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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 3:57 am 
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Taken from my Intro Post:
Hey everyone,
I'm new to the PUA scene, just recently began reading The Game and discovered a real interest in Pick-Up.

My interest was actually sparked by the second time I started reading The Game; the first time I was so turned off and weirded out by the peacocking and other outlandish sounding tactics that I immediately stopped reading The Game. I was In complete denial about the entire field of Pick Up.

I'm a clean cut, in-shape, and attractive guy (all the girls at combat medic training called me "prince charming") and I couldn't stand the thought that guys I thought were weird and strange could successfully grab hotter girls faster than I thought was even possible.

I wouldn't call myself an AFC because I've slept with ~30 girls so far and have a pretty good track record of picking up and making out with girls in bars... But I feel that there is so much hidden potential waiting to be unlocked within me.

I've completely changed my mindset from when I was at first in denial and I've now realized that I was wrong ...I'm ready start learning.

Bio:
I'm a 23 year old college student, army medic and volunteer firefighter in Tennessee. Growing up I was a total nerd. I was never very social and was quite awkward and clumsy. I struggled to find friends that I fit in with and never hit it off with girls. In highschool I made up stories of how I had lost my virginity and spent hours researching everything I could about sex.
I got tired of being the dork that guys mocked and girls rejected and tried to remake myself, but even with a new appearance I was still the same inside. Luckily for me, around that same time I had a bit of an ugly duckling transformation and I became quite attractive. I had some moderate success with girls and began making out with them around 15-16. I finally got my first girlfriend and it lasted for about a month.
Later at 17 I some how landed a girl that I can only describe as barbie. She was a 10: tall, blonde, tan, fit, blue eyes, everything. She was one of the hottest girls at my school of ~1500 people. And I was a total chump. I was the most pussywhipped guy you had ever seen. I was the definition of AFC and Oneitis... But i didnt care because after 3 months of dating and making out... I LOST MY VIRGINITY!
Long story short, she cheated on me a few times and then dumped me right before graduation. I was devastated. I vowed to never let that happen to me again and I havent had a single relationship since then. Instead I went off to college and began sleeping with random girls and making a few fuck-buddies here and there. I was moderately good at picking up girls, but I was getting 6s and 7s at best. Never the 9s and 10s that i wanted.

Now I want to change all of that. I want to be able to get the girls that I deserve.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2013 4:04 am 
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Day 0:
-Why do I want to learn this pickup stuff?

I know that with the right training I can get the hot girls, the girls that all the guy in the room want. I will improve myself as a whole. I will under go the transformation that will enable me to become more successful in every aspect of my socializing skills, but especially with women. My friends always expect that I know lots of girls and that when we go out or have parties that I'll be able to call up tons of girls and bring them over... I want to finally make that happen.

-What are my goals?

Over come my anxiety about approaches and become confident in going up to girls and running sets.

Improve my sarging ability and better communicate and talk with girls after the approach.

Close like a champ and land the 9s and the 10s that I know I will be able to get.

Improve my over all socializing skills.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 2:05 am 
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Day 1:
Went out to the mall after working out at the gym and did the The Newbie Mission today!

Hit up the local mall around 5:15pm. I started just cruising around the mall with no particular plan. I figured I'd just do the mission, it seemed easy enough. I told myself that I wouldnt leave until i greeted 10 women and 5 had to be attractive. (figured itd be too easy to walk around saying hey to every fat or old lady i saw)

I quickly hit some resistance, most of the women were talking on their phones or had headphones in! I decided to just not bother with them. Next I found that most of the women weren't make eye contact with me and it just seemed a bit weird to just say hey to them when the were passing me and not looking at me.

Finally i found a woman who made i contact with me so I smiled and greeted her with a cheerful "Hey!". She smiled back and returned the greeting. Success!... but it didn't count toward the 5.

I felt really silly just saying hi to girls and decided i needed to take a different approach.
Even before learning about pick-up i had thought the cologne approach was a good idea but had never tried it. I was going to give it a shot! So i walked into macys, sprayed some of the new prada on one wrist and Mont Blanc Legend on the other.

Back to cruising the mall... had more trouble trying to find women to approach. They all seemed preoccupied and looked like they didnt want to be bothered, so I decided it was time to start going into stores.

Went into sunglass hut and started trying on sunglasses, a cute girl came in and i joked with her about some silly looking glasses and then asked her for her opinion on the cologne. We talked and flirted for a while and then i excused myself to talk with the cute sales associate. After the first girl left, i then asked the sales associate for her opinion. We talked and joked for a while and then i said i had to go so she gave me her card. Not bad.

Next i walked over to Spencer's and messed around in there for a while, and as I was leaving so was a cute girl with TONS of piercings and tattoos (she had been checking out the lingerie when i saw her in the store). I slowed my pace a bit and she began to pass me. I looked over, smiled and said "hey could i get your opinion on something?" she seemed a bit surprised at first but quickly agreed. She liked the mont blanc. I thanked her and split off in another direction.

Next I went to the tea shop and tried some free samples and then with a smile I said to the cute tea girl "hey, now i want to get your thoughts on something. I'm trying out two new colognes and I'm having trouble deciding which one to get. Which one do you like better?" She was having trouble deciding. A pretty good looking asian girl was standing near by and overheard me and came over and said "oh, let me help you out." She smelled my wrists and decided on the prada. the tea girl then made up her mind on the prada to. I thanked them and left.

I went into Guess and looked around at some stuff, grabbed a fedora and went up to the Hot blonde sales associate and jokingly said "Hey, does wearing this hat make me look like justin timberlake?" She smiled and said, "do you want to look like justin?" "Dunno, i just saw it and wanted to see if I could pull it off" "yeah. I think you could pull it off," she said and smiled again. I put the hat back, cruised around the store a bit and as i was leaving I said "hey could i get your opinion on something before i leave?" she liked the mont blanc better. She also had a British accent and we talked for several minutes about Europe and wheres shes lived and what not. We flirted a bit and I thanked her for her time and left the store.

It was now close to 7pm and I decided it was time to leave. As i was heading out I saw two cute brunette girls. 1 short 1 tall. I walked over to them and used the opener on them and the short one gave a confused smile and said "is this a joke?". I shrugged it off and with a smile said, "no, im completely serious, come on and help me out". They both liked the mont blanc , i thanked them and headed home.

Mont Blanc overwhelmingly won that contest and i discovered that I have a hard time approaching girls unless I have a reason to engage them.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2013 7:39 pm 
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Day 3:
So i had no plans for V-day. All my buddies were either out of town or had a girlfriend. I wasnt about to go out solo sarging on valentines day. Nothing says desperate like going out without a girlfriend OR even friends on v-day. At around 10pm my buddy calls me up asks what im doing and why the fuck im not out drinking. He had gotten done with his fiance and was ready to party. Its go time! but ill get to that in a minute. first i wanted to share some things i learned on day 2.

So day two I realized the importance of the time constraint. On day one i failed to use a single one and I could feel the awkward tension lingering. "wtf how long is this guy going to stay for?!" I also failed to root the opener effectively. I've now rooted it with "Hey, i only have a second, but i need your opinion on something really quick. I'm organizing my medicine cabinet and i just have too many colognes that my ex's have given me in the past, i'm trying to figure out which is the best so i can get rid of the rest."
Additionally, I learned the importance of body language, constantly rocking out of the set and also smelling my wrists before offering them up for the girls to smell.

The night of day two i decided I'd go out and solo sarge. Horrible idea, it was a tuesday, cold, rainy and no one was out. Just about every bar i went to was dead. The one i did go to that had people I royally screwed up because I didnt know anyone there and I got there late and all the groups had already been formed. I grabbed a beer, decided it wasnt worth it and went home with my tail between my legs... depressing lol.

OK so back to day 3.

My buddy calls me up, AWESOME! ive been itching to get out and try some new things. Also I'm peacocking wearing a bright neon pink t-shirt that says "real man" and a bright highlighter Yellow hoodie. Worked nicely to grab girls attention.

First place we go I immediately start talking to my buddy and his friends, we're laughing having fun and being loud. I go to the bar and grab a beer. Theres a cute girl standing right there talking to some AFC friend. Cologne opener. SHIT forgot to time constraint it. no worries, I quickly recover and throw in a time constraint and start talking about some other stuff. I leave and visit my friends but go back to get another beer. Time constraint again. throw in some kino, the 5 wrong answer routine, and small talk...things are going great. TIME FOR THE CUBE! boom worked magic shes melting for me. AND THEN... my buddy comes over and sits down. shit im getting cockblocked. out of no where shes starts out DHVing the shit out of both of us. naming dropping all these music artists that shes gone back stage with and telling all these cool stories shutting both of us completely out. I try interrupting her flow and throwing her off balance, she turns it back with a snappy bitch comment and talks over me. WTF?! I throw a neg or two, she responds back twice as bitchy. SHIT! we're fucked. she was an alpha female in disguise. Shes also a psych major and reveals that she saw right through my openers and cube and was just going along with with it because it was keeping her entertained. battleship down, im sunk. Last call. thank god! but its only midnight and she wants to go with us to another bar... wtf? so mini date, she drives us to another bar. no girls. she continues being alpha bitch and my friend is totally cool with it, and he starts firing back with his own DHVs and name dropping about artists because his stepdad is a big nashville producer that works with some huge artists. They're getting along great now...

Change of locations again, this bar kinda sucks. At the new bar we're having fun drinking some beers and just hanging out. Bar is about to close and i approach a 3 set. start talking to a cute girl, lets say HB8. and we hit it off. i can tell shes already really into me so i skip forward and just do some kino and push-pull. SHIT! its closing time. We go outside and we're talking on the patio. I pause mid sentance, look her in the eyes and say "do you want to kiss me?" "what?" "do you want to kiss me?" "maybe..." "lets find out." BOOM! kiss close, we make out for about 5 minutes and then my friends yell at me from the car. time to go. she hands me her phone with an empty contact opened up. i fill it out, call my phone and hop in the car.

Shes been blowing up my phone all morning with stuff like "whyd you stop kissing me last night?" lol success!

EDIT: Forgot to mention that alpha bitch drove my friend and i back to my place and spent the night. Tried dual induction massage, doesnt work with two guys hahaha she ended up fooling around with him and giving him a blowjob.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 7:26 pm 
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Day 4:

not sure if I should post this under lay reports or here :lol:
Texted the girl I met last night all day today. Just acted silly and creative and messed around, see loved it. She wanted me to meet her at the same bar as last night. I had my Buddy on from out of town so I brought him out with me.

We met up at the bar around 10pm. She brought a friend with her... a guy. He was in from Clarksville where he's infantry for the 101st airborne, not a problem I'm in the military too. That threw me off for a second but I figured I'd just sarge him and not worry about it. I could tell that he was into her but I was gonna make sure she was taking me home. I threw in some more fun things to DHV that I hadn't done the night before. She really moved the five questions and the 3mice routine.

After some karaoke and some other stuff I we decide its time to head back to her place which is just like 2 mins away. Our two friends sit down on the couch and start talking. I help her take some bottles from the coffee table to the kitchen to throw them away. We immediately started eating each other s faces off lol. We went back to the living room for a second and I asked her to give me a tour of her place. As soon as we got upstairs we started making out again. We make our way over to the bed and things start getting heated. She gives me some very weak LMR by saying g were going so fast, I really like you... and I responded with "take off my pants". Half an hour later we were heading back to the bar ;)


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:12 pm 
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Day 5:

Went out with a buddy of mine who i just introduced to Mystery Method and met up with a few guys from my local lair for the first time.

We went to a rather large bar downtown that is two levels and has a second lounge with a completely different SPAM. For the most part I stayed here, however we also hopped between the karaoke bar next door. I started off by just getting rid of my AA and making a fool out of myself within the first minute or two of arriving. I went up to the dance floor did a bunch of stupid dance moves and danced with some random girls. After the song was over I left the dancefloor and decided to start sarging. Immediately approached a 3 set and worked on them. The 2 fat ugly one and one decent one. Ya know i thought ugly girls were supposed to have nice personalities. They were bitches so i told them it was nice meeting them and left. No one else hit on them for the rest of the night lol. It was pretty early so i decided I'd go next door. I found a 6 set for a girls 21st. I was trying a new opener and went up with "OMG looks like the party is over here!" and followed up with "if i wasnt gay you'd totally be my type!" I had a blast just partying with them. I want a threat and just had lots of fun being silly and dancing with everyone in the group. Got two number closes out of it. One of which lives ten mins away from me and goes to my local bar. awesome. Rest of the night was pretty uneventful with me hitting on several girls with boyfriends. Gave some girls my number, but wasnt too interested in getting theirs.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 10:17 am 
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Day 'whatever: im just going to switch to dates... so Friday Feb 22

Went out of town to visit my best friend from highschool. Got in town, hung out and caught up. We went out that night. First bar we went to we weren't really feeling it. Crowded and few groups of girls that didnt have guys that looked like boyfriends. Felt a little discouraged at first, but we found a small stake of realestate and ordered up a few pints. I went to a group of girls and opened them with jealous girlfriend. Funny thing was that 3 of the girls excused themselves to go get drinks and the one i wanted was left sitting there with me. I number closed, hung out for a few more minutes and rejoined my friends. We decided to go to the next bar.

At the next bar I saw a cute blonde, HB8 sitting at the bar alone. I approached, used the 5 questions to open her and get get to buy me a drink because she lost :P things were going great. we really hit it off and i was sure to escalate kino with her. about 20 minutes in my friends were bugging us to join them in darts. She told them that we'd be there in a bit because she was making me try some awesome drink and we were waiting on the bar tender. We were talking and mid conversation i stopped, looked at her and said "do you want to kiss me?" she replied with "what? in here? theres so many people around!" I shrugged it off with "yeah, why not. you looked like you had something on your mind is all" "well, okay i guess". One solid kiss, pull back slightly, then slid my hand up behind her head, pulled her hair a bit and gave her a damn good kiss with a little nibble on her upper lip at the end. She was blushing like crazy, i made a joke about how i wished the bartenders would always take this long with a coy smile and conversation resumed. Our drinks came shortly there after, we played darts and she ended coming back to my buddies place with me. BUT i didnt get laid.... i went to go use the bathroom and grab a beer. She had gone straight to the bedroom and passed the fuck out. w/e lol


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 10:34 am 
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Doing Chief's Mission #2 this afternoon. Just going ahead and making the post now... I'll edit later.
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Go out to a large public place where people gather, such as a shopping mall, a grocery store, a bar*, etc.
Before you even get to the public place, start building momentum! Don't do any micro-avoidance. Do everything that you feel like doing that comes to mind!
(If nothing you feel like doing comes to mind at this point, don't stress out. It's not too important right now.)
If possible, take some form of public transportation so you get the chance to interact with people while you're on your way there.
See a homeless guy begging on the street? Give him some spare change and have a casual chat. On a bus or a subway? Make some light conversation with that old lady you're sitting next to. Do as many small social things as you can to build momentum.
Once you've arrived at your destination, it's time to continue building social momentum! Remember the Newbie Mission? Use that again if you need to. Use your social momentum to turn some of those "hi"s into conversations about things you feel like asking/commenting on/chatting about.
Don't limit yourself to store customers and bar patrons. Take your chance to chat with employees if you feel the impulse to do so. Ask them how they like working there. Ask them how their day is going. Don't limit yourself to ANYTHING.
Build enough social momentum until you're comfortable with approaching random women and "sets" of women and men. Don't stop there, though. See how far you can take this until you get tired out.
In summary:
1. Go to a public place with lots of people.
2. Build social momentum - start before you even arrive!
3. When you get there, use the Newbie Mission if you feel like it will add to your social momentum.
4. Keep building momentum until you are comfortable with approaching many beautiful women!
5. Write about this experience in your journal if you have one.
*For these missions, don't drink any alcohol. Do not use any confidence crutches until you develop some real confidence!
You will receive your next mission in 3 days, so try to get this one done before then.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:11 am 
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So I'm a little behind.

Feb 28 Did the misson, and at first my day had started out kind crappy. But I used social momentum to help get me rolling. I showered, shaved, put on some cologne and picked out a good outfit. Made me feel a bit better. So I went out and grabbed some subway for dinner, i walked in smiling and chatted with the sandwich artist, we had a fun conversation and i made her smile and laugh. I felt even better! We went out to the bar that night and i continued the pattern of approaching girls, first with a few *meh* ones and began to feel confident in my self and actions. Pretty soon I found myself chatting with very attractive girl who worked at the local hooters. It didn't lead anywhere but we still had a good conversation.

Mar 1: Went to visit some friends in another town. We went out to the bar/club around 9 and they had free beer till 11. I immediately spotted a HB10 and HB9 that were at the bar together. I decided that I wanted to run some game on them when the moment was right. I saw a few guys try to dance with them and get turned down and other guys get shot down trying to talk to them. I'd wait until i saw them go out for a cigarette or go to a quieter part of the club and open them. Until then i circulated around the bar and opened a few sets of girls. Nothing really came of it, but I was feeling good. Just as i'm opening a girl, I see the two hot girls leave. Damn... I wasnt watching the time. It was 11 and since there was no more free beer they were heading to the next bar. The bar was emptying quick and I didnt see a point in staying there any longer. I decided we should head to the same bar at the two hotties. As I wait for my friends to finish doing whatever they're doing I see two cute brunettes getting ready to leave. I open them up, chat with them and hit it off really well with one of them. I introduce them to my buddy and he takes her friend. I write my number on her arm and she writes hers on mine. She tells us to meet her at a different bar. Sounds good to me!
We all piled in the car and headed over there. The bar wasn't really our kind of scene and things didn't go as smoothly with the girl I had met as they went at the first place. Crap, this was going to suck.... It was right then that my buddy said he knew of a party near by. It was only like 3 blocks away, perfect! At the party I open girl after girl, and end up getting a free cup from a girl, made out with a girl, got a girls number and got really drunk for free. Next thing I know I'm leaving the party with a cute girl and she takes me back to her dorm. We're hooking up and her roommate is passed out on her bed across the room. She tells me to be quite so we dont wake her up, then almost as if on queue, her roommate groans, sits up in bed and then gets up and shambles over to the door. she turns, squats and pulls down her pants and starts peeing right there! At this point i just start dying laughing and she FREAKS out and starts telling her roommate to stop and to wake up. Drunk girl just pulls up her pants and passes back out in bed. My girl calls drunk girls boyfriend and makes him come over and clean up her piss and we go over to her friends dorm to watch movies and pass out lol.


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