Conquered my oneitis!! how PUA made me a better person



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 6:41 pm 
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As I'm writing this, let me quickly introduce myself. I'm 29 years old, in my third year of undergrad psychology and I've been studying PUA for about 18 months. I've almost eliminated my AA, ramped up my confidence, escalate kino like its my job, and experienced a much more active sexlife with multiple and more desireable women. Well, when I was a teenage freshman in college, I became friends with this HB9 named D. We were inseparable, and I developed a huge crush on her, the biggest in my entire life - sounding familiar? Well, she always had a boyfriend, and I never had the balls to make a move. after two years of school, I graduated and joined the army. We stayed in contact for a couple years, and in 2006, freshly out a relationship and preparing to deploy to Iraq, I pulled the ultimate AFC move. I wrote a 5 page love letter, made a mixed cd, and drove 2 hours to her parents house on a whim to give it to them. Long story short, we stopped talking to each other and lost touch.

Several months ago ago, I looked her up on FB and sent a short message and friend requested her. Receiving no response for months, I abandoned the idea, and for other reasons deactivated facebook. Two weeks ago, the girl I was seeing school lost her phone, so I reactivated facebook - and there it was, D has responded to my message and was eager to reconnect.

We got to talking and catching up. Basically, she was still in the same town (about 90m away), and a few months prior had just broken up with her boyfriend of 6 years. We agreed to meet up last night halfway to have dinner and catch up.

When we saw each other, for the first time in 7 years, it was absolutely magnetic. We talked excitedly and nonstop for hours, until management askedus to leave. It just felt so natural, kino just flowing from both of us, as conversations flowed from life to love to sex and everything and nothing. I kept calling her "dude", talking to her like any old best friend, and we walked around town arm in arm, she was all over the new me. We ended up in her car just having a smoke, and after she said jokingly "fucking you is going to be so much fun" I took the hint. We attacked each other. It was intense. She admitted to having a crush on me back then too. We did everything but F-close, as I wanted to save that for a better opportunity and 20 minutes in a small car when she had to go back to work. Scratching, biting, hair pulling, the sexual tension just exploded. It is very safe to say that next time I see her, we are going to fuck for hours, nonstop. Aside from all that, she's just got so many qualities sexually - she loves threesomes, is a switch (I'm a dom), doesn't want monogamy anytime soon (I'm polyamorous myself), and of course all the qualities that made us best friends in the first place.

And now that I'm older, wiser, and a better man (with much credit to pickup) I know that the only thing to worry about right now is falling too hard and too fast again. I'm not going to stop seeing other women, actually I'm probably going to to bring them into one big poly relationship if anything. Just when I was feeling like shit because my #1 local was falling apart (see my other topic) something like this happens. Either way, I just wanted to report what may be my greatest success from pickupp yet. All you AFCs and rAFCS out there, keep persevering in the face of rejection and never quit!

And to everyone else, wish me luck that I don't fall victim to one-itis too soon.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 11:50 pm 
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Sounds like you're doing great... and you've got the right idea about seeing other women. Especially since she knows you're poly. GOFTW, as Lothario says!

Cheers, ~50

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 12:00 am 
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Most guys will never get their one-itis. Glad you're a rare success story. Cheers bro.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 6:38 am 
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Well its still pretty early to tell, but it's definitely a second chance if nothing else. But I could feel the confidence flowing through me, when I saw her I interacted with her just like she was any other girl - and since attraction already existed anyway, it was almost too easy.

And she's actually kind of classy - after I left, she asked me when I was last tested and such and shared the same info.

Damn, I really miss older women (25+) sometimes.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 29, 2013 11:34 pm 
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F-closed the hell out of her last Thursday in a hotel room. Between that and the following Saturday, it's safe to say she's quite hooked. Let me illustrate what part of that PUA helped with:

1) I got better at sex. Seriously, she couldn't keep her hands off me, and eventually just touching her erogenous zones had her orgasming just thinking about sex. She even commented "maybe best I've ever had" but I'm not taking that too seriously.

2) DHV stories. Seriously, since starting pickup, I've dated / slept with many more women, and more quality women, and had tons of sexy stories to tell. Talking about the other women I am currently seeing, something I wouldn't have been able to do well without PUA.

3) Confidence. Just talking to women in general, being a more touchy feely person I've learned a lot of how to turn women on with subtle touching and my voice. I act like I don't have a care in the world, I love all my women, but nobody gets put on a pedestal.

4) Experience. This relates to 1 and 2, but in general just how to handle myself around women I find extremely attractive, and dating ones in the past I've learned more about what I want in relationships and how to not put forth more than neccesary. How to remain "cocky and funny" to keep her laughing and stay a challenge.

I expect many good things to come! In unrelated news, a new recent pair of HB8/9's I met (who are roommates) have become rather fond of me - one has a boyfriend, yet wants me to be a third for when they want to try a threesome. The other is single, but a virgin, but that didn't stop me from a quickly escalated k-close which was Friday night when they both stayed in my bed. The girl with the boyfriend called her s/o to ask if she could join me and her roommate in the fun; unfortunately, he wasn't too cool with it... yet. Heh.


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PostPosted: Tue May 14, 2013 11:04 pm 
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Just to add to anyone else who manages to conquer their one-its: she's just another girl. I quickly realized after banging mine for a few weeks, that she's not really what I'm looking for in an LTR. Just some girl I was infatuated with.

The best thing is finally having that question answered.


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