| I recently went out to some bars gaming with some friends. They do not know of the community, nor of my desire to be involved in it. They are naturals, or like to think of themselves that way. Because of this I wanted to test my game against theirs. Here's what happened:
The first set of girls, I actually didn't approach. It was the start of the night and we were just having a joke and a generally catching up socially due to it being a while since seeing each other. The table across from us had a 3 set (A tall redhead 7, a petite brunette 7, and a stocky black 6). After about 15 minutes, the black girl came over and asked if one of my friends would take a picture, he obliged whilst my other friend "Photobombed". After this we all got chatting, about what they were studying at University etc (simply because they asked if we were students first). The redhead came over and sat next to me and I negged her about her being ginger, but added that I she's lucky though because I have a thing for them.
Redhead: Really? That's so what would you rate me then?
Me: Erm, a six, maybe a seven if you've got a good personality.
Redhead: A seven? I'm a ten! (directs to my friends) Did he you hear that, he thinks I'm a six. What do you think?
Friends: Oh, you're a 9.5 love.
Me: Stop it, she's just searching for compliments.
Redhead: (Moves closer to me) So, I've got low self esteem.
Me: You rated yourself a 10, that's a lie. But now you've said that, you earn yourself an extra point. I'll give you a 7.
Redhead: (lifts her feet on to the coach, and leans her knees across me) You know what else they say about redheads?
Me: Rubbish in bed.
Redhead: No, I'm really good. I've never had any complaints.
Me: (Put my arm around her) I don't have any proof, so that's not earning you a point. ( At this point I received a text saying "come to the Rockbar! There's it's brilliant in here tonight!"
Redhead: (Grabs my phone and replies, but there's loads of fit girls here. )
Me: Not, really. Maybe one or two. We are gonna get off now though and hit some clubs, tap your number in here (hands my phone) and I might text you later.
We left. And all I could think was I could have kiss closed her easily, she stared me straight in the eye just before I stood up to leave and looked at my lips and leaned forward slightly. I just didn't pick up on it straight away. I could even have taken her on an instant date which could have ended in an F-close. But with the successful negging, and making the girl qualify herself to me, I decided to put a game together when approaching girls. It's direct, and it worked well for me. However, I live in a small town that on a night out the majority of people are students, who all seem more friendly and looking to party. So it may have a varied success rate in different crowds. This allows the whole open, transition to be skipped and make a girl qualify herself instantly.
The game is, go up to a girl and say
"You actually hold yourself pretty well, I bet it's because you love yourself"
Most girls said something along the lines of "No I don't actually!"
Which you can then follow up with, "so how would you rate yourself?"
Whatever she says, lower it.
Tell her, you only give a maximum of 5 points for looks. The other half can be made up, but I use personality, sense of humour, adventurousness, good kisser and then tell them, you can't find the last one yet.
This worked for me because every girl wanted to make it a game and try and prove to me they are rated highly. And as you can probably guess, it gives a great opportunity to kiss them. You tell them to prove it, if they say they are good.
If you have any advice, tips or improvements you can suggest please fire away. Feel free to try the game out for yourself, or make amendments to it. But please tell me how it works for you.
Regards,
Sarkie
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