Alright guys. Four years in a dead end relationship and I got myself out. Needless to say a 20 year old is a little out of his game after that.

It was more so out of pressure than anything but I felt like I needed to do this. For me to break my own ice against flirting and sex.

It was at a local yogurt bar in a mall and my friends kept prying me to ask the cashier for her number.. after they practically ran away giggling - I swallowed what fear I had and went up to her.

Spacebar, "Hey, I've got a question for you but first, I had to tell you your just adorable and I had to come talk to you."
Flashed a smile and made sure I had her attention.
Cashier batted her eyes and asked me what it was and I replied, "I just had to come over here to you and get your number." kept up the smile and made sure she was enjoying it..

She said she was leaving for the summer and I kept up the conversation being subtly flirty and at the same time trying to neg just a bit.. Learned a little about her and told her to enjoy her day.

So what do I have to learn?
- I failed. BUT a failure is only a step towards success.

- I didn't get her number but I broke my own ice towards approaching women.
- I skipped virtually any sort of mid and hoped to conclusion.
- So all you PUA experts, help me dissect this more so that I can implement some tactics.

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“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

Just keep approaching and get more girl's numbers. Try learning frame control and be direct. Here are some links:

Daygame and Conversation: http://www.glorybethynight.com/b​est-day-game-method/

Controling state (Frame control): http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.​com/frame-control-defining-realit​y-and-being-high-value-vt34530.ht​ml

Gunwitch Method: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/sho​wthread.php?t=46286

That pretty much will give you a foundation, the rest is practice.

Best of luck.

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GBTN Seduction Harbor: http://www.glorybethynight.com

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