Hello everyone!
I been seeing this one girl for some weeks at work. We started flirting for 1 week ago. Everything went great. I got alot of IOIs from her. And we text flirted at work aswell. We ate food together everyday. Then this wensday i asked her if she wanted to do something with me at night. Like watching a movie or something. She sayd maybe we'll see. I was so pushy that day. i really wanted to have that date with her. So i asked her like 10 times if she wants to. And everytime she sayd maybe. so i asked her: why do you say maybe. you dont wanna hang out with me? and she sayd that well its not that i dont want to hang out with you but im curious about the outcome from us to hangout. And we i told her that i like her and never have seen her as a friend. and asked her how she see me. and she told me that she dont know.
so i sayd well i can be your friend if thats what you want. but i want you more then that. and she sayd well i dont know yet.
then when the clock was 5 pm and we stoped working i asked her a last time. should we hangout tonight and she was like, well go and hang with your friends. and i was like, okey i take that as a no. and told her goodbye. The same night i was with my friends and drank some beer. and i called her cell. Told her that i know ive been i pain in the ass today because i planned i awesome night for her. so she asked, what i planned for us to do. and i sayd i booked a helicopter for us to drive. then the day after my friends told me to tell her that i was joking because a helicopter on the first date is to much and will scare her away. so i texted her and told her, i hope you know that i was messing with you. i was drunk and i dont even know where i got the idea of a helicopter. she didnt answear on my text. then on friday when i went to work and say her she didnt even say hello to me. she totally ignored me. and after a while i when to her office and told her that i was sorry for wensday and i was so drunk. she told me that im a mythomaniac and i was like hehe well i deserve that. but i promies you that im not. i then she told me i cant trust you anymore. i dont even know if you been lying for me all the time.
nothing more that day.
on the weekend i texted her and she didnt respond.
then now today monday. i tryd to ignore her back. playing hard to get. because i messed up big time a thought that if i backed up a bit she maybe gave me another chance. so in the morning when we had a meeting i sayd hello to her then totally igonred her. i didnt want her to think that i was mad or something so i only did say hello then turned my back to her. then i went to eat. and i say her in dinner room at work and she saw me too. and she asked me if she could sit at my table and i sayd yes. then we went out for a smoke. she dont smoke but before i messed this up she allways took smokes from me but today she didnt want one and she just stayd there while i smoked. then i told her with a smile. comon girl why so angry for what i did. it was i small misstake. and i will not do that again. and she became angry and told me that it wasnt a small misstake. and i was like cool down girl. take it easy. then she told me im not angry get it, i just want some space from you. and i was like okey for how long and smiled. later on that day i went by her office and told her she whats up. and she told me. can you go i want to focus on my work. and i just had i bit i eye contact with her and she sayd dont look at me. before i messed up when i had eye contact with her, she smiled and looked away. so i told her if you want me to back off just tell me, and she sayd you are so sensitive stop thinking so much. and i sayd okey well goodbye.

PLEASE GUYS HELP ME OUT. SORRY FOR MY ENGLISH.

All right man, lets look at this.

I am not sure I understood everything, but what is clear to me is that there are some basic concepts you don't master yet.
The first thing that I notice is that you seem to get attached to a girl very quickly. This is essentially the cause of your problem. It causes you to want to move really fast and make assumptions about her intentions that she probably haven't even thought about yet. for example, you push her to make a decision to meet you on the very same night you ask, and don't take no for an answer. You are simply too emotionally invested to quick, and you end up coming off to her as needy. By being needy you communicate that she can have you at any time with no effort. The result is that attraction disappears (if there even was any attraction to begin with).
The same thing happened when you called her up drunk, and messed up colossal. The reason you went as far as to talk about a helicopter, indicates again that you need to control yourself.
Mixing alcohol and girls is the worst thing you could ever do.

In my opinion you should stop contacting her immediately, before things turn out even more ugly and embarrasing for yourself, and in turn damage your confidence.
Learn from this, and move on. You can do it - practice my friend.

/Weekend/