Okay, im going to lay some filed reports on here
Where i did good. Also, i noticed that i kill my own game.

This all occured at a bar. So, i went dressed to impress amd boy
Did it work. I hit the bar with my bud for his bday. I befriended a few
People that work there to get "social proof". My buds and i sat at this distant
Table away from everyone else. I was with a bunch of afcs -.-
I notice to the left of me a couple and a hb10 who's the 3rd wheel.
I saw the hb a bit tipsy, grinding on the guys grl and like a man
That i am look over lol. She notices me looking and starts looking back.
I ignore her amd engage my friends into a convo until one of my friends
Says" dude, im sure u can fuck her. She keeps looking at you".
Im kinda insecure and dont believe me. Then suddenly bam! This
HB 10 walks over amd sits right next to me! Like wow haha nvr in my
Life i would have thought. I took a mental note of how she opened my table.

She walked over opened my friend first with" hey how u guys doing"
Sat next to me while i was still ignorimg her hehe :p and opened me
When i faced her. Heres the convo.

Me: i was telling my friend here how i notcied how
You were bumpbing and grinding on that guys gf. Lol
*i get up begin to bump her with my hips teasin her/ kinoing*
She takes the bait and laughs

Hb: well yeah, theres good music ( she said something similar
My memorys a bit vague cuz i was drunk)

Me: Yeah, but i wouldnt dance to music like this. Listen
Even the song playing now is boring.* luckily it was a slow
Part of a country song. After, that she looks away tells my two
Friends happy bday and walks away.

Like always i killed my own game :/

Later on that night i ask my friend for a cig and approach her and
Ask her for a lighter she replies " sorry dont smoke" i then tell her
" thats was just an excuse so i can come talk to u. I think youre adorable"
She then says "sorry im married" and shows me her ring. Ouch, like
Wtf!? Lol

2nd field report

I go about roaming the bar for a set to open. Then, i see this other HB10 that
Looks like the model from transformers,

Me: Do you happen to have a light
Her: no, sorry i dont.
Me: ugh nobody has one grh lol
Her: i like your hat *ioi*
Me: thanks, it likes you too.
*i then put it on her and tell her she looks good and she insistest we should
Take a pic together*

Okay, i forgot to mention i opened her friend earlier just for social proof
And i think she was jealous of me and her friend because as we are posing
I jokingly face the hb10 and do the vagina licking sign wit my tongue out facing
The hb lmao. I wasnt going to do that pose but her friend said yes while i
Was posing. Anyways , after the pics the hb10 looked at them and i touch her
To keep gamin her and she walks away

I and her friend killed my own game yet again?
Later on that night i walked pass her and i hear her say" hey, i took
Pics with him" but i felt like a failure that night after all the failed attempts
And walked away. I did open other sets but after those two and a few
Beers i slowly began to get tired. Man, gamin sure does wear u out lol

Side note. As i was walking through the bar i would gibe high fives to the passin
Women and they would comply even at times try too interlock our fingers together.
One of my afc buddies noticed this and said " man, thay girl wanted you".

Is he right? I just do it cuz its fun and for social prood haha

I know im getter better at my game. Even at work the girls there are giving me gaga
Eyes at times lol.

So, can someone please critque my game and what woulld a pua have
Done to seal the deal. Cuz, i can reel the girls in but i cant seal the deal :/

Oh c'mon guys, seriously?

Well to be honest it's just the norm, you just need more practice. This stuff doesn't happen over night!

Everyones got a different way of pulling chicks and theory and confidence are two very different things. Just practice, I would say your probably too caught up in your head. Just go with the flow, who cares what your friends says. Assume the chick is fully into you every interaction and act knowing that

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Yeah ur problem right i do over analyze things thats why i get kinda drunk at the bar
And go with the flow. My main question wich still remains to be un answered is what would
A pua have done to not only reel the girls in but to keep them. Not just catch and release
Like how ive been doing. I wanna pound the fish i catch not throw away lol

Open to more feed back negative or positive.

I'm going to sound critical but don't get discouraged b/c you are on a decent path.

1. stop asking girls for a light. Where I am , smoking isn't cool and a lot of girls will disqualify smokers instantly. If you are a regular smoker, get to know them before they realize you smoke.

2. women don't like complainers. complaining about the music or anything else isn't smart.

3.if you were too drunk to remember some of the conversation, she likely noticed you were drunk and that turned her off.

4. you did good by ignoring her at her first contact, but she was the one that initiated contact. It always turns me off when women approach me at bars for multiple reasons I won't get in to. But, it's not necessary to let her know at that point you noticed her grinding. If you already noticed her and wanted to talk, why didn't you man up and go initiate the contact? that's what confident men do.

5. the way you are explaining this first story , it sounds like you were probably a little bit excited when she sat down. Women don't generally like guys in bars to get excited about their looks. Possibly it boosts their self esteem, but it also bores them.

6. I am not sure what type of motion you are talking about with this vagina licking but you generally don't want to acknowledge a woman's private parts in a bar who you are just getting to know.

7. I would have to watch how all these high fives are going but where I am at it seems a little silly. I don't know how old you are, but when you are dealing with women over the age of about 20 and especially 25+, most like maturity over fun. Maturity can prove to be a fun guy, but you illustrate a personality that's not in a sober frame of mind and probably not mature, therefore you are putting yourself behind the 8-ball.

None of that is to say that what you are doing will never work. But you have a lot of low percentage concepts going that on most hot women won't work.