Hi, I'm new to this forum and started Pua training few weeks ago, still having problems with AA huge ones but that is expected. I'm amazed by Mystery and his method and I've read his books and watched some bootcamp videos that he did. He is brilliant. And I don't want to promote him or anything so I'll continue about the report.
Training before field testing:
-First thing I did because I was very shy and still am a little but I did AA removal
. Basically I went to a mall and said hi to everyone I saw and complimented them or started a stupid conversation. Opened the sets but never did any Dhv stories or closed so that was a good help. This part of training helped a little with AA but never got rid of it. So this training was partially successful and helped.
-Second thing I did was learn a lot of gambits and tricks like a lot of cold reading and some openers. This helped in the field amazingly.
Field test for beginners:
Crappiest game I think is the social game but you can practice there mid game and end game easily so I did. My friend invited me to come and chill with him and keep company to a sister of his target so he can make a move. This helped me train as a wing and test some DHV stories and gambits. I came over to his house and he introduces me to them. Lets name them HBtarget and HBsister. When my friend went to get some drinks I wanted to start speaking something and froze. I froze for a sec they didn't notice it or anything but in that time I started doing Pua. I just treated them as I just opened them and went something like this:
Nero: So until Bro(lets say that's the nick of my friend) comes back I need to ask you two for a female opinion on something. (and I almost died when I said this, like a fear of talking or something)
HBtarget and HBsister: Yea sure on what?
Nero: Kissing? I have this thing on my mind all day and It's bothering me. My friend is mad because her boyfriend thinks that kissing is cheating and they will probably break up because she kissed a girl in a club while partying.
HBtarget: Well it's not cheating if she kissed a girl only if she is lesbian or bi it's cheating. (stupid answer but ok I nod and listen while her sister comes in)
HBsister: It's not cheating and I would never consider to think that it is. He should know that and apologize.
Nero: Yeah exactly. (brief moment of silence) So I heard from Bro that you just came to CITY(name of the place where I am I won't include it here for some reasons but it is in my Introduction post
,also my friend told me that she just moved here for college while inviting me over)
Hbsister: bla bla bla
Nero: Really aha and have you been here before or this is the first time in town?
Hbsister: I've been here before and I know a few people?
Nero: Wait you have to tell me what school did you go to? Cause I swear you look like you went to medical school(in our country we go to schools of specialization before college or universities)You look like a nurse for some reason a really bad one, I have this feeling if you gave me a shot you'd fuck something up.(nurse guessing of her job or school she went to)
Hbsister: Really hahaha I am actually in bla bla bla
Then I talk to the sister to include her in the conversation and my friend came in the middle of me talking and he grabbed his target when I finished the conversation and just left the room with her and said to me we will be back shortly I nodded like a good wing I am
. So I get scared and get like something like AA here and don't know what to talk about suddenly I forgot almost all routines and tricks. I'm alone with her she is definitely not my target and will never be but practice is important so I scrap something up and start the conversation like this(this is immediately when they left) :
Nero: Ok I need show you something amazing.
HBsister: Really what?
Nero: We are going to do a little test that will tell me what kind of person are you.Are you ready?
HBsister: Yeah.
Nero: So you are in a desert with a horse, tent, ladder, and a box and a huge desert storm is approaching. What will you do in that situation with all those things how would you try to survive?
HBsister: I don't know.(huge IOD and indicator that she is boring and dull)
Nero: (so I neg here)Really you don't know, wow you are a boring person. What you would just wait to die?
Hbsister: Probably, yeah I'm not very good in those situations.
To explain the gambit for those who are reading here it is:
-Horse-a life partner
-Tent-all your possessions
-Ladder-your friends
-Box-your feelings and emotions
So I explain the rest of the gambit to her and she laughs at what that means and regrets that she didn't try anything(believes in that psychological test stuff)by that time my friend comes back with the target and we talk and hang out for an hour then I say I've got to go because of the DHV story that I said and created a time constraint cause I really wanted to get out of there and I spiked pretty hard DHV in that story so it kinda helped.
I approved of some things in this practice and I need to ask you if you have any help to give me, pointers or something. The main thing of concern is when she doesn't have a good reaction like this one "I don't know" what do I do to keep the conversation going because if my friend didn't come in after I explained that gambit I wouldn't know what to say to her after that. I would go blank.
I am really sorry that this isn't a cold approach I still am getting over AA and will soon start doing Night and Day game reports ASAP. Thank you if you read this post and hope you got some info that you needed to improve your game. If you got a pointer please feel free to help me any way that you can. Also some tips how you got rid of your AA will be helpful.
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