Hey all.
Some of you might do this already but some of you (who are new to the game) may have not so here's a tip (a good tip) that will seriously increase the chances of you getting a girl back to your place after a first date / day two. It's what I still do and I'd say it works 70% of the time.
Ps. It works better if you drive.
Ok, first the prep: 1) If your doing the driving agree that you'll pick her up at the closest train station to you. 2) CLEAN YOUR PLACE (especially the bathroom as per one of my previous posts). All clean? Sweet. 3) Get your wallet and LEAVE it on the table in PLAIN OBVIOUS VIEW. 4) Leave your place to meet your date on time (not earlier).
Ok, so you get to your date and the first thing you say is "I can't believe I drove here and left my bloody wallet at home, I realised as I was on the way here but I was too far gone to turn back. I know exactly where I left it too...it has to be on the table!" You have a laugh about it and you drive back to yours to pick up your 'forgotten' wallet. As you're getting close to your place you say something like "I keep getting told I have some sort of bachelor pad but I think it looks classy! That's it, I want your opinion!".
You enter your flat and then say "see! I knew it was on the table!" (the reason you leave the wallet in plain sight is because the girl will see it there and now subconsciously the girl will think you weren't lying or full of shit and she'll trust you that little bit more). You take her on a QUICK tour of your flat (which you've cleaned so now looks really inviting) and you get her opinion on if it's a bachelor pad or not (not important her view but you have to stay true to why you invited her in). You're then like "ok, that's enough snooping, lets get outta here" and go on your date as planned.
While you're on your date and BEFORE it get's late, casually ask her if she fancies coming back to yours to watch a movie (after you've finished whatever you're doing), 7 times out of 10 now she'll say yes! Here's why, You've come across as trustworthy (wallet), clean (flat), normal (she's seen where you live so now knows you don't have a dungeon with bats heads in there) and will be MUCH more accepting to taking you up on your offer!!
I've done the 'forgotten wallet' thing at least 10-12 times over the last 6 months or so and I've slept with 7.
Sorry for the longish post but in MY experience, this shit is gold! Just try it and see what happens.
Ps. If she drives and you don't, get her to either pick you up at your place and then have her come in (to give her opinion on your place) or 'forget your wallet' about 1 minute after leaving, then do the whole pad speech as she drives you back to yours.
Game on.
CHAT