Im a 24 year old guy from Sweden. In my earlier days from when i was like 11-16 years old i had like no problem at all to getting girls. I lost my virginity at the age of 12. After i lost my virginity i had sex with many different girls, it was around 40-50 different girls at the age of 16. In my hole life girls always find me good looking, besides that i had really good confidens, and were a good talker. Girls saw me as a badboy because i was a boxer and were in many fights. This time were my glory years.

NOW when all turned around:
At the age of 16 i was kinda sick of just having sex with random girls. I wanted a girlfriend. I so got a grilfriend who was really hot, she was a 10. We were together for almost 4 years. In all this 4 years i lost all contact with other girls. After the 4 years she broke up with me. I was really depressed for over a year.
After 1 year of depression i started to go out to club etc. with my male friends. I really wanted to get laid, i tried to approach many diffrent girls. But every singel time i tried i've got rejected. I was like what the fu¤ck?! I wasn't expecting all this rejections because of the earliy days when i got girls so easy.

I thought i only got really bad luck that night. But my male friends that always party goes out every single weekend. I've tried every single weekend to pick up girls, but how much i tried i got rejected.
So after 2 years of rejection all my confidens went entirely away.
(My age were 22 at this point).
The last 2 years i've just been sitting at home and played videogames. I came up with excuses every time my friend wanted me to come along to clubs and approach girls, but to be honest i were so afraid of more rejections.
The videogames started to become my only place were a found comfort. I started to eat like i monster. in this 2 years i gained 35 kg, at this point i didnt even want to show my face outside my home.

NOW MY TURN AROUND:
I got a education. The first day at the education i got introduced to all of my colleges. One of the colleges was a really sexy girl, a 10 in my opinion. She was so hot that i didn't even dare to look at her haha.
When i came home that day i started to think so much about why my life turned this was and that i really really wanted that girl. So i decided that now im going to turn my life around. I GOING TO GET THIS GIRL..
My first goal was to lose the weight that i had gained. In 2 months i had a diet with 900 kcal a day, and trained my ass of at the gym. In the 2 months i lost like 26 kg and its still going forward.
In this 2 months i started Reading the game. Then the mystery method, dubble your daiting etc.

NOW MY GOALS:

1#Get this girl at the education. (If i get her i will get a really good confidens boost.)

2#Then a want to become a PUA.


So my first goal is to get this girl from the education obviously.
So i will give you some information about whats happend in our "class" this 2 months.
The first weeks i planned alot of what im going to say and what to do. But every time i was about to do it, i became a chicken....
The funny thing is she talk to everybody in the class exept me haha.
After a few weeks i did a indirect opener on her then started to give her some neggs. She started to talk more and more with me.
THEN THE NEWS CAME FROM THE CLASS then we are only going to meet up in the class once a week. That means i only have one days a week of seeing her.

So i tought i add her on facebook so we can talk more and i can game her from there when we aint in the class.
She havent accepted my friend request. I mean if she were attracted to me she would have accepted it?
Specially when we are class mates?
She is very friendly when we are in class, and i see some IOI from her. So im getting mixed signals from her. IOIs in class but not answearing on facebook. I wanted to ask for her phonenumber but i was thinking that that maybe not be the smartest move. why would she give me her number if shes not even accepting on facebook?
She doesn't have a boyfriend, one chump in the class asked her that and i heard her say no.

Im so frustrated at this point of not knowing what to do, so i turn to YOU GUYS, because i know you guys are PROS when it comes to Pick up girls.

I've tried describe the situation as good as possible, but if you guys wonder something about the situation feel fri asking and i'll be happy answearing it for you. I really hope you guys can help a brother out.
SORRY FOR MY ENGLISH, I KNOW IT ISN'T THE BEST

MANY THANKS GUYS

Im about to see her tomorrow please i need some tip. All help would be great:)

You were a playa at the age of 16 and did not need any help from what is called the 'pickup community'. All you lack now is confidence and your problem is only psychological.

You have done well to get back into shape don't stop now. The better you look, the less effort it will take to get laid. You do not need to read any method of pickup .. it's all just marketing like anything you see that is in demand. Also do not focus on this one girl.

be careful who you take advice from on here.

Thanks for the answear!
Yeah im trying to be as confident as possible. Do you have any tip how i convey confidence?
About the confidence part, should i just ask her if she want to do something? In some way it is very confindent thing to do, but in another way it seems kinda needy? and thats not good..

Any tip what i should say to her? like should i neg her some more to get her more attracted to me? or should i do some specific? anything that will help me.

Yeah i will not only focus on her. But i always been that kind of a guy that never gives up before its really over:p

Many thanks!