I am newly single after 10 yrs and i'm 32. In the best shape of my life, happy, making lots of money, no kids so i'm in a good spot for the purposes of this community. Left the relationship because she didn't want kids.

Anyways, i've tried online dating and never found a girl i've been attracted too.

I finally got laid after a year and the chick was smoking when in Brazil, met a few more girls and have great sexual energy, women like having sex with me. Met a few girls on a trip with a friend, all dimes, and all were because i just said fuck it and started talking in broken spanish.

Recently i've been watching and reading about the PUA thing and am liking it, but have just tried my understanding of the teachings a couple times but not a full blown attack yet... I have no balls for the mass method just yet, i'm working on it.

First: My dream girl from high-school, absolute 10, I sign up for facebook just a few months ago, bored one night i find her profile, send a friend request (just off getting laid so i was in the right mindset) and she immediately starts chatting. We live in different cities but I travel all the time. She says too bad we rent in the same city, I lie and say I will be there for work, she says call me, I do and we meet up (I was very confident in this planning, she said it was very flattering). I went there for her alone and she may have known, not sure how that would be perceived.

She picks me up, takes me to a 3hr diner, she paid immediately and i never even put up a fight, we laugh its a really great time. She made plans for us to meet with her friends (i told her to make plans so I can see what the city is like, I said I want a nice diner and drinks), show up to a bar I immediately start talking to her guy friends and ignore her a bit. I had a good time, bar closes at 2:30, we are stil there drinking, her friends and roommates are going home, we are all drunk, I say "you go with your friends, i'll get a cab to my hotel" she said "move here with me" i said "you never know" and left (Her and I had a very sexual conversation all night, there was definite IOI's with her bodylanguage). I didn't kiss her (part pussy and part no real option with her friends all there). On the way home i texted something like "your stunning, come meet me for lunch tomorrow" she said she couldn't plans, so I left. a week later I call her no answer, text that i'm in town on the weekend, lets meet up, she says shes going to be away next time. Tuesday I texted her and said "How was your weekend, hope you had fun" she said she did, but the vibe wasn't like she wanted to talk more. I decided to push it, started another line of conversation, made her laugh, we talked a bit over text, I made her laugh alot (she thinks i'm really funny) and said "I just wanted to say hi, hope you have a great night", she said "thanks for saying high".

So, what do I do now, how can I get her to come out again do I say i'm flying in to see you? there's something off but she's stil there and normally i'd say screw it but I really like this girl and always have, i need to re-frame this somehow and get her to agreee to meet me again, i dont want to fuck this up any further.

Second: Staying at a really nice pad, right across the street is a really nice italian restauraunt with a nice bar. Go there with friends, guy and 2 girls but we get sat at the bar and not at a table. The bartender is geourgeous, I flirt with her, ask her name and hold her hand when shaking it, she blushed and didnt let go right away. Anyways, i said I just moved to this city across the street, i'll see you again. Do i bust in for diner and sit alone at the bar or is that creepy?

Wow, this is my first post, I wann be one of you guys!