So I ended up getting this girls number off of facebook that I've met once before. She used to go to my university so I kind of knew her/ of her and we know the majority of our mutual friends. It turns out my really good friend started talking to her at the same time as I did, and it was seriously something straight out of a movie (pretty funny laughing with my friend about the whole thing).
So she came to two of our fraternity parties.. and at one of them (the second one I think?) my friend was there, and he didn't exactly play his cards right when he mentioned competing with me or something like that. By the end of the night I kissed her just a little bit, and my friend mentioned getting jealous at one point (which was another bad move). He ended up taking her on a date that weekend, and actually even smooched her a little, too. But when I talked to the girl about it (because we were all kind of open about it, not collectively but one on one with each other) I got the vibe that she wasn't feeling it from it, especially because he was putting her on the spot and she said she doesn't like that.
Fast forward to last night where I had a date planned with her (I havent seen her all week). I had to push it back a couple hours (I told her the day before a couple things came up), she said it was fine because she was flexible. After I had her waiting a bit, she said she needed an hour nap because she 'felt weird' and was tired, and she normally isn't like that. Maybe she was actually nervous, or maybe she just wanted me to wait on her like I made her do for me.
Fast forward a couple hours and I pick her up... We drive to the store and pick up food and then drive back to my apartment to cook a meal together. The conversation was good.. not too much kino in the car but I made sure she got comfortable with my touch a bit. Cooking the meal was fun and I was playing music, even danced with her for a tiny bit, but I just noticed she was being kind of timid. I was doing the best I could to make her feel comfortable, and I definitely had her laughing good at times. While we ate we were watching Chappelle show and my roomate and his girl were in the room too. Question: Do girls feel added pressure when theres another couple that are close with each other in the area?
After watching the show for a little while we decided to smoke, even though thats one of my big no nos with girls (and I let her know this). I said f uck it though and we smoked and just hung out a little more. She couldn't nap earlier by the way so she was pretty tired, and I could relate because I was pretty exhausted myself. After a little bit I mentioned being bored of the show, so I suggested showing her this song I mentioned earlier. So to cut to the chase.. took her to my room and after listening to some music and just chillin on my bed she would give me the look a little bit and even look down at my lips.
I felt the sexual tension rising and eventually just went in to kiss her. I made out with her for just a tiny bit.... it wasn't the best kiss because we were both noticably high, but it wasn't bad either. She eventually pulls back and mentions her hair is bugging her.. like its getting in her eyes or something? (Seems like BS to me) I have long hair but couldnt get a hair tie for her. After chit chatting a bit more and just taking a step back.. I saw her looking at my lips again so I asked would you like to kiss me? Shes like oh just gonna flat out ask me huh? Kinda like when you pulled your trick on me! (first party I turned when she came in to kiss my cheek). I was like nahh your just kind of hard to read thats all! She mentioned she was just high and shes like that with everyone blah blah.
From writing this I'm getting the vibe that maybe there isnt as good of a connection as I thought. But can it just be that she was high/tired and she just didn't feel comfortable enough with me? This is the third time I'm seeing her, but the first two were just party SPAM hang outs, this was my first one on one with her. She usually doesn't initiate, but she always gets back to me if I call and makes it like she wants to hang out? Her friends that come over to my apartment sometimes mentioned she thought I was cute around the time of the parties.
What do you guys think? I thought the date was going good, I just have this shitty feeling now now that I didn't really hook up with her-hook up with her.
I texted her last night when I got home saying I had a good time.. you're definitely a cool chick, even if you twitch out! (she would twitch a little after smoking hah) and that Id talk to her soon.
Her:I had a good time as well thank ya so much! and thanks I tryyy
Talk to you sooooon
Sorry for the wall of text but I like to paint a picture. What do you guys think.. forget about her and meet new girls.. or give it another shot?
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