This is the first time I've ever been this confident. It's like whatever I said just came to me, I just drew upon my knowledge I have been learning for the past two years, and it all just came together for me. There were no routines, no gimmicks, no nervousness. I just saw that I wanted her, and closed her. Here's the story:

If you guys are following my posts, you will know about the daygame incident I had with the cops a week ago today. It gave me a huge emotional blow and my self esteem sunk greatly. I also had a new fear of approaching-I was afraid every time I approached I would creep girls out, so that kept me from approaching COUNTLESS times. I maybe did 20 approaches last week. Pretty sad.

Tonight, however, I made an effort to get past my fear. I went to a different college campus (I am banned from the big one) and did as much daygame as I could. At first, I was being a puss, but as the night progressed, I did TONS better. While I did probably less than 10 approaches tonight, they were pretty much ALL quality. I didn't do any bullshit "do you know where I can find some penis" approaches, but I still had some great fun.

Firstly, I started asking girls where I could find some dope. Pretty funny, most girls laugh and say no. (Probably not a good idea though considering my previous luck with the cops, but oh well. I always tell them I'm kidding at the end.) One girl and I had an actual good interaction because of it. She said she didn't know, and I acted like she was really weird because she didn't smoke weed. I accused her of being boring, etc., and she responded well. I also freaked her out when I told her towards the end that I was FBI and looking for the campus drug dealers. As soon as I told her I was kidding I got BIG laughs. Great time. That got my confidence up quite a bit.

At the end I started going direct. Since it was raining, I asked girls if I could stand under their umbrella with them while they walk me to my car. Surprisingly, most of them let me! That's awesome! The best part of that is, we have to stand close together (comfort), I had the balls to ask a really hot girl if I could use her umbrella (unusual, demonstrates I'm not intimidated, +Attraction) and it forces us to have a conversation, and she can't just walk off! It's so perfect! Almost got a number out of it.

The last one (and by far the best approach I've ever done) I was standing under an awning calling my friend. A cute girl (7.5) was also talking on her phone about fifteen feet away from me. I looked at her, as if studying her, and finally said, "can I tell you something? You're really cute." She put her hands in her face shyly and said nothing. After like 30 seconds passed, I said, "what's your name?" She told me, then I asked if she had a boyfriend. She said she did. "Oh really? What's his name?" I said, testing her to see if she was lying or not. She shrugged. "Liar!" I yelled. She laughed again shyly.

"How tall is he?"

"6' 6"" she told me. "No fucking way! I don't believe you." I said.

"Come here I'll show you a picture." She said. I marched over there and looked at a picture of him. "I guess you pass the "does she really have a boyfriend" test then." I said. But I didn't give up.

"What if I have a waayyy bigger (stretching my hands out like I'm measuring my penis, a Sasha trick) personality than he does?"

She giggled, "you do. He's really shy."

"Uh huh. And what if I have like 8.3 million dollars?"

"What if he has 8.4 million dollars?" She touted.

"Well then I still have the personality thing going for me." I responded. After a moment of consideration, I added, "here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to give you my number, and if you guys ever get into a fight and you need some revenge sex, you can call me."

She agreed and took out her phone. "Are you going to watch me to make sure I put it in?" She asked. "Damn straight." I replied. "Here, I'll let you put it in so you'll know it's in there."

I took the phone and typed it in, then looked through her contacts to make sure it saved. I noticed she didn't have very many, so I negged her about it. She said she has a lot of friends but she's just really shy. As I scrolled through, she kept laughing while covering her face. "Oh my god!" She kept repeating. "Is this really happening?"

I "accidently" called my phone from her phone. "Oops. I accidentally called my myself. Now I have your number!" She laughed again and said, "wow! You're a sly one!"

I excused myself and reminded her to call me if she ever needed revenge sex. She said she would, and I left, elated.


A month ago I would never have DREAMED I could do something like that. I wish I could be like that all the time! That was such a huge relief after last week being so horrible I couldn't even hardly approach without being super insecure. Here, I just knew exactly what to say and I literally "swept her off her feet!" That's the first time I can say I've EVER literally swept anybody off their feet. She will be thinking about me all night now. She may even call me soon, who knows. Sounds like her boyfriends a dud anyway.


If only I could do that everytime. I guess that will just come with experience. I've clearly got it in me to do that-the key is just getting good enough to do it every time.

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