A couple of weeks ago I met this girl through some friends and we really hit it off. I could tell she was into me and my friends kept telling me that it was obvious, but I've been lacking a little self-confidence with girls since I broke up with my previous gf about a month ago (she moved due to work and I wasn't willing to have a long distance relationship). Anyways, we went to a club to see some DJs she's into (she's a DJ as well) and I personally can't stand this music. She did send me a bunch of IOI's but the lack of possible communication due to the music and situation made me pull back (I pretty much pussied out, yep). On thursday I went out with some friends, saw her in a bar we were at and again the sexual tension. My friend, her friend and us both went to another techno club (God I hate that music) and her friend started hitting on me hard, but I wanted the DJ. Things were going smooth until a bunch of our friends came over and the sexual tension kinda broke. However, on Saturday she organized some pre-drinks at her place where she invited only me, my friends and the girl from the previous night. From when I walked in IOI's, kino, all the stuff. I was using the MM to my full advantage and I could tell I was hitting all the right switches but, yet again, we ended up in another f*cking techno club were I simply cannot game. Everyone is drugged out of their heads and it's just uncomfortable for me.

Now, since I don't know when I'll see her again, I want to know how on earth I can make it happen with her in this sort of ambience, very hard to isolate (I tried but she's too into the music to sit down for a chat and smoking is allowed inside) and with no chance of sweet talking. She has a long distance bf too, so she can't really mess around in front of her friends (not mine).

I've always been sort of a natural with women, my last gf was a fitness model 10 (I bodybuild for a hobby) and I've never had a problem gaming girls as long as I can use conversation. But club gaming without prior rapport or to music I can't stand simply winds me out.

Any ideas how I can make this happen? I can't see her during the week because she studies in another city and only comes for the weekends.

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I hate the rave techno scene too. So for me it's simple...I just don't do it. Unless you have a ton of other common interests with this girl and she's drop dead gorgeous why even fuck with it? Plus you said she's already got the LDR on the side, so she can be nothing more than a FWB.

If for some reason you are still hell bent on laying this chick, it sounds like your only option is dance floor game. Dance floor game is just pure physical escalation. Grind on her, go face to face, and try to go in for the kiss.

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The girl IS gorgeous haha, I'd say a 9 and we do have a lot in common, we hit it off from the get go. But this rave/techno scene is just killing me. The bf situation is not a problem, that's the easy part to deal with.

I'll give it a shot with the DG, but its not like the music is helpful for that.

Cheers man.

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