Hi,

The idiot that I am recently got talked in to a bet which forces me to find a girl friend whithin 2 Months and then keep her for three months. This is a journal for this search.

Failing would mean some unpleasant consequences from my friends.

You who are interested in reading this guide are more than welcome to give advice or critique on my journey. Because that is what you will be reading about: my journey for getting a girlfriend within two months. I have never had one before (I´m 18, so I´m a bit nervous).
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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

The challenge started September the Second (this Saturday) fortunately I had on the day before hooked up with a very cute potential girl when I was standing door-guard at a party.

Her and her friends didn´t like the party inside so they stayed outside talking to me. I also had a bit of social proof since other girls also did just that. We got talking and I think she seduced me because I was hitting on her friend at first. We made out but all the bedrooms were closed so I couldn't take it anywhere.

The day after I was a bit worried that we had not really spent enough time togheter or connected. But here is some of our texting convo:

Me (right after taking her number when fooling around on a couch 02:00): "Hi:)"

got no reply for that, I then texted her "Which place is the most fabulous |where she lives| or |where I live|"

She answers: haha what do you think?

me: Depends, my place is cooler but yours is sweeter /my name

no reply.

We end of kind of like a random hook up because we didn´t really say good bye to each other or anything but she adds me on Facebook so I write to her the next day.

We then chat for the following two, sending a total of 27 messages, up until earlier this day and it ended like this:
her: haha yes but what do you say about grabing a cup of coffe this weekend?:)
me: ye like a afterwork for me (I work very close to where she lives), show me your best local coffe-shop
her: haha that will be super xxx
me: cozy xxx

Lets see if there is any girl friend potential here. FAILIURE and punishment IS NOT AN OPTION :s .

Any thoughts on how I should go on with this interaction?

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

Sounds like a fun challenge! and it looks like you have it handled well.

The only advice i can give is to make sure you storytelling delivery is on point. that's always helped me in the past in building rapport which should help your challenge immensely. have a few good stories in your arsenal.

GL dude

Keep working this girl...but keep your options open. Nothing puts you in a worse frame of mind than a hard deadline and no options.

Thanks for your replies. But I never use stories, I just get her talking usually.. Any good story that shows boyfriend material that I can borrow?

Yeah I know what you mean, I'm already kinda in that mindset.. In person I was way cooler but on texting I was writing longer and replying faster. Luckily that got her to open up and do the same I think. But I need to be careful so I don't lose my manliness

Thanks again for your tips!

newbie advice but i'd say don't over-think things and be confident! maybe after the coffee take her somewhere, be a bit spontaneous!

Your only looking to borrow it? In that case I want it back after I lend it to you Lol

You´ll get it back with critique and her reaction if I decide to use it

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

lol @ jug.
I have no problem sharing but stories are tough cos its related mainly to me and my life experiences. So unless you lived it like i did, you wouldnt be able to use it.. you know what i mean?

The main purpose of it is to paint a vivid picture with a lot of descriptive/emotional vocab. women usually love this stuff; the more descriptive the better. Im not a pro at explaining it but you should def Youtube Mystery's talk on this topic. You want to use ur experiences to build value and to add more depth to the convo.

Hope it helps. Cheers.

Update on the situation:

Have started gaming on some of my better friends but I making moves there would be pretty messy. I might call up an old open relationship I had this last spring who dumped me because I didn´t want to commit.

Texted a bit more with the girl from Friday too:
me: how you doin:)
her: I´m doin fiiiinee, at school thoug which is kinda lame.. how are you?:)
me: Done with school and just got home from pancake lunch.. it´s alright:) when do you get of on friday?
her: Cozy with pancake lunch, I´m of at 15:20
me: Not so cozy being stuck at school though... Meet sometime between 16 and 17 then? xxx:)
her: Extremly non-cozy.. yeah that sounds super, but I thought we might skip the coffe since I hang out at coffe shops so much anyway haha can't we go for a walk instead?:) xxx
me: Thought you were gonna learn me the art of coffe.. We can see what we want to do when we meet xxx
her: haha great xxx

Thoughts? feel like I downgraded from the coffe-date and that shes having cold feet

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself

two months is a reasonable time frame.. it's pretty much how long it took me from opening my OkCupid profile to getting exclusive with my current girlfriend

I would keep gaming IRL, but why not give online a shot?

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Dude
its SOO not a downgrade.
Walks are so much better than coffee dates.
Think about it.

Your alone with no tables to seperate you guys, and theres a TON of opportunity to KINO. If i were you I would dial it up like crazy, escalate the kino big time.

From your text convo she sounds into you, so my 2 cents - go for a walk close to where you live, kino, and if all goes well (im pretty sure it would) invite her back to your place for dinner, (just grab take out or something)..you get the idea.

Agreed a walk has way more potential than a coffee date. She's just said she would rather be alone with you than sit in a coffee shop.

The walk also gives you the ability to stop by multiple cool places and isolate for physical escalation.

I don't think there's anything more tried and cliched then don't make bets like this if you don't know you can win. But anyway. If you don't wanna abstain from having more than 1 girl in 3 months then just take one and tell her it's a casual relationship!

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