Hey guys,

Just wanted to jot down some things that happened a few weekends ago. Managed to score Friday off and had a long weekend, wicked! Went over to my mates place for some casual drinks and some lunch. We just got chatting about everything and was just really shooting the shit.

I had recently read a book by Rob Judge and Zack Bauer called "The 4 elements of game" and it really spoke to me, one of the absolute best books I've read hands down. Told me to just seek the 'truth' rather than seeking outcomes. Made a lot of sense to me. Anyway!

My friend eventually left to meet up with his girlfriend, so I invited another mate over. We hit up the local pub for some more drinks and some pool. Just chatting away and having a blast. Noticed PLENTY of looks from girls, however I did not take it any further, just practiced holding eye contact, was nice getting them to look away nervously with a smile and hint of a blush. Will definitely be making more attempts at numbers.

Long story short, we met up with some girls that he knew (first time I had met them) and we hit up another local pub. I decided I was going to just be the life of the party and be the naturally charming, funny, cocky guy I am. I spoke to one of the girls as if I knew she totally wanted me. Accused her of hitting on me, tickled her and just made her laugh. It was good! We hit it off well, I can't even remember what we spoke about, it was just all in the moment and all a lot of fun. Eventually, she told me that she thought I was really cute and that she made me put my number in her phone. She texted me right away so I had hers etc. She was saying how she thought I was the sexy and she wanted to get with me.

We go back to hers and muck around some. Didn't get all the way, but it's definitely a step in the right direction. She was really easy to get a long with, totally a joking kind of person and doesn't seem to take things too seriously, which is always good.

Some good progress here I think. Always room for improvement. I think the moral of the story is to just be the guy everyone wants to be around. Girls were fighting for my attention just because I was being laid back, genuine and fun. If you over think, you stumble. I keep it simple. No routines, just say whatever comes to mind and be confident about it.

Keep it charming!