| So this was on thursday 04/04/13, and i'm out with some wings doing daygame.
I see this girl walking really quickly in the Arndale (that's a shopping mall in Manc). I stop her, find out she's from Panama & is here in Manchester studying English. Cool, i love girls with multilingual abilities.
We get talking, i did the whole push/pull with my body language a lot
e.g 1 "You're so cheeky, i don't like you." *step closer while holding eye contact*
e.g 2 "You smile a lot, its cute." *smile, touch on the arm, then push her away*
i did that A LOT.
Now we were on the top floor of the Arndale, and theres this railing. so at some point i just move towards the railing to lean back, since we're in the middle of the walkway. she follows instantly.
We get talking, we enter Authentic Communication, there's mutual Kino. She's getting closer, we hold eye-contact.
Then i decide to do a Leland. (refer to my most recent for what that is)
We get to the shop, and i tell her i'm gonna invite her out sometime. She says she doesn't have an English number (which is almost certainly bullshit; i think i've figured out why, tell you in a sec), so i FB close her.
Now, when i get back to the guys, Jake's like, "Why didnt you make out?"
I say, "What do you mean?" "When you were at the railing, thats when you should've made out. There was a spark in her eyes; it was on."
Thinking back, YES IT WAS ON. I was just too much of an uncalibrated chode to see it. LOL.
Anyways, i dnt remember who says this, i think it was David D or Yad (too much PUA material in my head haha), but when the door opens, jump in immediately because when it shuts, it will shut for good if you missed it. I make this reference with regards to the make-out i missed.
Here's my thoughts: Because i didn't go for the make-out when she clearly felt it was on, she unconciously placed me in a position of "Guy who can't take chances when he sees it." This isn't an attraction trigger; quite the opposite really. Thus, she has not accepted the FB friend request, nor has she gotten back to me. I miss the opening, now the doors shut.
But its okay. As Braddock of Love Systems says, "Women are like buses. If you miss one, don't worry. One comes around every 15 minutes or so." hahaha.
Peace.
"Game is good, always & everywhere." - Shane. _________________ Shane, Executive Instructor for Social Zen.
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