Still new here, but here goes
I met up with some friends the other day, they got some girls along. The drinks were going around, karaoke night going on and the girls were hot.
I was cocky and funny, demonstrating higher value, doing KINO. Everything was looking great.
At this one point, everyone decided to hit the floor.
About half way towards the floor, I turn around and notice one of the girls sitting all by herself at the table that we were just at.
I head back, sat next to her, looking at everyone else for about 2 seconds.
I turn to talk to her, and she starts crying. Proper crying.
I didn't know what to do, asked her what was wrong and she said nothing.
(When she says nothing, there is obviously something, this I know)
Our friends returned in the mean time, giving me dirty looks.
I told them I did nothing, so it was fine.
Before she left, she did tell me that she had had a very rough week and had also apologized.
I didn't get her number or anything, haven't been in touch with her since. Got her friend's number though and meeting her friend later this week for drinks.
Reason why I didn't try and soothe the original girl was because I didn't want to be her emotional crutch. Once you're that, your in the friendzone.. Means NO ACTION.
I'm sure there must be a way to not be an emotional crutch and still get action.
WHAT WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO? WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE IF THIS HAPPENED TO YOU?
~Alladin