Hey guys, I'm Michael and I'd like to write a journal documenting my transition from being a AFC to an alpha male who's successful in both lifestyle and women.

How it all started
I was at a party on Saturday and I was having some really good chat with a girl I liked from work. She seemed really into me but to my demise I discovered that she found my excessively drunken friend who was sprawled out on a foldable bed very attractive. I drove home in anger and I'm just tired of this happening over and over. Time to get my arse out and be the man I want myself to be!

What I've learned from this community?
I've learned that unless you get out of your comfort zone, face what you fear most and make those changes happen - you'll never be the man you want to be. I could have all the routines and knowledge in the world about attracting women however what good will it do if I don't get out there and use it?

What I want to achieve:
- To fearlessly approach women. AA sucks.
- To make those approaches into future meetings, ie insta-dates, future dates etc.
- To improve my social circle and have a high abundance of hot women in my life. Shouldn't care if I get friendzone if having kool women as friends is fun!
- To learn how to connect with women and escalate effortlessly to kissing, sex and date closing.
- To have amazing sex regularly, I also want to stop masterbating to clear my mind and get my sex drive back.
- I want to be THE MAN at clubs and parties, allow myself to be entertained instead of entertaining them.
- I want to get into entrepreneurialship and use my hard earned cash to travel the world and have the home of my dreams.
- To become independant and rid myself of the burden of living with parents.

By writing and commiting to this journal I will be commiting to my life goals. Also, I approached 3 two sets in the streets today (will post later) and I will be going out to the club later with friends (will post tomorrow!). LETS DO THIS!

All support is appreciated!

MickCoffee!

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

03/07/2012 - Day #1


What I plan to achieve.
I want to prove to my unconscious mind that approaching women is not as bad as it's making it out to be.

How do I plan to do this?
By merely approaching a few women, ask a question, get an answer, comment and eject. Simple first day start.

Here's how it went.
I hit the City of Stirling (Central Scotland, 12 miles from where I live) and I instantly hit the Shopping Centre. I say it was about 5 hot girls that walked past that I actually done my first ever approach, on a 40 year old blonde HB6 manager in Debenhams who was talking to her colleague. I jump in and say,

"Excuse me? Is there a Starbucks or somewhere I can get a coffee around here?"
"Erm.. yeah there's literally one around the corner!"
"Ah, excellent. Thank you!" and eject.

Walking in the direction she showed me I noticed that I started to feel really good. So I said fuck it and approached a 2 set chilling outside the shopping centre.

"Excuse me? Where can a guy get a really cocktail around here?"
"There's a place around the corner called the Kilted Kangaroo (I know the place lol) they do great cocktails."
"Ah great! Thanks a bunch!"

Here's the fun part.
After my 2 approaches to a 2 set I felt like this wasn't as bad as it actually was. I looked on to an Ann Summers store and I remember grinning mischievously. Surely the girls of Ann Summers (a lingerie and sex store) know where to get a great cocktail. So I head on in.

I head to the till and there's a girl on the phone, another one approaches from the back room.

"Hey how you doing. Where can a guy get an amazing cocktail around here?"
"Oh the Kilted Kangaroo do amazing cocktails, you should definitely try them out."
"I'll hold you to it! Where is it?"
"Oh just blah blah blah blah"
"The lady on the phone cuts us off.
"Here *hands me a blue cyclinder tube*"
"and this is?"
"You said you wanted a GOOD cocktail!" *It's an aphrodisiac*
"Ohhh but not THAT type of cocktail."
"Haha all the couples are using it nowadays."
"and what makes you think I'm a couple?"
"Well you're a very handsome man."
"Thank you! but I'm only looking for a strong non stimulating cocktail" *hands her back the tube*
"Ah ok, I just heard cock and decided to give you that" *qualification?*
"Hahaha! Yeah it's kool, you're obviously a very thoughtful girl. *and ejects*" I can feel them talking about how fun that was as I walked out.

So yeah, after that I hit the Kilted Kangaroo and celebrate my first 3 approaches with a nice Rum, Lime and Cola

So... What have I learned?
- I CAN approach women and it isn't half as bad as I'm making it out to be.
- Girls are so fun!
- A simple opener can be easily escalated into a interesting or sexual topic.

Where now?
I'm hitting the hospital in 2 hours to visit my grandfather. I plan to approach as many women as I can and try and escalate the conversation a bit.

Here's to my first step!

Michael.

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

Hello!

I approached a 2 set and a lone girl today and what I've noticed is that the intensity of my nervousness has dropped, allowing me to focus more on the topic of conversation at hand. However, after a brief catch up conversation with a female friend, I've realised that I also need to improve on my conversational skills. It started very well and as time past it gradually got less interesting.

Yesterday however, I was at the hospital visiting my grandfather and this very attractive blonde nurse was walking in my direction. "Here we go," I said but for some reason I didn't approach regardless of feeling just slightly nervous. I have no idea why I didn't do it!

I know now that whenever I want to approach I must do it to avoid regret. At least until I have a high abundance of women.

All in all, fair day on the game

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

Approached a hot chick in Debenhams yesterday, couldn't escalate it to anything big but she did seem receptive of my high energy. Will definitely head out tomorrow to focus on escalating approaches to a date or friendship in general.

Just back from a friends dj gig that's still ongoing, kind of left because it was slowgoing and boring. Will head back in an hour or so. Anyone got any advice on how I can head in and liven up the party?

Coffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

On Tuesday night me and a couple of mates play poker at the local pub for a fiver and winner takes all. I was in a hand that I was committed to and unfortunately this drunken fat girl comes over and asks how the game is played which is the worse question to ask, we basically brushed her off. She was with a cute blonde girl who looked around 25 and as I'm concentrating on playing I heard "Iceland" I noted that the girl worked in Iceland.

As I finish with my hand I look up to the girl and say with a smile "Hey! Is it actually true that Moms go to Iceland?" (if you're not UK you will not understand this.) Apart from the blonde, everyone burst into histerics. Turns out that I misassociated Iceland and she was actually Icelandic to which she didn't understand.

Once I busted I spoke to her again and she got the joke. After some light conversation we ended up hitting the neighbouring city for the night. I just met a complete foreign stranger, who is hot and we have transitioned to another city for the night. YES! I am changing!

At the club, I force IOI's from women by "cheersing" as I walked past. Bumped into a girl Francesca who I hooked up with at the beginning of the year and began chatting, took her on the dance floor and began grinding. I done my best to slow things down and escalate sexually but I must have not have done it smooth enough because she turned away on the kiss. Damn! She was hot as well.

I think it's great how we transitioned with this foreign stranger, it shows that I'm developing in terms of my game. I'm working over the weekend but I'll be sure to get back to trying out forcing IOI's, dance game and escalating ASAP at the club.

Until next time,

Mick-Coffu

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."