Hi guys,

Last Thu I met this HB6 one eve, had a great time chatting her 1hr then deliberately left the set when the temperature was high.

Then dated her on Monday after some nice text game, it was her birthday and she was in a library so I texted that I needed to rescue her and we went out; not as good warm feeling as the first time but quite ok and she texts me "thank you so much, I had a great evening, thanks a milion. I didn't realise it was so late. Good night"

She keeps texting me and I reply. Today she says she cried 3 hours for some problems at work and I invite her to my place for a tea and a free hug. She pops up, we have a good time again and she reacts kind of nicely to the kino. She tells me she feels lonely as this is not her hometown and she has no friends (pretty much like me BTW). I hug, caress, she smiles and doesn't pull back. To be quite honest the feeling isn't totally great, probably also because of her little trauma earlier on at work. Anyway I feel like I can progress in the kino and try to kiss close but she rejects, saying "I need to like someone a lot to kiss him". I think she didn't even realize how she had told me something really bad. What the hell!

Ok then I let her go and 5 mins later again she texts me "Thank you so much". I didn't reply to this one. Guys I need help. What's going on here? Have I just been LJBFd? I don't really want to waste my time, what would you guys do, give it another shot or it's lost?


Hugs,
Beadog.

BeaDog,

The way I see it, it's still 50-50.. She didn't pop-up 'LJBF' shit all over you.. She just said "I need to like someone a lot to kiss him". It's still on. Make it happen. Be that someone that can kiss her. There's a possiblity she might want to know you more better, that's why she delayed it. Or there's a possiblity she might be in a long previous relationship and doesn't want to end up with the wrong guy.

Neg her, DHV her, Cat-string her, cocky-funny her, do whatever in your power to make her want you badly for all I care. It's entirely up for you to find out. But remember, don't give in too easily. If I were in your position, I'd be patient and make her say 'I love you' by the end of the day, LOL.

So my conclusion is, do something adventurous with her. Try something new and let her gain new experiences with you. Show her you are the king, and what differentiates between you and other douches. Get it done and play it clean.

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Good boys go to heaven, Bad Boys go everywhere.

Thanks Brown-eyed.

Here's the followup after I didn't reply to her text yesterday I get this today:

Her - thanks for yesterday, everything collapsed and I thought I would break and could not think straight and you were of great help to me, I am very grateful. I can't imagine I could ever return this favour as you seem so composed but if there ever was anything I could do for you I would love to help

Me - it's ok E....a your pink skirt and fancy tights were of great help in twisting the day mood balance upside down

Her - I have more schizophrenic attire if u ever need to borrow. This skirt was one pound on a sale.


Ok so I negged and now switching to silence again, but I am pretty convinced I have been LJBFd guys please comment and vote come on I need support over here!

Hugs,
B.