| So last night I was planning to go out to a nightclub in sydney with two friends but of course they bailed so there I was all geed up and left to decide what I wanted to do that night. I only turned 18 two months ago and am still new to the nightclub game so was very anxious but I decided I would just go out alone, which was a very tough decision for me, my heart was pounding just thinking about it. So I decided to combat my nerves I would drink alot before I went out, so I did about half a bottle of yager in fact.
I rocked up at the club at around ten, because I wanted to avoid standing awkwardly alone in the line, so I went in got my stamp and left as it was still quite, hanging around the city for an hour and half. During this time I was texting a girl I k-closed the week before at the same club, she hadn't responded to a text I sent last monday 4 days ago so I decided the only thing to do was to neg. I texted her "Don't get the impression I'm all hung up on just one beautiful girl, if you're out tonight let me know I guarantee you'll have a good time" to which she responds almost straight away, continuing the conversation.
Anyway so I get to the club at around 11:30 and start dancing hitting the d-floor. I dance up with a girl she responds and I end up k-closing with her on the d-floor, following the advice on not leading to seduction still only building attraction I end the kisses artificially early. So probably ten minutes after I met her, I haven't even spoken a word to her yet so I take her out to near the door to where I can talk to her, talk for a little bit getting her name and stuff and tell her she should come and check out my place I live near-by, she says she can't because she has to stay with her friends and so after trying for a minute we just go back to the d-floor and I loose her pretty soon, after number-closing.
Same thing happens again with another chick and I take her to where I can talk, I tell her she should come back to mine. She says the exact same thing that she can't because of her friends but she offers to "do stuff here" while I'm saying she's to pretty to get busy in the bathroom. We end up heading to the bathroom anyway and she's into me but because of how drunk I am I can't get hard, so after a while of fingering her she's like I have to leave to see my friends soon and it's really awkward because she's like is there anything else you want to do here, hinting at f-closing. I don't think she had heard of whisky dick so I have no idea what she thought but yer I couldn't get the job done so we leave and I loose her, number-closing.
I do the same thing with a third chick bring her to the quite area and out of pure coincidence it's the chick I was texting from last week, and she says she can't go back to mine because of her friends AGAIN. So only k-close with her.
And that was my night, probably around a third of the chicks I went to dance with responded, of that probably half k-closed.
From this I have a bunch of questions to those more fluent in the game, how do you get them back to your place? Where these girls more resistant because they where young (all 18-19), or did I just get a bad selection. I know you need to look for chicks who are dtf but honestly there wasn't a single girl who was there dancing alone. Also What should I do with the numbers I have, what's the best way to pursue the f-close.
Also closing comments, There where alot of better looking guys than me who weren't getting girls just because they hesitated and where reluctant to put themselves out there and dance with the chicks, don't be these guys.
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