| When I approach chicks I seem to get blown out before the conversation even goes anywhere. They will sort of smile a knowing smile and then proceed to give me as much shit as possible. Getting them to say anything is like pulling teeth.
If I am cool and chill and just sit there and try to get them to say stuff and chase me, NO ONE will talk. There is silence. Often if they have a phone or laptop they will stare at it and barely look at me, with that dumb flirty smile on their faces.
Whenever I qualify them, challenge them, try to make them fucking chase me, they don't care.
I'll confidently say things like, "Are you any fun?"
Girl: I don't know.
Me: Yes you do, are you fun?
Girl: I don't know you/I just met you
Me: What do you think the point of this conversation is? (DUH!!!!!?!!)
I don't get it--I am doing everything to get girls to chase, but whenever I walk away or leave an open window or say I'm about to leave, it's like they WANT that. I play hard to get, and so I never get anywhere.
I'm not going to tell you this is frustrating, I want to fix this. What in your experiences could this be from, guys? And if you could tell me more about the woman's perspective and stuff, and not how to be more confident, etc.
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