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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 1:58 am 
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Alright ever since I was busy from school work and class and have alot of free time. So my goal was basically simple to give one complement to a girl. I went to the food court and there was this HB8 working at one of the food place and I was in line. She was wearing her glasses on so I'm just like ok i can complement that.

Me after my order: Hey I just wanted to say the glasses that your wearing it looks very beautiful on you.

Her: she stop looks at me and then she says: Oh thank you the glasses I have has been over a year.
are you wearing eye contact?

Me: yeah I'm actually wearing it

Then she didn't say nothing I didn't say nothing. I felt like the compliment was too strong or coming off bit creepy...I don't know. what do you guys think?

What I learn- I should've lead the conversation. ask her some question in order to get to know her. but i don't know what questions i should ask.

Goal-tomorrow I will push to 3 and i will try to compliment on any 3 women. I'm just trying to be comfortable compliment around with women because Never in my life have i ever compliment on a woman before.
-I should've lead the conversation more to get to know her but I don't know what to ask about her.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 7:30 am 
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Whats up bro here's my take on your situation, personally:
When you said that the glasses look beautiful on her, that was good! but it would have been even better if you could compliment her on her looks, but nonetheless-what you did is a start.
The reason she became silent (in my opinion) is because you were talking about eye-wear and didn't bring up any other topic or ask her another question. As a note, make sure that when talking to women, keep it fun and interesting. Ask her about herself, girls love to talk about themselves, and then comment on what she says. Try not to reveal too much about yourself, that bores girls. Also, try to make girls laugh. A nice sense of humor turns them on. No body likes a shy guy. Be confident and tell her you think she's cute, then ask her to go hangout. You're on the right track!

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 8:00 am 
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Where are you from, initially. Clearly you aren't a native English speaker. I'll be honest, when I'm talking to someone and they don't have command of the language yet, I often have trouble understanding what they're saying. My guess is perhaps your eye contact, I'm actually wearing it thing might have confused her and she didn't know what you were trying to say or couldn't make out what you meant. I don't know. Don't get discouraged but language mastery is going to be an issue for you I feel. People tend to think people who can't speak the language aren't smart. I know that's not true and if you asked any woman, she'd admit it isn't true, but in the moment you're slowing down to talk to someone, you tend to speak louder so you can be clear and these are things you also do to accommodate those of us who are less bright. You start to fall into the trap.

Now, I don't want to be down on you. I want you to get out there and do more than just compliment women. I want you to go out there and flirt and debate social policy and talk about her sweet lady parts in a nuanced way whereby she knows you're referencing her backyard, but yet... you're only referencing the back yard. DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED. You gave a lady your first compliment. It wasn't meant to be flirting, just dropping a nice quip on a cutie. DO NOT ANALYZE an interaction where your only goal was to give a compliment. Mission accomplished (your title to this thread). Congrats. I say you go from 1 to ten, skip the 3 altogether... there are so many women deserving of compliments all throughout the day. Maybe you should pick a 72 hour window and challenge yourself to compliment EVERY single thing you like about anything on the gals. Shit, I saw a girl today wearing gold sequined shoes. She was skinny and hipsterish, but delicate and beautiful. I wanted to slurp and burp her so badly. But when I think about it, that happens maybe 15 times a day to me. I'm sure it does to you to. You ALWAYS have time to stop and say, "hey, I really dig your coral colored jeggings."

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 7:11 pm 
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Thanks bro I'll keep that in mind. I try to have a sense of humor but the problem is I don't have the sense of humor and how do i work on improving my sense of humor?


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 9:55 pm 
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Where are you from, initially. Clearly you aren't a native English speaker. I'll be honest, when I'm talking to someone and they don't have command of the language yet, I often have trouble understanding what they're saying. My guess is perhaps your eye contact, I'm actually wearing it thing might have confused her and she didn't know what you were trying to say or couldn't make out what you meant. I don't know. Don't get discouraged but language mastery is going to be an issue for you I feel. People tend to think people who can't speak the language aren't smart. I know that's not true and if you asked any woman, she'd admit it isn't true, but in the moment you're slowing down to talk to someone, you tend to speak louder so you can be clear and these are things you also do to accommodate those of us who are less bright. You start to fall into the trap.

Now, I don't want to be down on you. I want you to get out there and do more than just compliment women. I want you to go out there and flirt and debate social policy and talk about her sweet lady parts in a nuanced way whereby she knows you're referencing her backyard, but yet... you're only referencing the back yard. DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED. You gave a lady your first compliment. It wasn't meant to be flirting, just dropping a nice quip on a cutie. DO NOT ANALYZE an interaction where your only goal was to give a compliment. Mission accomplished (your title to this thread). Congrats. I say you go from 1 to ten, skip the 3 altogether... there are so many women deserving of compliments all throughout the day. Maybe you should pick a 72 hour window and challenge yourself to compliment EVERY single thing you like about anything on the gals. Shit, I saw a girl today wearing gold sequined shoes. She was skinny and hipsterish, but delicate and beautiful. I wanted to slurp and burp her so badly. But when I think about it, that happens maybe 15 times a day to me. I'm sure it does to you to. You ALWAYS have time to stop and say, "hey, I really dig your coral colored jeggings."


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Thanks bro I'll keep that in mind. I try to have a sense of humor but the problem is I don't have the sense of humor and how do i work on improving my sense of humor?
However you improve your sense of humor is up to you. I improve mine by surrounding myself with funny friends, watching funny videos and listening to eminem :D

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