I thought this would be something I would like to share to all of those who may have approach anxiety or have that negative feeling about approaching which is something I should have shared with you all a while back, I am planning on getting back into day game again and refining my skills in pick-up and I was thinking of ways to get me into a positive mood.
During the 2012 Olympics, me and a friend of mine decided to go to Cardiff which is the capital of Wales situated in the UK. We originally planned to go there just to sarge because the weather was beautiful and plus... BRAZILIAN WOMEN!!! It was the female football/soccer event between Guiana and Brazil so of course, why would we miss an opportunity to game Brazilian women?! There was also another event which was a Hindu Parade which circled through the streets of Cardiff chanting ''Hare Krsna'' which went on for about 2 hours but felt like years. After a decade of parading around the streets we decided to get our Game on, so we did a few approaches, all of which we got flaked on but I was in such a good mood that I didn't care, I was enjoying being there. The SPAM was amazing! After our failed approaches we went back to the parade which finally ended in the square gardens which the Hindu monks served FREE food and drink and we also spoke to the monks asking curious questions about their faith and all that jazz. I remember when my friend and I sat down to eat he said to me;
''Even though we have done some shit approaches, I've actually had a good time today.''
I also saw probably one of the craziest things I have ever seen in my entire life so far; there were these street dancers about 14-17 having a dance off with some of the Hindu monks as they played ''Hare Krsna.'' I thought it was amazing how these people from two different worlds came together for just a few minutes to preform an improvised dance routine in the middle of the street and it gained a lot of attention.
Because I was in such a great state of mind, I was up for one more approach just before we caught the train home. The whole interaction was awesome and I got a number and kiss close in 10 minutes!!!
I just wanted to share my alternate way of getting into a great state of mind for game. Obviously you should all know that when you are in such a great state that you don't care about the negatives anymore and that happiness you feel also conveys to everyone else you interact with making you seem like such an approachable guy. You don't have to focus all your time into Game, you can also experience what is going on around you which can put you in this happy state.
..Or you can go sarging with a Monk.
I would be grateful if you have similar experiences or other methods in which you can get yourself in a happy state of mind.
CHAT