| Hi guys, im 18 and new to this forums, but i feel there is something i must tell you.
Its been over a month i finished reading The Game by Neil Strauss, ( I really dont know what PUAs arround here think about this, but i also dont care, just keep on reading) and i absorved it like a sponge. Everythin went straigh into my head and stayed there, i felt emotion while reading it, i planned escenarios while doing it, plus it came in a great time, i had finished a 10 months old relationship.
The point is, it became a state of mind. I left my house, thinking of pickingup girls. I went to college, not to learn, to pickup girls. And i felt it, walking down the streets, using some body languages tips, girls looked at me, almost like waiting for me to approach. And, it worked.
Freshman, not tall, a little out of shape. Didnt matter, all my classmates were freshmans, but i was THE freshman. Why? I went in there, and made everything mine. Girls, boys, teachers, i knew all of them and everything about them, it was a State of Mind. I felt the boss there, and i became it.
And that is where I found a problem. Aydik is her name, a girl from Estonia, but she moved here (Argentina) a long time ago, so thats something i find irrelevant. Instant conecction with her, we make jokes, we laugh, she even is into videogames, but what, a boyfriend in there. I knew i could keep hiting on her, altough i havent made any clear statement about that yet (Just blabla's conversation), but i knew it will be wiser to change target. And my new Target was next to her, i recall her but no her name, she was the first one to laugh at a joke no one else did, she also laughes a lot with me, i guess its natural.
The problem is that i noted a little bit of pushback by her, something i did not felt with Aydik, and i know its not because what i say, she is constantly smiling when we talk, it just make no sense. We "know" each other for only 4 days, but everybody knows im THE guy in the room. I still havent decided to make an actual approach to her.(Im gonna try to run an excersie where i can determinate her personality by in which fingers she wears her rings) but i think she realised im also hitting on everyother girl in the room, not directly, but i am the only guy who talks openly to any girl, anywhere.
So, this "Game State of Mind" could be backfiring me? Should i try another strategie, where i go all silent and interesting guy?
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