Ok so last Friday, me and two of my boys went to the mall to attempt to pick up some ladies. We had intentions of playing Go! which is a game the guys of Simple Pickup play where they see and girl, say Go! and someone has to go talk to her, or do pushups on the spot. Every single one of us bitched out and made 0 approaches.

The next night, we went to South Street in Philly. Two of my friends made one approach a piece, and this got me feeling down on myself for not doing shit. After we left South Street, we went to Temple's campus, and there were loads of people because of Halloween parties. First approach was my friend Dan. We were walking down the street and this really cute girl walks by, after she walked by I was kicking myself for not talking to her, but then I noticed my friend went to do it. He got her number. Great. -__-

By the end of the night, everyone was like "Dude.. you gotta do it!" So after doing pushups a few times, I FINALLY got the balls and approached this really hot girl walking down the street. I walked up told her I thought she was cute and I had to meet her. She was like "Aww thanks!" I didn't really know what to do after opening her, so I just asked her what she was doing, and she said she was heading home. I told her I had to go get back to my boys they were waiting for me, but I'd like to hang out with her sometime and asked for her number. She was like "Aww I'm sorry, but I have a boyfriend." I was like "Ok have a nice night!" and walked away.

Even though I got rejected aww man my heart was pumping! I felt like I was the man after that! I finally had the balls to go up to a random hot girl and tell her she was cute and ask for her number. I was so pumped I didn't even remember her name. But yeah, in the end, me and two of my boys got over our approach anxiety! John made 3 approaches, got rejected every time. Dan made 2 approaches, the one girl told him he had to try harder, and the other girl gave up her number, and I made one approach and got rejected, but felt amazing about it.

I think a problem I need to work on now is what to say after opening. Because after I initially told her she was cute and exchanged names, I drew a blank, and got out of there. Any tips for what to say after opening guys? Any advice would be amazing! We plan on going out sarging loads more, because this was really fun!

~Storm

Seriously? No replies? -__- Was this tl;dr or something?

Practice practice practice, you'll notice the more you do it, the easier it gets and the quicker you react to things you didn't have a clue about before.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

bro i know how you feel. i have started a journal and i went out to do some day game on my own today. After 3 hours of wondering i approached only one girl! i am at first year of university. i went home feeling pissed off at myself.

I felt quite good after approaching my one girl though! I guess the only thing I would be mad about is that it was only one approach, and it was the last one of the night.

My boys and I tried going back at it last night again. We hit up a local mall, but got there like 15 minutes before they closed, so that was a bust. Then we tried hitting up South Street again. There was no one there, probably because it's still post-Sandy, and it was still all rainy and shit down there.

I think I'm going to start a journal of my sarging on here as well, because I'm starting to do this quite frequently. One thing I'm worried about though. What happens when an area gets too familiar with your presence? Like say I'm going to Temple too much and people start going "Oh there's the guys trying to pick up girls again -__-"? What happens then? I mean we're trying to switch it up and go to different malls, different places in Philly, different college campuses, but just wondering.

Oh yeah and adding to this, we can't go to bars or clubs just yet, because none of us are 21 yet. Me and one of my boys are both turning 21 next July 15th. (Yeah we have the same birthday)

lol i know what you mean, i am at leeds university and i am sarging at compus thats what i am afraid of as well. But i d rather have that then me all awkward and unkown. i was on my own man, it was very hard