So I have been a part of this community for a while. However I can't claim some of the results that many others seem to claim. Perhaps I have hit some sort of wall. Who knows. But I have decided to start fresh one step at a time.

Challenge one:
Redefine my own sense of attractiveness;
We project everything we think and so if I keep thinking I am not attractive then that is what I will end up projecting so the first thing I want to learn to do is remind myself of how attractive I am.

There are villages in Africa where large women are considered attractive as it was a sign of health. Compare that to beliefs in the west. Conclusion; attractiveness is an illusion created by the media and by society which wraps your own belief about what is attractive.

challenge two:
Try and do more solo approaches. This will reemphasise to myself that I am attractive.

This post is pretty random as I can't be bothered to type out individual approaches but might do it for future day game approaches.

Over the last two days I have been doing quite a few day game approaches. Its remarkable how much I have managed to improve from when I first started about 6 months ago. Back then stopping a girl was the hardest thing in the world.

Right now I seem to be able to stop and keep conversations going for at least 2 minutes. Some are even really funny while others are simple but its pretty cool and really goes to show with practice there is progress even though at times it can feel like things are going no where.

Outer game wise: Managed to do a solo day game approach yesterday which went really well. No numbers but a pleasant conversation all the same which is always a plus .

Inner game: I found meditating and reminding myself of all the positive instances for a few minutes before starting day game is super useful. I intend to keep trying that before I go for my 1 solo approach tomorrow.

After finishing this blog I am going to read through a list I have of why I am so lucky to have all the things i have and also remind myself of all my achievements.

Once I do that I am going to continue reading Intimate Connections by burns. I might do a short review on how I found it.