The Number:

I met this HB 8.5 at this public place (anonymous reasons, I will not name) last week, lets call her caroline. We hit it off, but not well enough to ask for her number. I knew I'd see her again so that I could build some more rapport with her. Low and behold, I bump into her again and we hit it off great. To say the least, I got her number in which we scheduled a lunch date just this week.

In the mean time, I choose to keep texting to a minimum however I keep in touch to see how the New Year went for her. All is well and we end up going out on Monday.

Monday Date:

We meet at this cafe and at first its a bit akward, but I never let awkwardness truly settle. We then begin talking about commonalities and the chemistry then begins to go. I asked her if she wanted to walk around and what more. The date lasts about another hour and everything is going great. Before it all ends, we hugged and decided to go out on another date.

The Mistake:

Believing that we had a great thing going and that we were on pretty friendly terms, I decided to heat it up and knock up the intensity. So I texted her about ideas of the next date, we would do a competition and the winner would get to name their prize. Competition was to be held at a vintage arcade and pinball shop to be followed by the dollar theatre. She loved the idea and was very excited. Of course she was very curious what I was putting on the table and at first I told her I wanted to keep it a secret. But then I relinquished and told her that I was betting a kiss***. The mistake, Keeping physical relationship away from the verbiage has always been a working rule for me. Yesterday I violated that rule. Her response wasn't bad either, she said "haha ok." We talked a bit more, and the conversation ended pleasantly.

I still have my doubts that she's going to still want to go out, however I felt like I built enough rapport with her and that I was confident enough to pull it off. However asking some girl to make out never works. I felt like its different in this scenario, but I'm still uncertain.

My Question To You:

Do you think this was a mistake? What would you have done differently if anything?