Met an HB11 online dating. She's a model, by far the hottest girl I have ever dated and one of the hottest chicks I've even seen in real life. Very AFC of me, but I don't know why she selected me.

First 2 dates-dinner and drinks, went awesome! 1st date kiss close. 2nd date she slept over my apt. but she laid it down pretty heavy that there will not be any sex for a while. Made-out with her plenty though.

3rd date: I have found that she is god awful with her phone by this point. During our short 3 week romance there have been plenty of times where I was convince she was not going to text me/call me back, but sure enough 5 hours later or the next day she would. (Stick to the never double text rule fellas). Anyway, tentative plans for Thursday were previously discussed, I give her a ring around 5. No answer, texts me back

5:30 her: I'm out shopping with my friend at Kind of Prussia mall. Want to get together when I get home? (Note* that mall is huge and far away so it means big shopping excursion)
7:10 me: Sure let me know when you get home.
9:30 me: Stores kick you out yet?
9:45 her: I'm coming home I'm sorry. Just had to get a lot done
9:45 me: No big, just makin sure you didn't die.

blah blah blah. She calls me at 11, just got home. Gets changed, takes care of her dog, gets over to my place around 12 finally. Keep in mind I tried to get a hold of her around 5pm originally. I also have class at 8 the next day. Never once did she give me a time estimate as to when she was going to get home. Maybe she didn't know. It bothered me a lot, but she is hot so no big deal right?

3rd hang out kinda sucked in my opinion. We pretty much just drank and watched tv. I used a lot of Kino, but she was not as into kissing me as she was the 2nd date. I even went full on caveman and pulled her on top of me. She never resisted, but I don't think I reved her engine either. She did reach for my hand a couple of times and she ended up laying on top of me while she watched tv (I initiated that though). But all in all she seemed distracted and not that into talking to me or kissing me. She slept over again, still no sex. Texted me a little after she left and wore my t-shirt home (she changed into sweat pants and my shirt at my place, I didn't get her naked).

Does anyone know what I should do to get this girl to invest in me more. I obviously impressed her enough to make her feel comfortable to sleep over. However I want her to be excited to see me and I feel like I rewarded bad behavior Thursday night. Any good resources on push/pull or just getting her to think I'm awesome and that she is lucky to have me? Cuz I don't get the impression she feels that way.

dude online dating ...
First of all fuck your rating system and shit
In online dating websites. You fuck the girl straight away from the first date or you lose any chance of fucking her unless you marry her.

The solution.

Call her up, remark you think she's a bit passive in the romantic play.

She's gonna say: "Well I don't wanna have sex yet."

You say: "Hmhm, I understand. That's not what I mean. I would like to feel your passion, your arousal . . . I think I would like it were you a bit more agresssive."

So, you two are dating. You showed your good side. A relationship must have in it what suits your tastes too. She will understand this. If not, you avoid wasting further time.

If she gets the message, next time, turn her on and say: "That's good baby, now just let go . . . Let go . . . It will be wonderful." And say this with sweet and enticing voice as you caress her full of desire. Be a bit wild in grabbing her, but subtle. Like press your fingers powerfully into her back or belly to convey the strength of your desire, but then relax and caress her gently. Repeat until you read the signs of her body that she's getting aroused.

You're not being a jerk since you don't want to inseminate her. What you want is passionate romantic play, some of eroticism because this suits your character and your style of experiencing relationships. It's not a flaw of your side, it's because you want to love with fire and passion.