I have to say that tonight was a success and I definitely had fun, even though I only number closed 1, I did a gang of approaches. It wasn't awkward as I thought it would be. Once you start approaching women, you kinda forget that you're alone. There was some obstacles that I was faced with during the night that I have some questions about. I'll get to that later

This is my first time ever sarging night game by myself. I usually take a wing with me during night game but most of my friends are terrified to approach women but I'm not going to let that stop me. I honestly have to say that sarging alone is 10x better then sarging with a group of friends IMO or should I say MY friends. If I had another friend that was into the pickup game like I was then it would probably be better but with my friends, lets just say it's best for me to sarge alone.

There's a spot in the city where they have a group of bars all together and thats where most people go so it's super packed. When i first got there, it took me 30 mins to get used to just me being alone. I was walking around during that time, just getting into my mode. I went into the first bar and stood by the downstairs door just watching females come in. I decided to play the security role and I started to approach women as soon as they walked in. (NOTE: Every female I talked to tonight I went direct). I'm not going into detail because they were a gang that i approached. I told them to come to me and said in their ear "You're attractive, I have to meet you, what's your name?" or "You're attractive, what's your name?" All of the females I talked to tonight got physical quick!

I'm just going to tell you the 3 most memorable approaches of the night. They had this bangin' 8.5/10 chick walk in, we made eye contact and I signaled for her to come to me with my finger. She gets to me and as I'm about to talk in her ear, she wraps her arm around my back so it's like we were hugging. I said to her "You're attractive, what's your name?" she told me her name and i forgot because I'm horrible with names. Then i asked her age and she said "24" and I told her I was "22 (im actually 21) and she said "you're such a baby! You're soooo cute!" and then she ran off with her friend. I see more of this chick later in the night. The second one was this bangin' 9/10 Asian chick. I see her walking out the door and tap her on her shoulder and say in her ear "you're attractive, what's your name?" she didn't say anything to me but as she walked off, she grabbed my biceps (mirin' my aesthetics) and smiled at me and then ran off with her friends. The 3rd chick was this little 7.5/10 chick that she actually approached me at another bar i went to. I ended up easily numbering closing this set. She came to me and said "I want you to teach me how to dougie!" I said "I don't know how". We ended up having small convo and I tell her that I have to go and we should exchange contact info. Before that chick approached me, i see the bangin' 8.5/10 chick again. She instantly came over and hugged me and I told her "We have to exchange numbers" and she said "I can't, I'll get yelled at" and I asked her "You have a boyfriend?" She said "Yes". The way this chick was on me during the night, it didn't seem like it.

I did a gang of other approaches tonight which was basically small talk, didn't number close them. which brings me to my questions for you bruhs

1. Tonight I was having some good convos with alot of cute females and they were really receptive but didn't get to number close. What's a good way to escalate conversation to number close efficiently when there's music blasting and people everywhere? Should it idly be 2-3 minutes before you number close?

2. There was the bangin' 8.5/10 chick that said she had a boyfriend but she was clearly on my nuts the whole night. What is a good way to escalate with a female that has a boyfriend and she's on your nuts the whole night?

3. If a female stops in the middle of the conversation and goes back dancing or stops to talk to a friend, is it a good to say "I'm not finished talking to you yet" or just let her go?


This is my first time ever going night sarging by myself. I'm still perfecting my craft which will get better with time. Will be doing this more often

Things I need to work on:

My confidence was pretty good tonight but I think it needs to be a little bit more higher as well as my charisma

More number closes. I need to stop approaching females just to have convo. Need to try to number close

Need to get more physical. I did alright tonight but I feel like I could have done more.

I want to get a kiss close sooner then later

1. Isolate the target. Use your instincts to know when to isolate.

2. One thing, forget that she said that she has a bf. Hold your frame, she will give in.

3.Let her go. that means that you didnt got her attention. There are many fish in the sea. look for the best.

another thing, don't go for number closes. Go for f-close IMMEDIATELY. escalate then go for it. You have massive charisma and good frame, use it at your advantage. I suggest trying the Apocalypse Opener.

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I'm having massive trouble trying to sarge alone. mostly because I'm 20 and can't get into bars, and then inferiority seems to settle in when I'm right outside and can't get in. So where else can I go to?

I want to do a number of different routines that I feel are comfortable to open up with. but i don't know if these fit for outside a bar/ club scene.

Drug Dealer opener

opener about my shoes (i have these red vans that stick out that i wore last night, coincidentally like 3-4 men tried to approach me, and one pulled up alongside of the curb...and tried to bag my number. uhhh...i don't swing for the other team ) and whether or not it's gay to wear red shoes.
observational openers (i got a huge tan today. so i asked some girls "do any of you want to trade skin colors? blah blah blah)

EDIT: common sense. you wouldn't do a drug dealer opener in a mall. makes no sense. lol. but the way i see it is that i would bring it up from a previous situation that would be plausible.



are these fine to walk up to any girl to ask randomly?