| Hey guys!
So basically I picked up this girl who looked liked my age, (19 years old). I never established an age in set with her.
About her, she's really fobby (foreign). She hasn't been in LA too long, she's studying abroad etc. HB 8, speaks good english with an accent.
So i establish this day 2 with her. I pick her up, small talk in the car. Basically i find out that she's 24 years old. It's not a big deal to me, i've tooken out older girls before so it doesn't really phase me. She finds out i'm 19. Didn't seem like a big deal to her at the time. So we arrived at the venue, things were going good. Holding hands, arm around her waist, she was wearing my jacket, etc. We sit down in front of a fountain. Still holding her, I attempt kiss closing. She LMRs. Tells me she can't. I push a little more for it. Still nothing.
She then tells me everything is good, but she's concerned about the age. I then frame our interaction with "i'm young yes. but my social experience is way past people your age." she then continues to tell me we're moving to far. At first I thought it was a bullshit lmr, but then i remembered that most couples in asia take things really slow. (i'm korean myself).
After that things continued to escalate well. I was still holding hands, and all that mushy stuff. Oh by the way guys..she's a virgin and only had one boyfriend (which kind of draws me into her more).
After the venue we go to a hillside. Good view. Romantic, you can see the stars and everything. I was holding her..again. Tried kiss closing again. I mean come on you can't blame me. The place is like super romantic, it's like the eziest kiss close spot. -_- but..i still failed.
If she wouldn't kiss me then, I started thinking at the moment. "maybe she's not into me at all. she's just complying to my kino because she doesn't want to let me down". So I gave her my lucky necklace and told her that shes gonna wear it and give it back to me when i see her again. She replies with a warm smile, blush, and an "okay" filled with excitement. Freaking, okay. I'm still in this, no worries.
We were just sitting on the hillside and out of nowhere she asked if we can go.
Which kind of confused me, because that's an iod. ;x
so i dropped her off, gave her a kiss on the cheek and left.
So far what i've gathered is that she's very traditional, and wants to take things slow. I know she's into me but age is a problem for her. We ended the night with her giving an iod (i might be overthinking it, but pretty sure it is).
sigh
any thoughts?
feedback.. thanks y'all
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