So I'm pretty proud of my self, I did not close as I wanted with making out or not even a kiss tho I got two numbers.
So I have been reading "the game" and looked at the serie "the pickup artist" and wanted to try out these things on my own. And I just by going out trying stuffs make me realise how good these things work and how much more I have to learn.
So today was the first time going out and I realy tried not to look like an AFC, I wore my suit and realy stood out from the crowd. I was at a small Irish pub saw this cute HB:7 they sat at the table behind me. I could not think of a good opener so I just made something up (it is stupid for a newbie) but I was in luck I asked if they smoked and if I could get the ashtrey lucky me they both smoked and they said, "why don't you join us" I was in. I have no problem talking to girls but the thing is that I have a hard time building attraction, I used something that I saw on "the pickup artist" by telling her to think of a number bettwen 1 and 4 and guess right, it was 3. Things looked kinda bright for me, I was just about to leave when they asked me to stay for one more beer. I thought why not. I drank and we chat for about 30 minutes about nothing realy, I was looking for IOI all the time but I could not see any, I was kinda disapointed, so I told them that I need to leave and go for a club with a friend. So when I met the friend he told me he was rejected entece at the club so he went back to the pub again. I was thinking of going in by myself but the clock was still so early and it was nearly no one at the club so I went with my friend again, when I got back to the pub I did not wanted to be seen as a needy person and did not talk to her right away, I met her friend (a road block) by the toilets and she asked me to join them again so I did. by this time the girl I was after was talking to another guy that looked like the typical swedish AFC so I though to my self why not win over this roadblock to make it easier. when the AFC guy left the roadblock was curious about everything if they changed numbers or if they facebooked, my target made it clear that she did not exchange numbers with strangers at the pub. I saw this as a challange and was excited to win her over. I was just small talk after that actuly but I neged her and made her laugh, I though this was going verry good. But still no IOI's so I told her that this time I had to go for real and told her that I was having a real good time whit her and wanted to see her again so I told her I rearly give out my phone number to strangers aswell she smiled and told me "what if I give you my number and you can call me so whe change at the same time. I said sure and made sure she got my call, this was my first number achived ever! I was verry happy and left them with a smile on the face.
I went to the club but it was kinda dead. I opend some sets but sadly I opend sets with a GF and BF. I respected that and just had a great time. When I took the bus home I saw this HB:8 talking to a guy I kinda knew and he had zero game. I sat down beside them chat with them both to make sure I did not make her feel uncomfterble the guy I knew was going of at the same station as me but I played it cool and wanted to make her feel special like I was realy in to her and did not care about anything else. so when we had passed 3 stations after my stop she asked me where I was supposed to go off. I told her I must have missed it, she suggested that we should go to her place. she made clear that she had a boyfriend and hoped I was not mad. of course I was alittle dissapointed but I felt like if I back out now she will see me like a creep so we whent to her place (her boyfriend was not home) we sat on her ballcony and talked for 1.5 hours or somthing like that. sang a little singstar and just had a great time. I still looked for IOI's but did not see any, so when I was about to leave I did not want to leave empty handed so I told her it would be fun to see each other another time and told her to give me her number, she was happy when to get some paper to write it down on. when we sat on the floor writing down our numbers she leaned her head against my shoulder and I'm pretty sure that was and IOI but I did not have the confidence to kiss her right there.
so at the end of the night I got to numbers and was happy with myself. when I write this I see I have alot to learn and are stoked to learn alot the next coming weeks/months. For a newbie like me I'm proud of myself and going to sleep with a smile on my face.
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