I'm new here, I've read The Game and the attraction code and decided to see if I could put them to use. I'm also generally pretty attractive, I frequently have girls and gay men compliment me on my looks. However, I've only had sex a few times in my life.

It was an unsuccessful night, but I'm hoping for a little advice on what I should have done.

I'm only 20 but I went out to a bar that let's in 18 and up. It was just me and one of my gay friends, I thought he would make a good wing because he is less intimidating to girls. I got there and right away felt intimidated because all of the hb7 and ups were already dancing with guys and in large groups. I hung around with my friend and he introduced me to two gay friends of his who hit on me until learning that I'm straight and then told me that most of the guys with the girls are also gay.

My friend finally introduces me to a latin hb9 and she leaves.

Later on through the night I see her a few more times and she keeps tapping me on the shoulder whenever she passes by and smiling so I take it as an ioi and ask her to dance but then she says she has to smoke a cigarette and will 'find me'. I decide to go dance a little by myself after she takes off and I never saw her again through the night.

Later I'm dancing by myself trying to make the night feel less awkward when a 4 starts grinding on me out of nowhere, 2 minutes later she kisses me on the cheek before taking off.

Then I go behind (I know you shouldn't do this, not sure why I did) a hb6 and start dancing, she looks back and smiles at me, but then dances awkwardly and pulls away to her friends after about 40 seconds.

Finally I get bored and decide to leave the set.

I know there are probably tons of things I did wrong and I'm still a huge afc although I will change it as I practice more. But can anyone offer me some advice on things I could have done through the night?