Done a lone sarge once before, last time there were way more opportunities (even though club was way less crowded, go figure) but I didn't have the balls to go in and close the deal with two girls that showed obvious IOI's. I would say this time I had more balls, but it was just awful.

Wouldn't say i had approach anxiety, i just genuinely saw very few opportunities to approach.


Terrible night, spoke to a couple girls, didn't get anywhere though, spoke to a few guys, in the end i had to save face and dash out of the club about 40 minutes before closing time, because too many people (including people i know) kept seeing me on my own and most likely losing respect for me, so i just dashed the fuck out. Earlier in the night, I tried to avoid this by building rapport with a bunch of random guys so that it looked like I was with my friends/I knew everyone in the club... This tactic worked temporarily but didn't sustain into the later hours of the night when people started to leave and the place began to empty out a bit.

Also, earlier in the night I saw some girl i hooked up with once but i decided to do the ignoring tactic, and either she didn't see me or she decided to ignore as well. Bottom line, shit night, still glad i did it though. I have balls of steel.

Feel free to post opininos about lone night game/what i should have/could have done, thanks guys...

Peace, Love & Harmony

Also another thing I don't particularly like about sarging alone is that I can't help feeling like I'm on the prowl, it isn't a good mindset to have in my opinion.

sign up for any beginner dance class. and just enjoy the dancing. its the only remedy i know for the lonesome bar crawling social life lacking male problem.