So with the new year comes a new beginning (at least in my mind anyway), writing a journal has never been my thing but I think it will be a good way to track my progress.

I'm going to try and make the reports as detailed as I can but as with all memories, some will be a bit vague, some hard to understand and some will probably be down right re-invented in my mind but that's unavoidable. I have a regular wing- a very good, older friend of mine (also my boss but that is a long story) and ill refer to him as Nicotine throughout.

First things first, let me tell you a little about the only sure thing in my world: me. I am 24 at time of writing, just over 6ft tall and I have no major hangups. I have been into the "gaming" scene for about eight months now but somewhere along the line I came off the track (I think it was after listening to RSD seminars) and lost all shape in my game. Opening was all I cared about and there was no class or style to my game, once I'd opened anything was fair game. I only night game, only whilst drinking and I rely on the attraction I make through confident opening to bolster the rest of my chat. That's not to say I haven't been getting results, I am starting to get a rep among my peers as a SNL champ. The problem is the women are not at the standard I want them to be, I dont want to be gaming and fucking anything lower than a 7 anymore but I have been hitting on 5-6's. Hopefully breaking down my interactions will help with this.


So without further ado I give you the chronicles of Body Language

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Wednesday - 9/01/2013 - First night of the year going without drinking.

The Tun (bar) - Upstairs whilst ordering a drink (coke for me) there were two HB's (5+6) standing at the bar but the thought of opening made me shake with fear, I was planning on using the jealous girlfriend opener or just something situational all night but I just couldn't do it. I turned to Liam and said "I just cant open im scared, WTF!?".
We sat down and talked for the rest of the night like chodes. I noticed a large group of girls and one kept looking over (solid 8 ) but I couldn't muster the courage again. Later on in the evening I conceeded, had a couple of beers and went home, feeling pissed off and confused.

Friday - 11/01/2013 - Friends Birthday

Bosco Lounge (bar/club) - Spent the first part of the night drinking and celebrating. Did my first opener about an hour and a half in, stop a girl was walking past (solid 7.5), conversation log;

B_L- Hey, were you the girl fighting outside?
HB - Uh no?
B_L -Oh, well she looked like you and you look like the aggressive type, in a good way *close distance*
HB - Im not aggresive! (smile)
B_L - Oh ok, whats you name *hold out hand*
HB - Carmen, whats yours? *shakes hand*
B_L - Body Language *still holding hand fluff talk for about 30 seconds*
*two of her friends join, one is her fat sister the other a friend (HB2 - 8 ), I stupidly now focus on the friend and pretty much follow the above convo, HB1 gets jealous and tries to pull me back to her so HB2 and fatty leaves. Annoyed with loosing HB2 I notice HB1 is really pissed and point it out*
B_L - your really pissed arn't you?
HB - no, well maybe a little (smiles and sways side to side)
B_L - ok, well you go back to your party and Ill speak to you later, gimme a kiss (kisses me on the cheek, walks off)

Later with my wing we open a two set sitting down, (HB1 =7 & HB2 =7.5), conversation flowed very well. We all share jokes, I tell them I have many wives, HB1 teases Nicotine and says he looks like he has a thai bride. Me and Nicotine have been trying to work on not focusing too much on the targets, swapping the HB's we talk to and talking to each other more in set. About 20 minutes in im talking to HB2, she tells me she has a BF, has just moved into a place on her own and that she knows its a puling bar which I tease her about - why does she come here if she has a BF?. She shows me pictures of her new place on her phone. I tell Nicotine im going to the bar, ask him if he wants a drink and wander off (planning on returning).
Nicotine comes over about 2 minutes later, they asked him to buy them a drink and he said "we dont do that with women in bars" (earlier chat with them we talked about men having sexual intentions when they buy women drinks). They said they wanted him to leave and us to come back in 15 minutes whilst they talked about us - I dont know if this is good or bad? :S. We dint bother for a while and after about an hour we looked around but couldnt find them - wooops!.
I left without Nicotine and went to a club.

Hippodrome (club) - Opened a 5 set with a situational opener I cant remember, spotted target (Norwegen HB 7) Isolated her, cocky funny conversation, kissed on the lips, she agrees to make me pancakes in the morning (morning bit her idea!!). Her chode friend comes over, conversation log;

Chode - She is my GF *serious and annoying tone to his voice*
B_L - Cool lets have a threesome!
Chode - *awkward laugh* She isn't really
B_L - I know *continue talking to her and chode walks off after about 5 minutes of being ignored by us both*

Later on we are walking to the dancefloor together, I let her walk a few paces in front so I can get a better look at her arse and chode rushes over, whispers something in her ear and walks her off to the side blocking me out. I think fuck it and walk off and open a few more sets just for fun. Later on I see her again, she says she has a boyfriend but he is in Norway and she doesnt really care but then one of her girlfriends interrupts and blocks me out again. I cant be arsed at this point so find one of my friends in the smoking area.
He is working a 2 set (HB1 = 6 HB2= 6.5) and asks me to wing the obstacle. We end up going back to his place the four of us. I take HB1 to the living room and he is in the bedroom with HB2. HB1 is nervous about her friend being alone so I tell her to lay down so I can spoon her (it was cold), snog her, get her tits out, play with her arse but she wouldn't let me near her pussy (kept saying no) so I lay down ontop of her (stoping her from moving to block my friend) and fall asleep. In the morning she and her pal were gone.



Saturday - 12/01/2013 - Just me and Nicotine

*Ill write tomorrow*

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Good idea,

I'm trying to track all my progress in my own journal so that I pressures me to progress every day.

Look forward to your next post!

Donnar

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Saturday - 12/01/2013 - Just me and Nicotine

Bosco Lounge - I was napping and woke up around 9pm, called Nicotine to see what was going on that night. It seems everyone else bailed on us, oh well! We got in the venue about 10:30, had a couple of beers and talked about what happened the night before, where our game needs improvement and decided we didn't have the motivation that night. After about an hour I couldn't resist and opened a HB7 walking past us at the bar with, "hey does my friend look like a drug dealer? Some guy outside asked him for LSD". She giggled so I asked her what was funny, turns out she thought I was telling her he looked like a drug dealer (first set so poor voice projection maybe?) but once that was cleared up we fluffed for a couple of minutes and I sent her on her way.
Nicotine opened a two set of older women, neither was my cup of tea. One walked off and watched from a distance while Nicotine chatted her up, then the dumb bitch knocked my drink out of my hand smashing the glass and puddling my beer! Everyone within a 2 metre radius stopped and looked but I just acted like it didn't happen and everyone carried on (weird how you can influence people like that?). She said sorry and that it was her fault to which I replied, "yes, it was...", fucking bitch didn't offer me another though and her friend kicked a piece of glass in my direction to signal she was pissed off with me, dumb fuck. Anyway after that the conversation fizzled out with Nicotine and the blonde walked off.
We spotted the HB7 from earlier standing with a couple of guys and Nicotine pointed at her and fingered her to come to us. When she got to us Nicotine said she looked lonely and we chatted for a while. It turned out she was a prison officer, so probably not the best suited opener for her earlier! throughout the threeway chat I got the feeling she was starring at me, eyeing me up which Nicotine later confirmed but I didn't act on it . I cant remember how but that fizzled out as well. It was about closing time so we left for a McDonlads.
Queuing up a three set joined behind (HB1 =7.5, HB2 = 6, HB3 = 5) and HB1 said she recognised me and we got talking. I got the feeling she could have been a bitch even though she was being very flirty and friendly(just had that look) Despite that she kept playing with her hair and staring me in the eyes etc so I knew it was on. We sat down with them and Nicotine was doing a pro job of dealing with the obstacles! She suddenly got her phone out and said she wanted to send a picture of us to to her friend in Australia, then sent a video of us as well (no idea what to make of that?) Anyway everything was good.
*enter blocker chodes*
Two guys sat down with us who must have known the girls because they were greeted and started chatting up HB2 and HB3 whilst being really passive aggressive with Nicotine - taking the piss but trying to be funny and non-threatening etc. Nicotine clearly lost his rag, he looked pissed off. He isn't the kind of guy to annoy, he can get very boxy very quickly and I knew a punch up was immanent if I didn't get involved. They obviously assumed I wasn't with him and saw him as an easy target 2 on 1. He stood up, shook his head and walked to the toilet. Chode 1 picked up his burger and started laughing to the girls and said, "shall I lick it?". He was clearly a fucking chode seeking their attention and I had to do something about it. I stood up and walked round next to him, it took me a second to make the decision. I knew if he wanted a fight this was his invitation and it was now a 2 on 1 against me. I starred down at him with dagger eyes, conversation log,

B_L - Put the fucking burger down
Chode - Which burger? *I obviously caught him off guard, he was being slightly submissive*
B)_L - Dont touch my fucking friends burger you dick *snatched it out of his hands and walked back slowly to my seat and sat down*
Chode - Is he your friend or your dad? *he was very confused"
B_L - He is my very good friend so dont fuck around with him ok?
Chode - Uhhh...*dumbstruck look on his face lol*

Nicotine returns and sits back down still looking pissed off, I didn't dare tell him what happened whilst he was in the toilet. HB1 puts her phone away and says to me "that was a bit aggressive of you", I told her he was being a dick (out loud) and that im not that kind of guy but I wont let my friends be fucked with. A smile grew on her face and she said she liked aggressive, obviously the chat moved to bedroom talk. I told her how I liked make women suck my cock and that I liked to fuck them from behind and hold them around the neck. She was loving it so I finished with, "but im a nice guy", with a 'im going to fuck you' grin. Nicotine has been sitting there this whole time looking fucking angry. Then chode piopes up again and now he was pissing me off real bad, conversation log,

Chode - Im a nice guy as well!
B_L - Well you haven't acted like it *starring the fucker in eyes*
Chode - Yes I have
B_L - you have been a fucking dick the whole time you have been here

Once again the idiot was dumbstruck and didn't say anything. I felt bad making Nicotine just sit there angry so I got up and said lets get out of here. Being a true wing, even whilst pissed off he said "have you got her number yet?", HB1 looked up at me and said, "yeah have you?". I was pissed off with her, she should have told these guys to wind their necks in knowing them so I said, "if it was meant to be the fates will brnig us back together" and walked out of there.
The drive home was engulfed in anger and swearing. I was really pissed off these guys had managed to fuck up my chances - wankers.

Weeks Lessons

1) I need to get over having to drink to be social with women
2) I need to remember to disarm the obstacles
3) Don't get angry with wannabe AMOGs, outwit those fuckers and make them dance for me

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It's great to read these journals and see progress. Keep up the good work!

Note: I didn’t have time on Sunday to finish this so it gets very vague towards the end

Friday – 18/01/2013 – Fuck snow!

Went to a couple of bars, the first of which had about 5 people in it including me and my two friends. It was a dead night. Had some serious snowfall over the past couple of days, serious for London anyway so that must have scared people off

Saturday – 19/01/2013 – Sarging with Uboat in Fulham

Jame Tree – Met Uboat around 9 and caught up with his Christmas holiday stories. I Tried a bit of cocky funny opening at the bar – told a girl she kept poking me with her pointy elbows which didn’t seem to go down well lol. Opened a girl in the smoking area with HUGE boobs! conversation log (rough),

B_L – Hey can you hold this? *gave her my drink while I put on my jacket and scarf*
B_L – Are you Russian?
HB – No, hehe
B_L – Oh, you look like it a little, in a good way, who are those two dudes you are with?
HB – Hehe those are the DJ’s
B_L – Uh oh! Your one of those girls, your bad news aren’t you?

Conversation flowed between the three of us until id finished my smoke and we went indoors, she seemed keen and inside im sure I kept catching her staring at me and smiling throughout the night. Being “with the DJ’s” to me means trouble (DJ’s were two stocky Russian bald headed types) so fuck trying to play with that.

Later on I came back from the toilet and Uboat had opened a two set so naturally I spoke to the obstacle (a 5 with bingo wings). Conversation flowed well, it was all very light hearted. I was bigging Uboat up – “he is a really cool guy so make sure your friend is nice too” etc then she says to me “are you wingmaning your friend?” which kind of caught me off guard. She obviously knew the rules so I wanted to move her away from Uboat and get her locked in a bit more so I shifted myself around (pretending I wanted to rest my beer on the bar) so she was facing just me. Somehow the conversation steered towards sex and I jokingly asked for a handjob in the toilet.

Another girl joins ( I would give her a 7) and the chat flows really well, I told her stories about adventuring ive done in Africa, how my friends went to Joberg last year and got chased by elephants etc etc. After a little while the 5 left and joined some more of her friends leaving us alone:D She was South African and also, annoyingly told me she had boyfriend but I always disregard this unless they bring it up a second time and then question them on it. I tried a new routine I am working on which involves stroking hands, closing eyes and generally being close and intimate and it went down a storm. I put my scarf around her, “here take this, its still mine but you can borrow it”. She came outside to the smoking area with me even though she didn’t smoke. What im getting at is she was giving me all the necessary IOI’s but I still didn’t want to make a move because of the boyfriend issue. Later on she told me her friend was scared of me because of the handjob comment lol. It got to around 11/12 and me and Uboat decided to leave and I though fuck it I may as well go for the number which she gave over with a huge smile.

Embargos59 – We queued for about half an hour to get in, talked to a few girls in the queue. Uboat got talking to a really hot blonde while I was ordering a beer which took about 20 minutes! I hate bar queues, employ more staff you bastards! Once I came back with the drinks she was gone  In the smoking area we got talking to a few women, I remember telling one I really got off on shitting on women’s chests. I don’t know why, I was drunk lol but it ended in my kissing her later. I can barely remember what happened the rest of the night now, I need to write these sooner. The last things I definitely recall were dancing stupidly and talking to a couple of girls outside the bar before freezing my nuts off on the way home, what a weekend!

Weeks lessons

1) Clarify with women about BFs, I dont want to be back stabbing bros!
2) Drink less
3) Write FR's the night after

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* Update on the South African *

Turns out she does have a boyfriend,


Oh and life reminded me I suck on Tuesday;


Looking forward to tonight

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This weekend was a washout!

Friday - 25/01/2013

Bosco lounge - I found only one women above a 6, she was about 30 [HB7.5] and was sitting in a 4 set, two women and two guys. Luckily for me she sat on the seat where I rested my jacket so opening was easy. I asked her to look after it while I went for a smoke and she seemed happy to comply, also I got a some kino in for good measure. When I came back the dude didn't seem too pleased with me talking to her and after about 2 minutes they all got up and left .
*Hurt ego alert* - a pretty ugly girl who was part of a 3 set Nicotine was talking to said to me as she was leaving, "next time wear a shirt that fits". Obviously this means im getting bigger but I wasn't sure how to take it, oh my pride!

Saturday - 26/01/2013 - Friends birthday celebration

Brick Lane - I don't know this part of London at all so I was really looking forward to this but it turned out quite lame. There were LOTS of women but nothing of any standard. Again I found the only one I wanted in one of the three bars we went to but she just wouldn't hook. I opened her with a lame question about the area, something like, "hey I don't know this area at all, where do you recommend?" and surprisingly she hung around for a while talking but then rejoined her friends. Throughout the night I kept bumping into her but couldn't get it together . Unlike Friday night I wanted to get something from the evening so I opened and hooked plenty of sets but, without the interest sexually on my part it was just for fun. Practice is practice I guess.

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