EDIT: Sorry for posting this in a wrong section. Mod please move the post to an appropriate one.


It all started 8 years ago. In Poland. It was not a constant friendship. More likely a seasonal one.

We met in summer vacation away from our schools doing stuff in the mountains. I was head over heels for her. After 2 weeks of vacations we stopped talking to each other.

2 years later I SPAM her and ressurected some level of friendship. I insisted on seeing her. She lived in a different city so I went to see her. We made out a lot. We visited each other a couple of times but no sex. She broke up with me. The reason of it I've learned in the future: I was just too nice. Never negged her. Never push-pulled.

Couple of years later I made an attempt to get her again, because I've always had feelings for her but it still didn't work. After that she moved to UK to study.

I got myself into a relationship with someone else for 2 years. After a dramatic brake up I decided I needed change of environments, so I found myself a job moved to London.

After some time I remembered about the girl from before, that she is quite nearby. We went out to see each other. A lot of time has passed and my personality and my ways have completely changed. I was telling interesting stuff, negging her, not showing any attraction. After the entire day of sight seeing around London I invited her back to my place (although she was supposed to take a train back) and suduced her with wine. The moment when I turned the light off and kissed good night she jumped me.

Win