So yes I have this nice little situation here all framed up, but may need a fiddle around:

Party at my house last night. Chitty chat warm up with German girl with sexy lips on sofa, then moved on toward nearby little sexy bimbo being pulled up by this dude... the dude walks away for a minute, I jump in, she smiles to me. Really responsive to my kino, the chat was quickly drifting into strong sexual attraction. The dude came past us but saw he was stuffed and walked away, she gives me her number.

Later on we sat again side by side, my hands are doing their thing on various body parts as we were chatting, again little bimbo very responsive so I go: "Fancy seeing my apartments upstairs?" she says "I'd prefer you taking me for a coffee first" I answer "Understand... you're not that type of girl, off course.." Then it got late, she went home.

Now:

- Is going for a coffee can be part of a FB frame? I usually do that for LTR pre-frame.

- I was thinking of inviting her for coffee or whatever then walk to my house late afternoon, not evening, for a play into my lair to avoid having to sleep with her. Is sleeping with FB something I want to avoid for any reason?

- Something I learned: Saying to just a potential FB "I'm glad I met you" is off topic.

Thanks.

R_III

No answer after a week? Lack of imagination?

.... okay...

Is there a sticky post anywhere on how you treat a Fuck Buddy?

I can deal with that myself but some insight is well appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

I took little bimbo last night to a very classy cocktail bar (but affordable) as this is where she wanted to go. Had a very god conversation as she is very smart over a few drinks. Then I said let's go to my place. She transpired that she cant as she's got to work tomorrow...

We walk out, I pash her on the stairs outside.

Now I think she wants to be involved with me in an LTR which I am not interested in as she is too young, 19yo or something like that. The hint is that she refereed of being with an older guy in an LTR a while back, I thinbk inferring that she likes LTRs with older chaps.

I knew I would get bogged somehow.... nobody helped me so now here we are, in it.

Can somebody help me to reframe this better please?