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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 3:36 am 
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This is my first report. be forgiving!

I k-closed this HB5 this afternoon in like 2 hours of total effort.
After our first date (at Ikea while I was buying furniture for my new house a few weeks ago) I was not even gonna bother k-closing.. HB5 and not my kind of personality.
But, still, I felt in the mood for company this afternoon and HB5 was the only candidate available that could just stop by my place (we had already met so she felt confident - I have only had one girl come to my house on a first date, and did not get the meaning of that early enough!)

Anyway, I ask her to come for a coffee and a movie. She puts up some resistance (would it qualify as shit test?) about how she has stuff to do. I know she is just making excuses and wants to be convinced, so I keep going, and there we go: she agrees to come.
She arrives. I hug her and kiss both cheeks (I found that it is a good kino initiator - does not feel creepy and involves both hands and lips, plus I have the excuse of "that is how we do it in my country" to make it feel OK if she complains)
We sit at the table and play a card game for like an hour. I keep the light touching going. I do not even look for routines to justify it, I just make the touching happen. I also keep eye contact going at times. Not too long. Just a few seconds. I can justify it with me trying to understand the rules of the game. I also intersperse the conversation with hints as to how I am a bad boy for making some mistakes/not understanding all the rules and should get spanked for it.
We are done with the game: I Win!
Me: "do I get a prize?"
HB5: "I do not have any"
Me: "I am sure we can figure out something"
HB5: "I do actually have a prize" and she gets a small plastic golden medal out of her purse. That's my prize. Of course, not what I was gonna ask. I guess I will keep the prize for what comes next.
I suggest we move to the sofa and watch a movie on Netflix. She agrees. We go sit on the sofa. I pick a random movie (I know we won't be watching it for long). As soon as it starts, my arm is behind her. I just start by putting the arm there casually as if for comfort. Then I start playing with her shoulder and slowly rubbing my fingers on it. Then I move to her hair and whisper how she has got nice hair. She laughs and says thanks.
I can tell she likes it but does not know how to react. She does not move my hand away. Just she does not reciprocate.
I play it hard. I caress her neck and say how I like the warmth of it.
HB5: "necks are usually warm"
Me: "why?"
HB5: "to keep blood going"
Me: "and why is that good"
HB5: "blood goes to brain and helps you think"
Me: "I don't do that"
HB5: "and then how do you deal with stuff?"
Me: "I just do what I feel like doing. Like this" *kissing her lips*
She starts laughing and saying how that feels awkward because we do not know each other. I tell her we are in the XXI century and kissing just feels good and is not a bad thing so she should feel ok about it.
She is unsure, and puts up more resistance. But she is certainly down for it since she stays on the sofa and does not change positions.
I tell her we should try again and see if that feels good. At that point she starts returning my kissing. She laughs at times. I just ignore it and keep kissing. After a while I tell her we should try neck kissing and see if that makes her laugh too. She accepts.
We did not go farther than that. I tried moving to her breasts a few times but she stopped me after a few seconds by moving my hand away. I decided I was just ok with cuddling. We hugged for a while on the sofa, her head on my chest and her hands on my sides, and then she had to go. I walked her back to the car and kissed her goodbye.

Definitely not the best make out and it felt weird that she would sit there doing nothing while I was clearly touching her neck. But I needed to show to myself that I could k-close and I did.


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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 8:49 am 
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Good date,

Only one tip I can think of. With a couple of things you gave a reason why you could justify it, i.e. It's what we do in our country or eye contact because you are trying to understand the rules of the game.

How about you did those things because you want to? No need to justify that :)

The reason is say that is that will stop your mind thinking too much and things may run a little bit smoother.


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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 4:30 pm 
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Only one tip I can think of. With a couple of things you gave a reason why you could justify it, i.e. It's what we do in our country or eye contact because you are trying to understand the rules of the game
Thanks for the advice.
I think it was not clear from what I wrote. I did not really say those reasons out loud. I just have them ready if required. Maybe some girl will really be pushed back or put up heavy ASD when touched. So I just know I have a way to make it sound ok in that situation.
Never needed to use those reasons yet :lol:


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