I want to share some txt "game" that happened a couple of days ago. 95% of this girl and mine communication is thru txt messages so you can see the entire story here.
Some back story: I've known this girl for about a year. She is recently divorced, as am I. I would rate her a 5 on my scale...not really a priority for me, but I wouldn't mind adding her to the list. She has recently moved into her own apartment with her two kids and I've thrown around the ideo of a movie night at her place with just her and I. We've gone out and hung out in the past, with some sexual escalation. I dont know if it was a deal killer, but I've told her flat out that I wanted to fuck her. And we laughed about it and played along with it. She's gone into detail of how she likes to get screwed and what gets her going.
Here are the txt. Apologize for it being so long, but I want to include all of the txt messages as I am unsure what is important and what might not be. Notes in parathensis ex: (Note to forum)
Saturday 24th 11:45am
Me: Made ya look.
Girl: and I smiled
Me: Hows it been going.
Girl: hey hun, doing good
Me: Good to hear, when's movie night?
Girl: tell me
Me: Hmmmmm whats good for you?
Girl: kid free Monday through Thursday...I dont know how comfortable you would be around the kids
Me: Mon thru Thurs is fine. Most likely Tuesday since I'm off work wed.
Girl: just let me know
Me: I got a couple of new movies that are still in theaters...I'll double check the titles when I get home from work.
Girl: okay great
End convo at 1:46pm.
Monday 26th 3:32pm (Notice the time of day and my first message to her. I do this on purpose)
Me: Good morning
Girl: good afternoon
Me: Whats up Angela!! Lol. Hows your Monday going?
Girl: going good, read to get off
Me: I know me too...lol. Ive been at work for way too many days straight. 95 hrs last week. Im read to relax.
Girl: dang you hard worker you
Me: Work hard, play hard right...lol. What time do you get off tomorrow?
Girl: at 4
Me: And movie time is around 8ish...
Girl: tomorrow?
Me: Yep
Girl: okay, maybe after ex gets the kids
Me: Def after he gets the kids. What time is he showing up?
Girl: I think around 8
Me: Oh ok. I'll make sure to show up after. Lol. You like pickle and popcorn?
Girl: sure
Me: Good. I do too. Lol.
Girl: what we watching, I dont have a flat screen yet
Me: I dont have a flat screen either. But you have a tv and a dvd player right?
Girl: yeah I do.
End convo at 7:36pm.
Day of movie night, doing the 4 o clock check-in.
Tuesday, 27th, 3:49pm.
Me: Hey!!
Girl: hey
Me: Hows your day going?
Girl: good about to get out of here
Me: Ohhh that sounds good....I got a couple more hours.
Girl: blah, that sucks
Me: Yeah it does...lol. But its not too bad...sitting on the internet watching movies. (Actually watching Adam and Rich videos...lol...but I didnt tell her that, obviously)
Girl: thats fun
Me: I have a couple of different movies for us tonight....some cartoons too.
Girl: lol okay
Me: Pickle, popcorn, anything else?
Girl: I dont have a microwave
Me: Dont worry...i'll figure out a way to pop it at the neighbors
Girl: lmao!
Girl: silly, okay two movies tops
Me: You have to work the next day right?
Girl: yeah, whomp whomp
Me: What time?
Girl: at 8
Me: I'll make sure you get some sleep...
Girl: dont be trying to get fresh lol
Me: I have no idea what your talking about...lol.
Girl: lol...sure sure
Me: YOU dont try to get fresh with ME. I have emotions you know.
Girl: lol, you do
Me: I sure do...and the are fragile...lmao!!
Girl: ay Dom! I like raisnets (My name is Dominic, Dom for short)
Me: I'll try and find some.
Me: ...if your nice.
Girl: lol I'm always nice
Me: Im nice most of the time too!!
Girl: I know you are
Me: I got a not-so-nice side too. Just watch what buttons you push.
Now 6:00pm.
Me: I'm leaving work now...see you in a couple of hours. Make sure to txt me when I can "safely" go over...lol. (Ex husband picking up kids remember)
Girl: its okay, I'm at the gym....it will go straight to my thumb
Me: Thumb?
Girl: okay
Me: Send me your address and directions inside the complex.
Girl sends at 7:03pm: its really easy XXXX Street Name apt 1301
Me at 8:06pm: Whats the word?
Girl: hey still waiting
Me: No prob. Gonna go find popcorn and pickle and some other thing...forgot what it was though.
Girl: I need some tampons (THIS IS WHERE IT GETS WEIRD)
Me: Lmfao...you got jokes huh!!
Girl: I'm serious
Me: Light or heavy? (Playing along with the possible joke...idk whats going on here)
Girl: lol its not my fault I have a wide set vagina and heavy flow <mean girls> (She is quoting a movie here) ...nah I'm gonna go grab some real quick after the kids leave.
Me: Lmfao!! Girl your hilarious...
Girl: I know, mother nature and her untimely visits
Me at 8:35pm: If your trying to "warn" me you can jsut say so...your not going to chew my head off are you?
Girl: oh no not at all
Me: It just seems out of the ordinary that you would share with me your bodily functions...I just wanna catch a movie with good company. (I'm thinking she is thinking I want to go over and screw her, so I'm telling her the opposite)
Girl: lol, were cool lke that....they jsut left I'm gonna run to the store head this way
Me at 9pm: I think I'm gonna stay home, I hardly ever cancel, but your sharing things with me that only girls I sleep with share with me, and we arent sleeping together nor did we plan on it. It shouldnt matter for friends, which is what we are...so idk why you would tell me.
Girl: dont freak out friend
Girl: omg you got to be kidding me
Girl: okay I'm going to bed
Me: No im for real...it seems like you told me that so I wouldnt try to "get fresh"....I just wanted to watch a movie. If I wanted to sleep with you I would have dont it a long time ago...I just want to stay friends.
Girl: dom your reading into it wrong!
Girl: I'm sorry for saying anything
Girl: I guess another night, sorry for being a girl
End convo at 9:14pm.
Well guys, lemme know what you think.
I personally think that she threw in the "i need tampons" comment to show that she cant have sex even if she wanted to...basically stopping me in my tracks. I guess she suceeded since I didn't screw her that night.
Couple of scenarios:
1. She was being honest and was really having her period...but still odd she would share this with me, since it has never been a topic of ours.
2. She threw in the "tampons" line to stop me in my tracks. The honest truth is, the only girls that ever needed to share this with me were girls that I was screwing on a consistent basis anyway.
3. Shes gone complete ape-shit on me.
4. I'm an idiot.
Any help is greatly appreciated. Again, this girl is at the bottom of my list anyway (about 15 girls on my list). I could care less if I screw her or not, but it would be good to add her to my tally.
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