So yesterday we went out sarging. MrFree, Ramiro, MrMiddle and me.

Kind of had a bad start that evening, because when I tried to put in my lenses, I still had red pepper on my fingers. Fuck! That hurts! So I was forced to put on my glasses that evening. Since I was looking a bit geeky (or so I thought) anyway I decide to go all out and put on a bright yellow sweater with a black “radioactive” symbol, with the text: “nuclear healthy” (Dutch word joke).
The 4 of us have different levels of experience and different levels of self-confidence. However, we learned some valuable lessons about this tonight:

Venue1:

Ramiro and me entered a bar to wait for MrMiddle and MrFree. We saw a great set at the bar, but we decided to get a drink first and wait. This was stupid, because soon the set left, and so did the opportunity. We later agreed that we should try and use the 3s rule more often.
After that I tried to mix in a conversation between a guy and two girls, but was totally blown away by the dominant girl.

Then MrMiddle came in and we chatted. Ramiro went off to approach a two set of cougars. After a while, when he was in set, MRFree arrived to and we had a drink. We were placed near the door, and becuase it was around 10 o clock, lots of people started moving in. To get in a positive state I simply say hi to everybody that came to the door and welcomed them officially to the establishment. Most people kind of ignore by quickly saying his back, but it created a fun SPAM for the 3 of us.

I joined Ramiro in set to tell him we were leaving soon. One of the cougars started chatting me up and I noticed that when the woman takes the initiative, all you have to do is stay calm. We moved to another venue and the two cougars came with us.

This was kind of confusing, because I had no idea who exactly his target was, but he escorted the other HB couger and I walked away alone, and the HBcougar I was talking to came walking next to me and kept fluffing. I was getting some light IOI’s.
In the new venue. We formed a group of six and we kind of talked to the women in our group and I started doing some warm up approaches.

Set 1
Two Latina looking women HB9 and HB8. I started talking to them in Spanish: “Hola! Como esta? Bien?” the girls gave a puzzling look and said they weren’t Spanish. I started smiling and told them they looked Spanish. They told me they were from Marocco. I also got mrFree in set as my wing and we chatted for a while, but we couldn’t keep them interested so we rejected. The opener was good though, gotta keep it.

Set 2
Because we danced from time to time with the women in our group and just did an approach I got an AI from a two set (HB 8sexyface and HB7) and I noticed that HB8prettyface was looking for something. She kept having this sensual doggy dinner bowl look. I gamed her hard. Did some C&F routines using my shirt, but I was a bit too eager and scared her off.
The whole energy in the venue started rising as more and more people came in and the music fastened pace. Our game went into higher gears.
From time to time freshly arrived sets would come in and move past or through our group (we had a circle formation including the women we brought). I would greet the passing girls one by one and welcome them in the establishment, then I would look at MrFree or MrMiddle to laugh at the whole thing. AA was now completely absent from my mind.

Set 3
Some girls came into our circle to dance and MrFree opened a HBbigtis, but quickly crash and burned.
After that, not to stay stupidly in the middle of things, we decided to “rotate” which is basicly moving around the venue in circles past sets and opening them on your way.

Set4
A 3 set wanted to photograph themselves, so I offered to do it for them. I tried to neg one of the girls, but the whole thing backfired. Yet they seemed fun and pleased with the company, so we chatted for a while.

Set 5
Two HB’s 7s with their coats still on. I opened by saying Hi and one of the girls smiled and chatted. She didn’t get a word I said though, she seemed quite drunk.

Set 6
I moved on and a girl started opening me with a comment about my sweater. It also has a yellow cap and she asked me to put it on. Off course I wasn’t going to jump through her hoop and demanded a kiss in return. She didn’t’want to give it, but a friend of hers was soon coming in and she would. The girls then proceeded talking to me, but the set seemed kind of dead. Actually, I didn’t really know how to go from there.

Set 7
I was standing with MrFree talking about how great the night was getting and how good my state was (we always overanalyze this, but it’s good to have positive analysis once in a while ) A girl opened me and asked if I worked in a nuclear power plant, pointing at the gigantic black “radioactive” symbol on my yellow sweater. I quickly replied that I sell nuclear material to Middle-Eastern countries, and that my man MrFree was my accountmanger in Iran. The girls smiled, but I think they expected something more serious, I don’t know, but we got blown out.


Set 8
I moved to my wing MrMiddle, whom seemed to have a big AA problem that night. He said it was stress at work and a lot of other “barriers” . To motivate, I told him to open the new set of HB’s right next to us, or I would do it for him. He hesitated so I manhandled him and grabbed him by the shoulder until we both faced the set. I then proceeded patting the girls on the arm and opened by saying: “Hi, this is MrMiddle, he’s cute!”
The girls looked at me in dismay, but I followed up by saying it was a joke and a bad opener, because it implies the opposite. Yet we got to talking. MrMiddle talked to the HB7 and I to the HB8. We really hit it of and HB8 was kind of shy, but was giving some IOI’s.
MrMiddle ejected and I proceeded by suggesting they should come by and visit Amsterdam sometime. The girls agreed, but HB7 said that MrMiddle probably didn’t like her so much anymore. I told her to relax. I met these girls at the end of the night and closed HB 7 on FB and going to try to get them to come with us to Amsterdam.

Set 5-part two
The girl from set 5 came back to me. Her head was very close to mine and she talked slowly. She was drunk, but also giving me the DDBL. I grabbed her sjawl and pulled her closer to me. I told her we should kiss, so she kissed me on the cheek quickly. She then turned her cheek to let me kiss her. I complied and she kissed me on the mouth. I then moved in for the full close, but she moved back and got kind of startled and self-aware of the moment. Damn! So close…

Set 9 and 10
There were some girls standing near a fence that was part of a bar. But I thought it looked funny. So I asked them: “Wow! Why on earth would you stand near a fence on Saturday night”. I liked the joke. They didn’t. But I got MrFree in set there. He gamed a bit but got blown out.

We all got kind of lost at that point and we tried to regroup. I opened some more sets and I got opened a lot. HBbigtits started talking to me and I also had some more contact with the HB 8 sexyface. I tried to get some more kissing game going on and we played some more “let’s guess how old we are game”.
We went out and behind us in the wardrobe was HB8 sexyface with her friend. They greeted me and gave me three kisses on the cheek. I guess I made an impression. HB8Sexyface asked me to stay “nuclear healthy” I promised her to do so for her only. We exited the venue.

outside the “yellow ridinghood” girl was there and said her friend that was going to kiss me just went inside. But we wanted to leave so we left.
After that we went into a bar to catch our breath. The sets described above were the ones “mentionable in this field report” but the three of us must have done about a 60 or 70 approaches or so, counting all the “hello, welcomes, etc”. It was a great night.

We then moved to another venue. A quiet bar to get some evaluation time and a breather. Ramiro went to a two-set and gamed them up. He FB closed at the end. Good job!
We then went to a wilder venue, but the music there was way too loud and it was getting late.
Ramiro and me took the train and we had to run in the end, because we miscalculated. WE ended up in a booth with a HB8 and HB7. They turned out not to be together and the HB8 was so drunk she had to vomit, so she left.

I opened the HB7 in quite a smart way…:
I was talking to Ramiro and the convo went like this:
Ramiro: … so that was a cool venue, but we didn’t see all of them I think.
Buccaneer: Yeah I think we should ask MrMiddle next time. Or maybe she can give us some pointers.

When I said “she” I turned my head toward the HB7 sitting next to me. And shut up… Ramiro was also silent…
The girl responded by asking us what our question was (which was simply about what cool venues there were in the city we just visited) and replied friendly.

We got into a conversation and I talked almost non stop: -joking, DHV’ing about the place I’m from and many many other things. I didn’t try to impress the girl, I was just having fun. But in the end when we left the train she kind of walked up next to me and gave me some IOI’s … or so I thought. But when I moved in fore the close she said no. And that was the end of the sarge.

SOME IMPORTANT CONCLUSIONS:

If you are in a high state, use it to game the members of your wing formation as well! I showed some dirty pics that got us laughing and got the attention from people around us. Also we were laughing and slamming each other shoulders all night because we were simply having a good time. This put us way “in the zone” of approaching and opening and being social.

Once you are in a good state. It’s okay to leave sets and game others and then re-open. Also, I noticed girls will start to re-open also. I felt socially “busy” at some point. WOW!
Don’t use your pumped up state for kiss closing. I went way too needy in for closes. This was my downfall with almost every set. I need to just use it to get in set. DHV for a while and then wait for IOI”s. Basically I switched A3 with A2 (MM).

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson