I'm opening this Topic to monitor my achievements and set goals for the future.
I want to be my best self and make a bigger social circle with quality people.
And a whole lot of other stuff, and getting laid while doing it!

so here goes my first field report, hope you guys enjoy reading and plz give feedback! it's much appriciated!



date: 01-march-2013

Venue: Nightclub

Sets Opened: 1
Number Closes: 0
Make-outs: 0
F-closes: 0




BREAKDOWN:

Sooooo, fridaynight i did my very first set as a beginning for my lifestyle transformation.
I find it rather difficult to open a set at a nightclub, i think my own head gets in the way of things...


I was out with a friend, just drinking some beers and i was planning on opening for the first time after lurking on this forum for so long.
My friend does not know im going to be a PUG ( always stay positive!) so i have no wingman at all.
After doing some talking with random people to get into a talkative state i went into the club with my friend.

After checking the club out for like 10 minutes we went to the bar to get drinks. I saw this 2 set right in front of me, and thought " aawh man i have to approach them! they look cute! "
But as you might already have guessed i just stood there and did nothing...... so a few awkward minutes went by and i was just looking around with a drink in my hand doing nothing, when these 2 guys walked by
obviously pointing at the 2set and trying to interact, 1 of them pointed to a girls ass and the other 1 was trying to convince his friend to engage the set. but they pussied out.
So they left, But the funny thing was after a couple of minutes they came back. So i approached the two guys, asked them were they were from and asked if they were trying to hit on the 2set.
They said yes.

I walked into the 2set and said to HB8:
Me:" sorry but i want to ask a question ( the moment i said it i knew it was WRONG! to apologize at the beginning) "
HB8: okey?
Me:" the guy over there wants to know your name"
HB8:" if your friend wants to know my name, he should come down here and ask it himself.
Me: " he isn't my friend, i only know him for about 2 minutes haha"
HB8: (smiles)" okey blablabla"

that opener sucked haha, i was not direct and she knew i wasn't interested in giving that other guy her name, but who cares
We talked for about 5 minutes, tried to get the other hb8 to invest in the conversation but after like two min she lost interest.
my friend wanted to go so i didnt close at all.
didnt even ask for number, and it was a little bit awkward, but im glad i did it!