so me and the guys went out tonight, 4 of us, we went to a lounge and smoked hookah. we noticed 2 girls sitting together. i knew one of them from one of my uni classes but i never talked to her and she saw me as well but i dont know if she recognized me. so my friend told me to go talk to her but i had the initial BBs and didnt. so 15 mins in we did nothing. then we noticed a third girl meet them, a pretty hot blonde. now this whole time im contemplating on talking to her to strike conversation since we had class together and was psyching myself up for it. i talked my friend into it, but there was 3 girls, so we wanted another to come as well, but the other two were pussies about it. neither wanted to go.. all this time i was really ready, but just needed my friend to confirm which wouldve given me the push to do it.

so another 20 mins agoes by.. finally ive had enough. one of the girls get up to leave. leaving just the girl from my class and the blondie left. they were sitting together, and there were 2 seats in front of them open, im thinking to myself, perfect oppurtunity.. im telling my friend, and he says "idk what to say"

i say just say hi, just introduce yourself. ask her to dance. and when she says yes ill sit and talk to the other girl. nope. he says "what if she says no?" what the fuck does that mean. she says no, okay we're done. but i knew they werent going to say no, they were sitting there, prior to the blondie's arrival, both girls were just texting on their phones bored out of their minds. so for 5 minutes im trying to pep talk the shit outta my friend to just come with me. im telling him "yolo, youll never see her again, so what if she says no, if she says no we'll leave, you talk to the blonde and ill talk to A" simple as that, but no, we stand up and then sit down.

side note: i was pretty observant but i know for sure that the girl in my class was looking at me a couple times, shit she even put on her glasses a few times, other than that, im thinking the wall behind my must be pretty interesting. and when we were standing up im trying to tell my friend that the blondie is checking him out. ill put my money on it she was lookin at us and i was trying to tell him but he was bailing on me.

so these girls pretty much knew we were interested. i had a gut feeling that this would work, theyre by themselves, just two, barely conversating moreso on their phones, what you can do on a smartphone while out in that scene i really dont know, aka they were bored as fuck. we couldve stroken up a conversation. had shit to talk bout, but my friend was scared of rejection.

worse case scenario, they dont like our flow, and we leave. but i doubted that. i wasnt tellin him to psych him up either i knew that blondie was lookin our way. but its unfortunate that bitch butterflies strikes again.

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RackRackCity,

It's good to see men here posting and developing their pick-up skills to another whole new different of level and sharing our past experiences.

First of all, good job on indicating I.O.I's. Well done!

Second, don't rely too much on your wing man.. Try to work alone and do your thing. Be independant, because you know you can

Third, don't waste time looking at the targets and sets too long especially when they see you looking more than 3 seconds. After 3 seconds, you'll be a creep or some dude stalking them up. Try to use the 3 seconds rule and approach immediately. Never fear rejection, because like TOYOTA say, "Practice makes PERFECT"!!! Be confident and approach no matter what the circumstances are. Open up with something unique, ask suggestions about your clothes, ask suggestions where to buy cool clothes, neg their fashion tastes, bullshit all you can for all I care. Just approach and be the man that every AFC wants to be.

I just hooked up with a set (4 girls in a coffee shop sitting down at the table) last two days. Here's the story;

Me: Hey girls, I'm having a survey on a report I'm currently doing.
Mother Hen 1: Cool, what's it about?
Mother Hen 2: Yeah??
Mother Hen 3: *smiles
Target 1: *smiles

Me: What would you girls spend on if you were given $10million and you only get to spend it for 3 days??
Mother Hen1: Emm, thats tough.
Mother Hen2: First I'll buy a big house, awesome car, designer's bag, designer's dress, etc.
Mother Hen3: designer's bag, open up a cafe, designer's dress, bla bla bla etc.
Target 1: buy designer's brands, expensive car, jewelleries, big house, investments etc.

From my previous experience, I've applied this to sets and it work 95% effiecient. The answers are (which i made up);
1. Greedy - waste money on fashion, expensive cars, jewelleries.
2. Well planned future - investments, open a restaurant/cafe.
3. Good sense of security - Big houses.
4 Independant woman - buying a car.

And tell them in order of the way they gave me their answers. For eg;
For Target 1 she said, "designer's brands, expensive car, jewelleries, big house, investments etc". I answered, "No.1, you are greedy because wasting money on stuff that doesn't provide any good for the future. No.2, you are an independant woman, because you want your own transportation. No.3, you have a well planned future because you'd invest the money and secure your future. You didn't mentioned about gettin' married so I assume your single". I was confident as hell, and alpha as ever.. After I told them about this they were all 'seeking for my approval' and wanted my attention. They were in disbelief and wanted to know more. So I told the sets that I'd only chose one of them to tell how I got it right. I chose Target1 and pulled her out from the sets which the Motherhens were all dissapointed because they wanted themselves to be picked.

Me: The thing is, you look like *pause and smile* someone I wanna know.. But since your personality is greedy on the top, I don't think I'll be able to milk that shit!! Lol!!
Target 1: Hhahahaha.. No I'm not greedy.. (seeks validation)
Me: Well I guess I'll have to find out (looked into her eyes deeply and slowly moving my lips towards her in a 70% manner, the other 30% she insisted and suddenly kiss closed)

So there it was. Being bold, being brave and confident!! Later that night she called me and wanted to hang. I said, "Lets just stop wasting time and lemme come down to your place". She accepts and the rest, you know what it is!!!

Basically the conclusion is, never rely on your wing man, focus on your body language, negs, openers, theories and confidence!!!

Keep updating more on your progress.. Your doing good, but aim for perfect!! cheers..

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