he wasn't greedy, Ile wasknown for his giving nature, and was the most helpful of the gods.I le was also the most adventurous. So people with no rings tend tobe open minded, and enjoy travel and being around others.
So today my date flaked again for the 2nd time....
Her: Hey you, I'm so sorry I've been called into work . Are you free another time soon?
me: Does your work always do this? How about after work, otherwise Friday.
Her: Not always. But winter and everyone is getting sick, or so they say. I don't start work till 9PM Friday so that could work xx
Me: Same thing but 3pm on friday then.
Okay So I met up with the General, he told me more about the rings routine. We ended up going to his old hostel to drink beer, we snuck it in his laptop bag. We noticed a cute girl sitting down, we sat down on a couch adjacent to where she was. I noticed her diary and her Ipad where the same colour, so I mentioned this to her. Also I guesses she was German, The general guessed she was Dutch, she said that the General was right. I did the rings routine on her, however I was too far away to touch her hands, so this hardly counted. She left to go make some food, she left her stuff on the couch, so I decided to hide it under the couch, and tease her about it when she came back.
When she came back, The General started speaking Dutch to her, then she said she didnt know what he was talking about as she was German, this confused as, before she said she was Dutch, we teased her about this. I sat down next to her, and tried to convince her to come to the highway with us, however she was too shy, no idea if I got her number, as I cant find it in my phone... The General took a photo while we were talking.
After this I number closed a girl in the kitchen making food, however I cant find her number either!! We headed outside to drink some more beers in the car, The General asked if there was anyone around, without looking I said "nope" he then started peeing, a girl walked right into him, and was a little shocked then laughed, he told me off for not checking. Then we noticed she was with another cute girl, I chatted her up quickly and got her number before they drove off.
So when we got to the highway, I was very drunk, and started drinking more, I remember running the rings routine of a few people, however I dont remember exactly what happened, I ended up getting kicked out for smoking inside, I funny thing is I dont actually smoke. Then heres a video of me attempting to walk back in;
I didnt get let back in, so ended up getting really stoned, I dont remember anything after I had weed. I woke up at my friends house at 9am thinking "FUCK MY CAR IS IN TOWN", luckily I didnt get a fine.
Bradicus out
Day 73 of challenge (Thursday 18th July)
Style day 14 (Doing again)
So I wanted to do more of the rings routine, due to being so unaware of what I was doing yesterday! Also today I had a date but I flaked her as I CBF going!
Set 1: I opened a 2 set, ran the rings routine on my target, however I opened directly, which kind of makes the rings routine redundant, as its good for starting keeno, without showing interest, however I showed my interest in the opener. On top of that I screwed up the routine and forgot most of it on the spot, which led the girl to not really understanding what I was talking about, and her friend pulled her away. Later I reopened with Nivoli, however she was very unreceptive, the other girl seemed much more exciting, however Nivoli was talking to her. After he said he would of happily swapped targets....
Set 2: I saw a 3 set, before I was able to open and work on my target, Deej opened and cleary had first preference on the hottest girl. So I later came In with Nivoli, I ran the rings routine, this time I did it alot better, I feel like I didnt do anything wrong, however my target was shit testing the shit out of me. Saying stuff like "you are too young for me how old are you", My answers were fine, as Im sure I was unphased, when a girl shit tests normally she is interested, but isnt sure yet so she shit tests you. However with this girl It didnt matter, I passed the shit tests, still unreceptive, I probably should of went for a killshot!
Set 3: At the bar, I went upto a girl whom was with her friend, opened then ran the rings routine on her, she looked uncomfortable, at the time I really didn't care, so I just kept going, It was fun to see a girl getting uncomfortable without actually caring. However she wouldn't actually leave, she kept facing me, but kept poking her friend to help her. I pretended I didn't realise she was doing this, however I was very aware, and was self amusing for me. I ended up walking off anyway as I saw a cute girl I wanted to talk too.
French girl: I was walking through the beer garden, when I saw a cute foreign girl walk past, foreign girls are often very fun. I held my hands up in the air, and looked at her, she stopped so I grabbed her hands and began talking to her. Shortly we started dancing together, she had some very interesting dance moves she showed me! After a bit she walked off, and was talking to some guy, they got very close, I had the feeling this was her boyfriend or something. Later she came upto me and pulled me away from my friends, and led me to the dance floor. I hate it when girls lead and do this, as it takes away some value as a male, however it was okay was all in fun. Ended up getting her to show me how to "French Kiss" even though I aready know, due to a another French girl already showing me. Heres a photo of us on the D floor;
After some dancing she ran off to go back to her friends, then later pulled me away from my friends again! This girl was showing more dominance than me grrrr! Anyhow After some sexy dancing, I number closed her, I dont think the other guy was her boyfriend, It was probably some chode thats stuck in the friendzone, she didnt look very happy when she was with him.
Weird girl: I went upto a girl walking past with my usual opener "you are adorable, had to talk to you". Blah blah blah, I do the rings routine, she is compliant, hold her hands, put them around my shoulders, have my hands around her waists. Go to kiss her she rejects me, talk to her for a bit longer, then she walks off. Then I talk to my friends, she comes back over and says get me away from that guy hes creepy. My friends wisely move off so I can isolate her again, she has her arms around me, I kiss her on the cheek, she saying something like "im not that easy", I respond with im not going to kiss you, then bite her neck, she giggles, then I say "now close your eyes Im gonna kiss you" then I kiss her. I then notice the French girl walk past, ditch this set, as the French girl was cooler, then after I come back and try to number close this girl, and it fails hard.... I guess I blew it by showing interest in too many women!
Other than this the night was full off harsh rejections, something I am quite familiar with!
Bradicus out
Day 74 of challenge (Friday 19th July)
Style day 15 - Cold reading
The challenge wasn't so clear to me today, so I decided I would just try to use as much cold reading as possible in my approaches, without overdoing it.
Stunning girl who knows about the game: While I was walking down the mall with andre3000, I noticed a girl whom could be potentially hot like 40 meteres away, I was tying to convince andre3000 to approach, so I said to andre3000 "Im going to approach that girl over there" Then I ran over too her. I jumped infront of her, immediately I could see she was attractive as fuck. I said something like "I liked your style so I had to come over and talk to you", she was hesitant and said "Oh, im in a rush". However her body language indicated she wasn't moving anywhere, I made a comment on her style, then gestured her to grab my hand, which she did, then I went to spin her but she seem to go for the spin.
She then asked me "have you seen the pick up artist", I told her I knew about pickup artists, she then mentioned the TV show with Mystery. I then did a little show for her, pretended to reopen her with a opionion opener, then body rocked out, did it over the shoulder. She giggled and said something like "OMG thats what they do on the tv show!". I then did the rings routine on her, and started holding her hands, then I explained to her that was part of the method, and she got a little bit giggly, and retracted her hands. I then used a RTC(real time constraint), pointing out my friend andre3000, whom was watching, and saying I couldn't talk for much longer. Number closed her, and got her facebook, but she mentioned she was "seeing" someone, but she still seemed pleased, before I left I added her of facebook, and mentioned to her that she looks different in person then her Facebook, and she said "but thats a good thing right?", is this her qualifying herself? I explained that she looked more real in person. (shes hotter in real life!!)
Here are some more photos of her;
Cute 3 set: I opened a 3 set, but before going in I told Deej, who I would probably be targeting. As soon as I got in I changed my mind, I got the best feedback from the one I told him I wasnt going to approach, and whom I thought was most attractive from afar, was different up close, however all of them were cute. I opened with an opionion opener, all of them were trying to talk to me, then Deej came in and took the girl I was talking to the most, understandly as I said that wasnt going to be my target! So I swapped straight away, to the girl on the right, andre3000 came over and spoke to the girl in the middle. I ran the rings routine on my new target, it was working very well, untill andre3000 jumped ship and left. The other girl started making it hard for me to talk to my target, where I had to address both of them, then at some point they lost interest, and said they both had boyfriends. So i just left.
Engineering girl: I approached a girl whom was in a large group of friends, so I decided I was going to try to isolate her straight away, assuming her friends would just talk to each other, and not really care. I was relatively correct in assuming this, I ran the rings routine on her, she called me out on it and said "sounds like bullshit" but was playing along anyway. I agreed with her, in that its bullshit, but said "I thought it was interesting", to which she agreed. We played the gussing game about what each other does. I tried to cold read her based on her favourite colour, this girl wasnt responding to cold reading that well, so I just started chatting normally. I number closed her after having to jump through some of her hoops, never a good thing to jump through a girls hoops! But i was in a hurry to grab her number.
The impossible 2 set, that wasn't that impossible: My friend came over to me, and girl over there in the 2 set, just blew me out straight away, you should give it a try. So I went over, and just tried to hand of god her, she didn't grab my hand, but she smiled. I then took a step in and spoke in her ear, saying something like "im going to dance with you". I then grabbed her hands, and danced with her, span her etc etc. I then tried to speed number close her, she said something like "I don't give out my number that easy". One of my friends came over to wing me with the other friend, but she didn't like it and pulled her friend away with her. Later I re approached her, danced with her again, then attempted to number close her again, but saying "Im gonna send you a funny text message", if you don't laugh, don't respond! This took off some of the pressure, and she gave me her number, before I left, I kissed her on each cheek, and attempted to make out with her, she rejected the makeout, but kissed me on the cheek instead.
Lonely German girl: While I was walking with my friends, Deej just entered a set, but noticed a cute girl walking alone, he said who is going to approach her, I counted down from 10, to give someone else the oppertunity to approach this gorgeous speciman, however no one did. So I went over, opened with "Priviet kak dola" which is Russian for hello how are you, she looked confused, then I said "you look Russian". She looked shocked and said " I am not Russian". I then guessed she was "german". I went for a walk with her, then it started pouring down with rain, so we stopped and talked more. I ran the rings routine on her, after a bit Kobe24 randomly came over and joined in, however it didnt hurt my set at all. I ended up number closing her, and as she is a traveller from Germany, I think its likely she will be wanting to hang out with a native Australian that knows what to do here!
Swish Game!: At swish me and Deej were dancing our asses off! For ages, over and over again, girls would come over and try to get our attention. But there was one in particular whom was better looking the rest, and was in love with Deej, he has something special on the dance floor. However when me and Deej went off to leave the dance floor, she was staring right at him, and held her hand out at him, he walked off dismissing her straight away. I knew he wanted her, but pretended her didnt to show higher value, I think this was a mistake, as she eventually gave up, as she assumed he was just disinterested in her, he should of just taken her home then and there
. Anyway Deej noticed a girl with her boyfriend, and he thought it would be funny, if I try to kiss her, im not chicked so I did it, Deej distracted the guy. While I danced with her, I tried to kiss her however it didnt work!!!
Shortly after this I danced with a lovely lady, she was fucking down, I ran the rings routine on her, then I noticed she was married..... grrr, she was a stunner, I went to kiss her knowing it probably wouldn't work, she went for it, but then I pulled away after seeing her husband staring at me in the eye. I literally bailed from this set after this! Me and Deej danced for hours, noticing 2 girls whom were keen on us, but they were with other guys, we danced knowing that eventually the girls would lose interest in their targets. After 2 hours it finally worked, we spoke to them, I knew the girls would think we were well interested after waiting for 2 hours. So I disqualified myself straight away, by saying I was gay, but otherwise I thought she was cute. This intrigued her, she kept coming closer, and I would just push her away. But after that I realised as soon as I went to "close her" I would show interest, and she would just blow me out.... The other girl that Deej was talking too had a boyfriend, so I figured it wasn't going to happen anyway, we then headed home!
Bradicus out
Day 75 of challenge (Saturday 20th July)
Style day 16
So today we're going to let go of our need for approval and we're going tomake people feel good about themselves. Don't go to bars looking for approach-able groups or cafés looking for lone women. Just go about your daily life. But
three times during the day, go out of your way to make someone feel good
about himself or herself.
When it says go about your daily life, that really is really pickup right now, jeeez!
The twins: So I opened a 3 set dancing on the dance floor, as soon as I opened with a compliment about one of their clothing, they all stopped dancing and gave me all of their attention, straight away I could tell this was a good set. I asked how they knew each other, 2 of them were twins, then I asked who was the bossy one, they said they were both nice. I ran the rings routine on them, this is where I noticed one of the twins was married, the other girl wasn't good looking, and it turned out the secound twin had a boyfriend. It didnt matter I was just there having fun, this was a great warm up, I got a photo with the 2 twins, turns out they were 33ish, I sware they didnt look older than 30 at all. I was very complimentary here, saying they looked alot younger and whatever they were doing was working, they mentioned they use anti wrinkling cream. I ended up leaving by saying I needed to get back to my friends, this wasnt due to the set getting bad, just me wanting to open more.
The two sisters: I approached more people on the dance floor, this time a 2 set, I cant remember what I opened with, however they were both fighting over my attention, one was giving more interest than the other, I ran the rings routine on both of them. After this I took them off the dance floor in hope to introduce them to The General, and give the General one of the girls, I knew It would be a peice of cake isolating after that. While looking for him we got photos. I couldn't find him, so I kind of looked silly walking around with the aimisly for a bit, so I left the set. The funny thing The General was watching us from behind the whole time!!!
The angry cockblocker: I opened another 2 set on the dance floor, one of them was giving me interest, and the other was giving me disinterest, and trying to pull away the friend. Straight away seeing the outcome, I went over to The General, saying "come wing me right now, if anyone can do this its you!", I explained to him what happened. So I go back over and talk to the girl, straight away, The General has the girls attention, but the girl is trying to cockblock whilst talking with The General, however The General knows this. The General talks while stepping back, so the cockblock has to move away from me and her friend, so she is unable to cockblock. I am able to numberclose her, and tell her a few stories in the mean time. It turns out these 2 girls are sisters, thats the 3rd set in a row with sisters!
The drunk sisters: I see a 3 set leaving the venue, as I am sitting down with my friends, I non-hesitantly chase after them. I jump infront of them and open, turns out in the 3 set, there are 2 sisters again! They are the 2 more attractive ones aswell, I quicky discover my target, Deej comes out, and gives me a sign to bail, however I still number close the target, I thought she had the cutest eyes! They were all pretty drunk, I know I could of gotten a makeout, but it would of been pointless really, being completely sober.
Speed game: Before we left the next venue, me and Deej agreed to speedily open and close 6 sets on the dance floor with a time limit of a few minutes on the dance floor. So I went around hand of godding girls, first few didnt take it, as This was probably value stealing from them, Next girl I pull in and make out with, after another few I get a number close but no makeout. Kind of pointless to mention this here, but hey I did!
Last set of night=best set of the night: So just before leaving the last venue with Chris, I spot 2 girls sitting down, and I say "before we leave why dont we try these girls?". I sit down with one and Chris sits down with the other, she was pretty receptive straight away, I ran the rings routine, she knew what I was talking about, she would finish my sentences like oh yeah thats Zeus, the king of the gods. This girl was no ordinary girl, she was pretty smart, when I first tried to number close her with the intention of going on a date, she said "I dont go on dates". Then I continued to talk to her, using some cold reading, and more general talk, she started qualifying herself to me. The whole time she was talking, she was leaning in very close literally right infront of my face, and she was pushing her legs into me, so I knew she was interested. I number closed her, we took some photos. After a while Chris left (he did well with the girl he was talking too, after having a resistant girl at the start), soon after I left, but I got a kiss, then I said "mmm that was a half assed kiss" she replied with "You will get a better one on our first date" Hinting she will go on a date with me, despite saying I dont go on dates earlier, after this I soon left, sensing the friend was gonna join in on the conversation, so I thought I should leave on a high!
Bradicus out
Day 76 of challenge (Sunday 21st July)
Style day 17
We've covered a lot of ground in the last sixteen days.
So let's pause and make sure you're up to speed.
Welcome to review day.
Your first task is to go over the Day 17 Briefing, which covers the eleven most common mistakes guys make when opening.
Make sure you're no longer doing any of them.
1.Don't wait to approach her until she's alone. Even iF she likes you,her friends will soon drag her away.
2.Don't stare at her For more than three seconds before approaching.Hesitate, and you'll either creep her OW or psych yourself out.
3.Don't be afraid to approach just because there are men in the group. Chances are she's with family. friends, or coworkers, riot a love interest.
4.Don't open a conversation by apologizing. Phrases like 'Excuse me."-Pardon me,' and "I'm sorry" make you sound like a bewir.
S, Don't hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead. start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as ask-ing the group to suggest namesk)r a three-legged cat or a store that sells 1970s memorabilia. Everyone loves to give an opinion.
6.Don't buy her a drink. You It Couldn't have to pay for her attention.
7.Don't touch or grab her right away. If she touches you, say. with smile, "1 ley now, hands off the merchandise."
El. Don't lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music'stoo loud or she's seated, simply speak up.
9.Don't initially ask what her name is, what she does for a living, orwhere she's from She's bored of talking about the same things with even; new guy she meets.
10.Don't focus all your attention on her when she's with other people. If you win over her friends, you'll win her.
11. Don't be afraid to violate any of these guidelines once you under-stand them and why they exist.
mission is to go out, approach a woman or group, and perform the rings routine again.
Take your time with the delivery and incorporate the cold-reading information you learned on Day 15. Try to get a feel for the personality and self-image of the person you're talking to. Add at least one of the cold-reading scripts you heard or read on Day 15 as well as an original line based on your own assessment of the person. Notice her responses to the material.
Your mission is complete once you've successfully demonstrated the rings routine, with additional cold reading. for two different women or groups.
First I want to mention, when girls recognise me now, for previous approaches its very different to how girls would recognise me. Now I get girls saying stuff like "Hey, you never messaged my friend", "hey your that guy that spinned me" etc, where-as before lots of the time girls would not be happy to see me, especially at the Duke of york. I think for the most part the big difference is the amount of interest I show straight away, being overly interested can scare off the girls.
So today started off at the Bay, I drove 2 girls to the Bay, while I was waiting for Deej, the girls went to the toilet and this brings the first set;
Outdoor girls: I went over to 2 girls sitting down, asked them "may I take a seat, I am waiting for my friends", I commented on what they were wearing, which began a small conversation. Soon as I knew it Deej was sitting down talking to the girl I was less focused on. So I began the rings routine on my target, talked about how she had no rings, and if this were for a reason. I noted she must be adventurous, aka Messenger of the gods. This cold read paid off, as she was a outdoor adventure instructor as well as her friend Deej was talking too. While I was talking to these girls, the 2 girls came out of the toilets and noticed us, however they walked right past, I was hoping they would come over to give me more social value.... I Mentioned how I love bear Grylls, etc etc. I was unable to number close her, she had a pretty serious boyfriend.
2 young silly girls: So I opened 2 young girls, immediately Deej came over to talk to the target, I told her I noticed something about her and wanted to talk to her, however I never told her what this was. I quickly transitioned into the rings routine, It was working quite well, she mentioned she was a Tafe student, I then said oh you are a hairdresser, this was a pretty bad cold read, however it worked as she was, she was shocked how I knew, but in reality it was a bit of luck, coupled with how young she was, plus she said she went to Tafe. I number closed this girl and moved on shortly.
Girl at the bar: I spoke to a girl at the bar by herself, she had just finished work at the Grand, I ran the rings routine on her, im getting better at doing this routine as I am using it all the time! She mentioned she had a boyfriend, but it didn't stop me number closing her, she seemed like a cool girl, so we spoke a bit longer.
Where the rings routine didn't work so well: Me and Deej opened up a 2 set, I ran the rings routine, and also stuff to the girl, that Deej suggested I use, however Deej said the exact same thing to his target. After we reopened them later, they didn't seem to be fond of us, they said we were too rehearsed, and arrogant, this was due to us saying the same stuff, plus it was only one set...
Hot girl who turned out to be a lesbian: I opened a girl sitting down with a bunch of people, however she wasn't talking to any of them, so I was able to talk to her alone for a bit. I did the rings routine again, she was very phyiscally receptive to this, however half way through a dikey girl cockblocked me, I decided I would reopen later. However Deej opened her later, he found out she was a lesbian, she said she was a lesbian, however lots of the time this can be a shit test, but Deej has a pretty consistent way to find out if a girl is telling the truth here. this made sense, as she was hanging out with some pretty dikey looking girls, but I didn't realise at the time.
Hottest girl I spoke to all night: So I went upto a girl at the Grand, normally I would get blown out quickly here, as the environment is extremely high energy. However I was truly in the mode, my opener was something in Russian, as she looked Russian, she wasnt I explained this to her. Deej distracted her friend, I ran the rings routine on her, she was kind of hypnotized by what I was saying. Then I just came clean and told her I thought was gorgeous, I lent in as I was going to kiss her, she did the same and went to kiss me, however at the last secound without realising she was receptive to this, I kissed her on the cheek. This is okay I suppose as it give me some value, and leaving the girl wanting more, but Im hitting myself as I would of fancied that kiss. I number closed her, and left telling her I had to meet some friends, which was true as I was looking for the 2 girls I brang to the Grand, as well as looking for a girl whom was texting me, whom I don't remember meeting that wanted to meet me.
The last set, that led to a pull, and a threesome: So there was a girl messaging me all night, wanting me to meet her, however I really had no idea who she was. But I was willing to check it out, I met her, and she was alright looking, I didnt even remember meeting her, however she had some stunning friends. Quickly I realises she wanted to pull me to her friends house, with all the girls, and they didnt want to spend much time. So I quiclkly went around the club, to look for the 2 girls to say goodbye, instead I ended up making out with some random girl with a boyfriend. When I got back I drove back with some of the girls, and the rest got a taxi back later. They all fell asleep when we got there, I developed some pretty bad blue balls, but ended up sleeping inbetween 2 girls. However in the morning, I ended up getting some, the cuter girl was on my face, while the alright looking girl was fucking me. I actually got some infield footage however, they were not pleased that I was recording it with my phone, and made me delete it.... I am writing this straight as I got home, I literally have not showered and I can still smell it on my face.....
Bradicus out
Day 77 of challenge (Monday 22nd July)
So today I didn't really do any approaches except for this one;
Me and The General were upstairs at a youth hostel, the women here are always foreign, lots of people will hesitate to approach these women as they are unfamiliar with them, and may justify this as being harder or something. i think the reality is different, they are in a different country, they want to have fun, and are unfamiliar with the environment, so anyone that is fun and familiar with the environment will bring high value to them.
While the General was cooking food, I noticed a very attractive girl, she looked familiar, I then mentioned to the General that I may have number closed her, he said "message her and find out" I then mentioned that I forgot her name, and she also had an unAustralian number so it would cost alot to message. The girl looked over at me a few times, so it must of been her, The General mentioned that I would look like a weirdo if I didn't talk to her, this is I believe is the concept less awkward is more awkward, and more awkward is less awkward, Simple pickup talk about.
I went over to her and said hey etc, the conversation didn't last long, she was making food with her friends a girl and a guy, the other girl was also very attractive. I decided I would go and talk to them all as a group, and invite them out, however after I got out of the toilet the whole group was gone, and only one girl was left from the group whom I hadn't met yet. She was on her computer, Knowing she had her headphones on, I knew it would be hard to approach her indirectly. So I approached her and told her she was cute, and I invited her out, she said she needed to do a SPAM call first. I went back down and sat with The General.
I noticed she was talking to a guy, she was on the SPAM call for ages! at one point it looked like it may have finished, so I got closer, by observing a near by pool table that she was close to (so I didnt look sus), while checking if she was still on SPAM, she was still talking to the guy. After abit she finished the SPAM call, she went over to the elevator, before I was able to reapproach her she went up the elevator... Today was a very dead day, Monday nights there aren't alot of girls, so this is literally the only approach I did.
Other than this, I was texting a few girls from the weekend, most of them being from the field reports, guys let me know if you want to hear the text convos, as they are quite some effort typing in here.
Bradicus out
Day 78 of challenge (Tuesday 23rd July)
Historical Field report-Girl from Russia
Im going to write a historical field report as today I did not go out at all, and I still want to write something. Its about a girl I was introduced to by my best friend whom was getting married, it was his wifes madien of honour from Russia.
Before meeting her: My best friend whom just told me he was getting married to a Russian girl he just met. He also added for the wedding her best friend from Russia would be flying down to Adelaide for a bit before the wedding, the wedding would ultimately be in the Gold Coast. He sent me her SPAM to get to know her, he was trying to set me up. I was a little hesitant not knowing who she was. She would ask me alot of questions over SPAM, and would often complain I didn't talk to her enough, this was due to me playing video games nonstop at the time. After a few months of talking to her on SPAM, she arrived in Melbourne, and in 2 days I was going to meet her at the airport when she arrived.
First day, Picking her up from airport: The first day I picked her up from the airport in the morning, I was initially that interested, we had trouble communicating, I drove her back to her hotel room. She made me food, we stayed there and spoke about boring stuff, untill midnight. I didn't touch her at all the whole time. I remember seeing her unpack her stuff, and thinking holy shit she has some sexy G strings. If this where me now I probably would of gone the whole way, logistics were perfect. My friend later told me off for staying at her hotel untill midnight as this was the first time I met her.
Day 2, Botanic Gardens: Today I took her for a walk to the botanic gardens after picking her up from the hotel, once again I made no moves on her today, however we got quite comfortable talking to each other. She invited me back to her hotel again today, she made me food, and we spoke for ages, she taught me some Russian! However this time I left at a more reasonable time in spite of what my friend said.
Day 3, Mt Lofty: Today I took her to mt Lofty, at some point I randomly grabbed her hand while we were walking. She got a little scared, and wasn't sure what I was doing, this was due to not touching her at all in the last couple of days. It was okay though, she soon became very comfortable hand holding, after the walk up and down Mt lofts, I was absolutely stuffed! She invited me back to her hotel room, we watched some movies, we cuddled up, however I made no actual moves on her again. She actually invited me to stay the night, but it was subtle at the time, and I didnt catch onto this. So I never ended up staying, my friend mentioned this to me, he told her she wanted me to stay, and it was respectful that I declined, however I didn't even realise she offered.
Day 4, Taking her to the airport: Today she was flying to Sydney, where she would stay there, and we would see each other in Gold Coast for the wedding. I gave her a hug and said goodbye. We spoke on SPAM inbetween, and she told me she really missed me etc etc. when I got to Brisbane it was a week before the wedding, me and my best friend, and a 4 way chat with his fionce and the Russian girl. We had a lovely chat. The next morning we went to Gold Coast, and got ready to welcome them.
Day 5, Picking up from airport: After picking them up from the airport, she was very happy to see me. She told her best friend, she would be okay with sharing a bed with me. I spoke to her about it, she was quite shy about it, but ultimately she was okay with it. Today she was quite touchy, leaning on me, and always going to grab my hand. When I slept in the same bed with me, we kissed spooned, I rubbed her off. However she wasn't comfortable going any further. At the time I was a complete chode, and said "why not?, when can we do it?", she said something like "I will think about it".
The next 3 days: Over the next 3 days, I started getting more and more attached to her, and I think it was the same with her. We went to my auntees house in brisbane, which is a big house, and had a lot of fun there, It was just me and her. We went to beach, we had alot of fun, Ill post a photo below. however after a few days she started acting funny with me. She was the only single girl coming to the wedding, and otherwise there were guys, so she wanted to talk to the other guys here too, I got acted a little bit jealous and it pushed her away.
Shes in the middle, im on the right
The bucks night: The bucks night was like 3 days before the wedding, I don't know why but hey. We all got drunk at the house, the girls mentioned they were gonna have a fun hens night, but I knew they made no plans. One of the guys whom I liked my target, invited them to all to the bucks night with us... The guys were all giving her attention and validating her, and this kind of pissed her off. For some reason I called her a Suka, which means bitch in Russian. After this she really started avoiding me completely. That night she moved bedrooms, and didn't sleep next to me.
The days before the wedding: She was completely avoiding me, in the morning she would do stuff like, offer everyone coffee, and just walk past me. I was doing the same, just not paying her any attention, however the more I did this, the more I wanted to talk to her. The other guys noticed this, and made moves on her, she would flirt with them, but nothing would come of it.
The Wedding: The wedding was fantastic im not gonna lie, I needed to help out and organise activities for the reception, so I had to actually talk to her, after not talking to her for like 3 days, so we could organise some of the wedding games. I told her I was sorry, and she dismissed me, but I knew this made her feel alot better. It was evident, in the way she was acting, as she was avoiding me less.
Russian girl at the wedding;
The reception: At the reception I started drinking alot, she noticed and told me I wasn't aloud to drink anymore, she told me she didnt want me to call her a Suka again. When she noticed I was decling drinks, she would pretend to ignore it, but I caught her smiling and looking really happy, so I knew she was still interested. The funny thing was I was still getting smashed, I was just sneakily drinking the whole night without her seeing. Later in the night, we were all dancing, one of the guys tried dirty dancing with her, she didn't seem very impressed, and she ended up coming over and sitting on my lap. He looked pretty pissed, as I told him whatever I had with her was probably over, and he wanted to get in there. Soon everyone was in bed, and it was just me Russian girl, husband and wife there. My best friend (husband) gave me a ridicoulus speach about how I should marry her infront of her, heres the video;
After this it was evident we were good again, she said she wanted to sleep in the same bed as me, but all her stuff was in another room so I had to wait. All night I was just lying there wanting to go over to the other room, but I didnt.
Delaying my flights I had to leave next thing tommorrow morning, but the problem was I booked the tickets from Brisbane and I was in Gold Coast, so I needed to leave that night to get to Brissy, so there was no way I was going to be able to do anything more with her in that small amount of time. So I rebooked my flights in another 4 days, after her flight leaves, when I told her this she was very happy. That night I full closed her, I was really happy, the next day my friend convined me to buy her an expensive necklace so she would remember me. Over the next few days we had a good time, but the closer it got to the date of her leaving, the sadder she got, and more she would distance herself from me, knowing she would never see me again.
one of the last moments we shared together
The last day: She was sad all day, we spoke about possible future plans, like seeing each other again, but it was really unrealistic, she is on the other side of the world in Russia. I still remember the feeling of her leaving after kissing her goodbye.... Although I cant really put it into words.
After she left we spoke for months, we even spoke about getting married, however nothing ended up happening, I never saw her again, she ended up finding a boyfriend, she sometimes still speaks to me everyone now and then. She was one of the main reasons I actually started game, after her I felt desperate, and game literally helped me over come that.
I know I only knew her for a couple of weeks in real life, but we spend so much time together, and we did have a connection, but thats life! I can imagine how much more powerfull the connection would of been if It would of happened today, cutting out all the chodey things I did and it also would of been much easier to deal with not seeing her after.
Bradicus out
CHAT
and Facebook and add her. Normally adding someone on Facebook doesn't go anywhere, but we chatted for a couple for months, I after a bit we organised to meet up. However she mentioned that we were just meeting "as friends" and I shouldn't get any ideas, to which I remember my brother whom talked about game a bit, to always tease the girl about stuff like this, so I replied to her with "ease up turbo im not that easy".