Ok so when i went out I had no intentions of getting any phone number or anything.
So here I am enjoying this great band at this bar and I spot a woman who is the hottest girl at the whole bar. Every male has their eyes on her and I have a "I'm the prize" mentality. Anyways later in the night , my boys are sitting at this same table and I join them and notice that this woman and her friends are sitting over there too. This is when our first interation starts. He friend actually starts talking to me about the other night asking me if I remember her name. I said , "don't pull that on me, im bad with names." To which she says do you remember my face? I tell her yes. She calls me a liar jokingly and I just ignore it. Then the hotter girl in the bar starts asking us all our names. Me I'm just being cool and relaxed like I don't have a care in the world. She asks me for my name.
change names , talk about foreign countries because we're both interested in traveling. I ask her open ended questions and just build a connection with her. (This guy who was in their group was actually trying to get her to go inside with her/ I just ignore the cockblock, kept talking and kept eye contact on her/ she ignores him too) We have a really passionate conversation for about 10 minutes. After a good chat I see a band member at the other table and decide that I want to go over and talk to him. I walk over and talk about music my passion! Then I see "her" go back inside. I continue talking to this band and my friends come over and join us. It's at this point where I realized I should've gotten her number and I was starting to regret not getting it. So I tell the boys I'm going to the bathroom , I go use the bathroom and get done and I see her at the bar. I decide Im going for it. Take out my phone , put her name walk over to her and tell her that she is going to teach me spanish. She tells me ," I want you to teach me spanish" I said ok fine and tell her to our her number in. As I'm saying be i tell her "give me a kiss on the cheek" and she tells me " I don't know you like that" and I respond with y"you know that is how it is in Spain, so she gives me 2 kisses on both cheeks. I leave to go outside. Later that night I see her go outside, I walk up to her and text her my name, to make sure it was the right number. It was the right one . I say later and her the both cheeks. That's the last time I saw her that night. I left went home and about 30 minutes later she text me about a party going on somewhere. I tell her that I'm going to sit this one out and watch over my buddy, but dont worry ill see you again" . We've all been drinking and nobody wanted to drive. Well she hasn't text back since last night and I'm just like if she does great , if not then its all good too. I'm thinking about sending a text later on and take it from there.

The most important lesson I learned all night thought Is that having passion in a conversation is key for me, and that even if I'm a little over weight and not even in shape, don't drive, and live with my parents. I can still attract the hottest girl in my location. I just put to much thought into the looks and thinking i have to be a model. Oh yeah I was ... Am wearing a shirt with a dirty/funny comment , i wasnt even dressed to impress. it was a huge self confidence and I want to actually start working out more often now. thanks for reading guys and I would enjoy to get some advice on what to text or call and if I should or not and what to talk about.