Welcome to my field journal, a little about myself I am no pua by any means but coming into my maturity I feel I am on the cusp of something big. This journal isn't about a pua dominating the game it's about my journy of a future pua. I'm open to constructive criticism and hopefully I can help some of you see what not to do and how to take a positive from the situation

Most recently a hb7 was at my house. She was a shy yet a little different none the less I was determined. I started opening her up and asking her how she knew my roommates girlfriend. Small talked it up for a bit and they left. After being gone for about 20 min from the roommates gf asking if we could drink cuz shE was amazed by the hot guys so naturally I said of course! The night went well and I was life of the party, made people laugh their asses off and asserted my alpha male qualities. After playing a game of never have I ever I concluded she was a virgin and she was gonna be hard to crack. Throughout the night I continued to be hilarious but I never really tried flipping the switch with her. I guess that's my biggest downfall is switching the switch I build a good game only to never flip the switch. Luckily I think she is coming back so hopefully I can close that. Any suggestions on her next time coming into town would be much appreciated

This brunette was working a promo giving discounts initially as I walked in I saw her there and decided to be friendly.
Me: what do you got here today?
Her: doing a promo blah blah blah here's a coupon.
Being with a friend we were in a rush. So we gathered our alcohol tasted some beer and got into line for checkout. Upon being in line I noticed her looking our way.
Me: do you have any coupons for my beer?!
Her: lol no only doing bottles today!
Me: well what about my friend?
Her: we don't cover that bottle you should get this one!
Me: do you get paid for sells?
Her: ya I get commission!
Friend: idk I ordered this bottle it took them a Month ago and it here.
Her: blah blah flirty sell tactic.
Friend: sorry my hearts set on this bottle.

Once again I didn't flip the switch I was playful and having a good time. I should have continued this way what do you think?

Me: do you have shot glasses?
Her: no
Me: well maybe we would buy it with a taste test we could clear your table and do body shots! I bet u wouldn't have a problem selling any!

I was playing some disc golf and saw a few old friends along with them there was a hb9. I'm not a guy for relationships but this girl was different than most. She was no girly girl. Girl was athletic dressed in basketball shorts sweater and no makeup and s fine as hell. Turns out I played a few hands of blackjack with her about 6 months earlier. Through out our game she was hitting on me and negging me. It was weird being In that seat and I was rather intimidated. While playing disk golf all we could talk about was disk golf! I had the ball in my hands and it slipped through. Just strait panicked!

Now these 3 stories I have provided are not exactly recent. But in the past year these are a few instances I really kicked myself and is part of the reason im trying to change. A few things I have been able to take away from these is that I am desirable and I should not be afraid of my appearance.
Now that I am taking bits and peices from my attempts or non attempts I feel like I'm starting to build a foundation for my confidence.

Well I've Known this girl for some time and have had sucess In the past but recently I've been in the "friend zone" for quite some time. Last night she came over having family problems and she needed a friend. Apon coming over we talked like normal but we didn't play the normal punchy flirty game we always do this time she sat next to me and looked me in the eyes and was all over me 5 minutes befor she had to leave. After leaving she texted me a appropeiate pic of her.

Me: I like this pic your pretty cute.
Her: thanks )
Me: I like the way you have been dressing lately.
Her: thank you for noticeing
Me: hard not to you look very pretty
Her: you are such a sweet heart
Me: too bad u had to leave were smoking a blunt and watching movies.
Her: dang I wish I stayed I miss ur face. I'm too tired to come back.
Me: you havnt slept to well lately you should come sleep in my bed and sleep in as long as you want
Her: that sound great!
Me: cool I'll roll up some blunts and hang out
Her: sounds good I can't wait!

So far so good hoping to get a f-close tonight. I'll keep ya updated.




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From what I read, you sort of have the same problem I used to have; All talk and no action.

You say some bold things, which is good. But you don't escalate, push("flipping the switch"). Your game sounds pretty good though so you just to get that close and you'l be comfortable with escalating properly after that.

If you don't want to be to obvious escalating/bold, there's ways of doing it ninja like so she can sort of just feel like it happened, rather than a crazy sexcapade where she feels sluty

Your around the corner from a lay man, wish you the best man.

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Thanks fo the advice man. I don't quite understand the ninja thing. Do you have any material that helped you out?

As for last night we started off the night kinoing, used push and pull and just kept being the charming little fuck that I am and it paid off f-close! Glad too see all my posts are not fails now.

So I had a good day today. At my work I do deliveries and today when I got to destination the reception lady was a hb8. I noticed right away she was texting under the counter like she was in highschool still she noticed me after texting and immediately apologized so I decided to give her a hard time.

Me: oooooooo your gonna get in trouble doing that!
Her: I know I have to be ninja about it or I get in trouble.
Me: lol not very ninja on your Part! (blah blah blah business stuff)
Me: I need your autograph! (gave her papers)
Her: no problem (phone rings)
As soon as I opened my mouth she had to answer the phone
Me: I'm gonna sell it on EBay.
While she was directing her call she was chocking back on laughter.
After she finished the call we picked up where we left off being flirty
Her: idk if you will get much money for it I'm not famous
Me: idk people buy random things there you never know!
Her: lol true! How's your day been?
Me: a little cold actually!
Her: I'm really warm in here!
Me: we can trade places if you wanna get outside and load some trucks!
Her: I can do that. I load trucks like a pro!
Me: sweet does that mean I get to sit and text all day?!
Her: lol if you don't get caught!

We just laughed and said goodbye. I hope I get to go back soon! Anyone think of anything clever to say to her to get her number?

Also I had a convo with a carls jr employee I will have to type out tomorrow. She was not attractive by any means but if I can keep girls laughing like I did this one I should be solid!

Damn hb8 I met in previous post is married

Update on a previous post on here. I met a hb7 through my roommates gf and I was hoping she would come back through so I could try a little harder and flip the switch as I call it. Last Friday we were all hanging out and we made plans to play some disk golf. After going over the plans she looked right to me and asked "are you coming with us? Instantly I caught on, she was hoping I was going. Upon golfing I poked some fun at her game and gave her lessons on disk golf. On the course I thought I might have lost interest being that I wasnt talking about much more than disk golf, until we got to a particular hole. it's a trickshot off of the advance tees. Something a beginner cannot do opposed to following her friend, the one she knows best, she followed me to my tee. When I noticed what she had done that's when I knew it was time to "flip the switch" but we ended up leaving after that hole and going our other ways. Monday comes around and I get a text from her friend that she wasn't to go to the pool hall. I got dressed to the t was feeling like a million bucks. Played a few rounds of pool. She was on my team and against me which was great I got to neg her when she was against me and make her laugh when she was on my team. I was feeling pretty good we were flirting and I was kinoing her which was not very smooth at first but with time It worked out. As we were all sitting and chatting. My roommate was telling her about this stalker from this party she was at that is harassing both him and his girl friend. She spoke up about him and I made a move that worked perfectly and sealed my confidence
Her: that guy didn't add me on Facebook. I wonder why he isn't stalking me too.
Me: if you had the same attitude as tonight I don't blame him for not stalking you!
She didn't respond with words but she had a huge smile and she started punching and hitting me. At this point I knew it was on! Took her to my place kino, watched movies and when her friend went to bed I k closed and number closed. Great night!

Just a little note to myself or if anyone else is reading this the field report/ girl journal is great! The most useful tool on pua is being able to document encounters and track my progress. Making this uphill battle not so uphill

Hb6 working at the grocery store was staring at me hardcore. After bagging my groceries I walked over and started talking her up. Nothing too special. I asked her what she had going on. I made fun of her for having to work on the only sunny day of the week and having to look out the window all day. I fumbled around trying to get her to choose my sample for me. I talked to her and left. Had a feeling she was Into me but I wasn't feeling it.

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There was a cute hb9 at the sushi buffet I was eating at. Instantly I could tell she kind of was shy and timid really bad with the customers. I thought I'd give It a try.
Me:hey your not the one who sat me!
Her: probably not (in a cold tone)
Instantly I started laughing
Me: I didn't get a fortune cookie, does that mean I get to take you home?
She giggled a little it
Her: I'm sorry.
I kept messing with her like that and got her to giggle some more but she wasn't talking.
I think she was into me but was super shy and insecure or a super bitch I can't tell lol

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Met a girl last night on new years I was teasing her and was making her laugh all night. partied hard and got wasted. She ended up laying down in my bed around 9 and letting me party till new years. She woke up as soon as I laid next to her and she was ready to fuck!

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