| So after a few weeks back on the scene and 4 months between FC's I went to see my house mates play at a local gig. Local gigs have few people so pickup wasn't on the agenda, however housemate1's sister came out and brought her HB7 friend, who's got large breasts, linear figure, nice face, fiery red hair tied up in a pony tail, pouty lips.
I've hardly met this girl but on this night I started throwing down the usual playful banter/negs in-between talking to random musos.
After the gig the 5 of us hit the bar and the banter went from fun and friendly immediately into playful sex talk between me and HB7 whilst conversating in the group.
Immediately she playfully whips out "I live nearby, you should come back to my place" with a smile, like a cavalry flanking maneuver this throws me completely off guard, rearing the horses around I'm trying to check if this is a shit test since it seems too quick and too easy (very little kino occurred to this point), i throw out a casual line "you live around here?", and we go back to small sexual innuendo before my house mates want to leave.
Me being designated driver I reluctantly take my house mates home plus housemate1's sister, which leaves HB7 out with 2 random cowboys from interstate who joined the circle not long before, of which one also seems interested in HB7.
I number close and suggest that I'll come back and continue the party.
An hour lapses and I rock back to the venue to see cowboy1 with arms around her just about to go in for the kiss, she sees me, gets up, walks to me and we hit the dance floor (DF) immediately ...whilst cowboy1 is in stun mode. Seems I saved her from an awkward situation.
On the DF we do some heavier kino, and in AFC form I spend far too much time building comfort, she seems to be liking me too much. Some other AMOG comes in and starts lifting her around for a song, after she gets put down I figure its time to take her up on the original offer, and so we go back to her place, casual as you like.
Directly to her bedroom we start throwing our clothes off before hitting the bed, in the sheets we kiss a bit then she puts up LMR as says "you know we're not having sex tonight". Sirens sounding i play it down and say "who said anything about sex" then proceed to start biting on her neck with more kissing. After a bit more she pulls away again and seems adamant so I give up, I'm tired. We spend the night spooning each other.
Next day I wake up late and have to go to work, a kiss goodbye then a week later after a small amount of playful non-sexual txt messages she calls up late one night and immediately says "so you want to have sexual relations?". I say "sounds like fun", in 20mins I'm at her place in her bed and she again says "I'm not sure if we should do anything", this time I definitely don't buy it and after some heavy kissing and foreplay her underwear is off and 4 months of sitting on the bench are finally over, FC complete.
I learnt a few things from this episode:
I could have had her back at her place far sooner without all the comfort building that happened later on in the first evening, this seemed to place me into being too good a guy to want to sleep with on the 1st night. Being more decisive has big benefits.
Sometimes things just click, as opposed to fighting tooth and nail with a previous HB9 for attention, it doesn't have to be that way if you're willing to look around more and take any luck that comes your way. _________________ If there's grass on the wicket lets play cricket.
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